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writes:I'm 18 years old and have been with my boyfriend for almost three years. he has lived with me and my family for most of the time we have been together. I have just found out I am Pregnant and things between us are getting worse. He treats my mother with such disrespect, After all she has done for him. when he gets mad he will destroy our house he has flipped our couches and punches holes in the walls. and he will walk out of our house leave and stay gone for a little while then come back in, go to bed, and act like he never did anything. I'm not in love with him anymore and I'm scared to break up with him because his anger problem. And I want things to get better for the baby but if They dont I dont know what I should do. Reply to this Question
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reader, fortoner +, writes (19 September 2008):
You obviously don't love him, which makes it eaiser for you... tell him the truth... raising a child that young is going to be hard enough, you don't want an angery boyfriend to make it even harder... if you mother wants him out and you want him out then do all in your power to kick him out now... call the cops, get a restraining order, anything... it has to be done
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reader, indecisive1  +, writes (18 September 2008):
Get him out of your life, it will only get worse. If you have to get him arrested and get a restraining order.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2008): I would never let anyone disrespect my house my family and especialy not my mom!!!!
I would kick the freeloader out. Get an AB. Get and order of protection and move on. Obviously he doesn't care about you or your family. He doesn't appreciate anything that you've done for him and he definately doesn't appreciate you.
I'm sorry but what kind of father do you think he'll be.
Besides your only 18 and your have your whole life ahead of you. Don't waste it on a loser!
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reader, Devil Spawn  +, writes (18 September 2008):
 talk to your parents, then kick him out. Call the cops if you have to
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