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What can I do to make him stop this? It's freaking me out.

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Question - (9 December 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 9 December 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *aybee-x-sparkii writes:

Hi i was wondering if you can help me, I'm in a relationship have been for seven months, and I have this ex (it was a very young relationship) and he is still "in love with me" after 5 years (strange to me but anyway), is it normal for a person to text 70 times in a day and a half to say that there sorry for what they ahve done, I hate him for what he has done now.

What can I do about making him stop this. Its freaking me out...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2008):

Perhaps he really jst wants you to see how sorry he is for what ever he done!!

Why don't you jst ask him to stop texting so much?

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A female reader, bubbloo24 Isle of Man +, writes (9 December 2008):

bubbloo24 agony auntGo to your phone network place, wherever it is and get his number blocked. Have you text him and said you do not want this amount of attention and that it's pointless?

It is definitly not normal for someone to texts 70 times in such a short amount of time.

Block him and keep away from him and he'll hopefully get the message. If he continues or gets worse, talk to your parents about it and they may well inform the police.

If it does get to that stage he'll probably get shaken up into realising he shouldn't be doing this.

Don't let this continue, he probably still thinks he's got a chance but make sure he knows that he doesn't have one and that nothing he can do will change that simple fact.

Don't text him back, ever. Sometimes guys take this as a hint that you like them back. So don't give him the chance to get ideas above his station.

All the best xx

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A male reader, Neeraj060 India +, writes (9 December 2008):

Neeraj060 agony auntIt's not normal for a person to be thinking of someone else the whole time be become carzy.They try to achieve the think that they want by hook or by the crook.

If you want your current relationship to work tell your boyfriend that has been going on ans also let him knon that you don't like this guy.

Also meet this person in personal along with your boyfrind and let him know that thing will not work out between you.

Let him know that you like the idea hat soemone loves you but do clarify to him that you love someone else and that he should not waste his time and move on in life.

Tell him if he like you won't he like you to be happy in life.

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