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writes:There is a guy who likes me a lot and wants to marry me...we haven't met each other for lst few years and recently we met for the first time in my house,we had casual talks and then for the second time again at my home but just 2 of us were there. After sometime he started touching me,tried to hug me and finally he kissed me but i tried to stop him from doing like that. After reaching home he sent me a msg saying sorry if he crossed the limits and promised not to repeat that. What should i say? I like him.... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2008): thanks for all those responses.it helped me a lot.he proposed to me abt 4 yrs bck.thn onwards he hd been cnstntly trying to get a positve reply frm my side.bt i used to find excuses n smhw escape tht qn everytime v hd a conversation.wn v met for the first time in my house,my family ws thr with us.v al sat togethr n tlkd.nxt day again v met bt v wr alone at home.at first he startd teasing me,thn slowly he touched my body as if it hapnd unknowingly.it was fun ,thn he tried to embrace me n started kissing me.i dnt knw whthr he had any bad intentions in his mind.bt if he had any, thn he could hv taken advantage of the situationthe previous day itself.nw as he has apologised to me for wt he did on tht day,i feel sad bcz i love him.he tried to express his love bt i cldnt respond in the same way.iwas feelin shy n he tht i ws nt happy.he thinks that watever he did has hurt me n he promised nt to repeat that.im confused...
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (19 September 2008):
Well as long as he stopped when you told him to then I don't think you have to worry.
If he is in love with you then he may try and kiss you.
As long as he respects your rules and boundaries then just tell him you accept his apology and can't wait to see him again.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, oikid11  +, writes (19 September 2008):
 Believe him. He probably just couldn't think straight....if you used to bed friends, he must already feel close.
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reader, Hopeful Romantic +, writes (19 September 2008):
 Maybe say... "No worries & no limits crossed - I just don't want to rush things."
AND maybe throw in "I like you" at the end, but that's up to you.
You may also want to ask at the end of the text you send, "When can I see you again?" OR "When do you want to get together again?"
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