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writes:i m a very good looking female.once there was a time guyz used to think i am very sexy.my voice, my dressing sense n the way i used to carry myself all depicted a lot of sexappeal.the only thing is that i m very chidish too.but now for last some days i m getting the feeling that people dont find me sexy any more however i m still same person.but i ve become a little more childish.this thing is eating me up. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2008): I'm 45, and feel sexier than I ever did in my twenties. I catch guys watching me, I've been called a MILF, and it's been a little bizarre.
I'm a rather eccentric dresser. My job allows me to be very creative. I began wearing my daughter's things, gave in to my curly hair, let my gray go as wild as it wanted to, and I pretty much have fun, and don't give a rip...and you know what I got? One of the most powerful men I know will hang out with me, and say, "well, you know, you've just got that confidence, guys aren't used to that..." So, I'm here to tell 'ya, childish may not be where it's at.
That said, appearance is only an envelope, it's pretty worthless if there's nothing inside.
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reader, lexilou  +, writes (17 May 2008):
 When we are younger we can get away with being girly and acting sweet and innocent and it can be appealing to guys. However as we age the men we fancy and who fancy us age too and are looking for someone a little bit more mature and sure of themselves. If you act childish it could just make you seem needy and high maintenance so stop the act and just try and be more confident and self sufficient, not too much though!! Good luck x
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