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writes:Does my boyfriend have a reason to be upset? We had plans last night to go watch a movie preview.. begins at midnight. Well we both got off work and I headed off to class. I get off from class about 10:00p.m. and he had time to be at home and rest awhile before we left to the movies. Well he said sraight from class to my house so that we have about an hour or so to have a quickie.. I was like ok. Well 10:00p.m. came and I walked out of class super tired..I stopped by my house to take a quick shower n freshen up because I've been out on the street all day. And needed that quick shower to help me stay up. Long story short..he had said after our quickie we'll leave about 11:15p.m. or so and that will be fine. So, I get to his house at 11:15p.m. and he's bothered. Now he switched the story and said..we're running late! Well we made it in enough time and watched a good movie. I don't get it! He's still a bit bothered.. He says 'the thing is you said you would drive straight from school to my house.' Is it the whole sex issue? By the way..it's happened before where there's no sex and he gets bothered, quiet for awhile. So, maybe it's happening again?!? If this is the case, should I just ignore it. I did last night and that might of got him more upset. He's used to me asking, and asking then giving me the whole guilt trip. Please Help! Reply to this Question
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reader, Full moon temptress1  +, writes (6 March 2009):
I personally am a stickler for being on time,howenver i feel he is being alittle silly,particulary when the sex comes into it.Did he have a time scale for that.He does sound a little controlling to me,and you have to fit into his plans
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2009): Ignore it. You had a valid reason for being late. It was a tight schedule to begin with.
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reader, OmegaXF +, writes (6 March 2009):
 He wanted some and when he couldn't get none he had to use arch enemies Lotion and Baby Oil. I'd be mad to but that's overdoing it.
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