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Breaking up with my bf would hurt but I would feel a little better...what should I do??

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Question - (18 September 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 19 September 2008)
A female United States age 26-29, *ikid11 writes:

Alright, I've got this boyfriend. Sometimes, we're sickening sweet, we don't kiss or anything (Against my wants) but he gave me a gift recently, with a bunch of suff in it, he pats my back, and always gets mad at anyone that picks on me, and protects me. But other times, we fight like cats and dogs. Not really fight, but we don't ever hang out.

Ever. I mean, today, we weren't really talking. My friend Samantha goes "C'mon move over to this table with me!" to another friend, thinking I was shy. And the other was like "Later Samantha....I've gotta tell them something," and Samantha sighed. I offered to move with her, and she smiled,and we went. And my boyfriend just said "Hey, ohh, uhhh whatever" So I just shook it off, and he didn't even bother trying to stop me. Now, that doesn't bother me. But then, after, he goes "Hey, why were you itting next to that guy?" First, I wasn't sitting next to him.I was Across and to the left, becaus that's where Samantha wanted us to sit. So, I told him that, and then how he didn't try to stop me. And he ignored me. Alright, fine. that's just part of my problem.

Next, there's this wicked cute guy.And he was a heart throb at his old school, or that's what his classmate says. And she's my friend, and I believe her. Everyone falls for him, and a girl kept goimng on about how he liked her and all but now she hates him. Hmmm, I think something went very wrong. Anyways, I dunno, but I catch him, watching me. Like, I'll look up, and I'll see him wtching me. That's good. Ad I'll smile, and he'll smil;e back, and w'll catch glances, and stare for a few seconds, then I'll get embarassed, and look down quickly. God, he's hot.

Anyways, I'll look up again, to watch him, and he looks upa second later or so, and we catch eyes again, and I look away again. And I'm afraid that I'll start gigglin like an idiot, and blush, and start confessing. That's bad. But then, I have dwarfism. Peole think I'm weak. With my bones, ya. With my muscles? Uhhh, NO.

So whenever I have to switch my desk for a small one with a student, I'll pick it up, and switch them. And he just stares, and stuff, and he's just like "Need help?" and I shake my head, and giggle, and look down, before I look like a twit. And then, yesterday, I tried to offer him my raffle ticket (sometihing, like a rewards system) and he just smiled and shook his head. And he was like "gloria's that's yours, not mine, Gloria keep it, its alright...." and I jus smiled and giggled. Then, the kd that I went to school with last year was like "I'll take it!" and I kept teasing him, and it was a huge joke. Then, the boy was the only boy that I barely knew at the time, to jump up, and offering to help me. then, he started helping me with mny bag, and such.

So, I'm pretty sure he likes me, but is he just being kind? Should I ask him out? But, then I'd have to break up with my boyfriend, which would suck, because we used to be bff's before we lost an f, and became girlfriend and boyfriend. So, I don't want him to hate me. but, I really like this guy. But, should I just wait and hope he asks ME out? but I dunno if he wil, because I have dwarfism, and he doesn't, and he'll be embarassed or something. And if he does, I'm pretty sure I'll accept. I'm pretty much positive. But, then I'd have to break up with my boyfriend, which would hurt, but yet I'd feel a little better. What should I do?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2008):

Im no expert at relationship advice or anything but arents you a little young to be interested in a boy friend. You should wait a few years later before getting into this stuff. Right now just be friends in the future time will take its cource, Also seriously your 12 wouldnt your mom be angry at you having a BF at this age?

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