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Archived questions from: 5 October, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He keeps hurting me! I keep loving him! Should I give him another chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 328 days ago

5 October 2007 (F) - Hi guys. I've met this great guy, let's call him Tom in May. We met at work. He was really sweet, he bought me flowers and everything was perfect.We started dating.In July I had to leave the town for a month. He replied for my two e-mails and that's ...

Am I abusive? Is he abusive? or both of us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

5 October 2007 (F) - Am I abusive, is my fiance, or are we both? Yesterday I broke up with my fiance for the 50th time, and he just sat there and booked a trip online and said he loved me but that he wasn't going to try to stop me anymore. We argue so much that I just ...

She always flirts and I'm worried she will cheat, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

5 October 2007 (M) - I am with my first girlfriend ever and also the first girl I have ever slept with. We have been together for 6 months and she says I make her happier than anyone else ever has. Well we were close friends for nearly 3 years before we started going ...

I was drunk, can't remember if we had sex, and he won't tell me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

5 October 2007 (F) - ive liked this lad for ages, and was thrilled when we went on a date, we madeout n stuff but hes kinda just usin me and messing me about, like when i wanna see him he won't and he will ignore me, but then he changes aand he acts like my bf, so the ...

I don't know how this can help but...................

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

5 October 2007 (M) - Below is an account for the last three years of my relasonship with my partner, i don't know what i want to acchive from writing this i don't even know why i'm writing this but i am still in this relasonship and i hate it but can't leave why? I do...

My boyfriend doesn't respect my feeling when it comes to his ex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

5 October 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend now for 5 months and I have a big problem – one of his ex-girlfriends. They have been broken up for over 3 years, didn’t go out for very long and my boyfriend says he never thought of her as anything other than a frien...

"He loves me, he loves me not," I'm confused..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

5 October 2007 (F) - hello when i met my boyfriend five months ago, we both agreed to have fun and see how it goes. i felt though that in the beginning he was unwilling to commit. he is extremely kind to me very thoughtful and very helpful. he never however told me ...

We used to watch porn together - now he does it more often and we have sex less! Is this a problem or am I trippin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

5 October 2007 (F) - Ok so my boyfriend is 33 and I am 22. We have been together for a little over three years. When we got together I knew he watched porn, I didnt have a problem with that because I watch as well, sometime with him. For the last few days he has started ...

My husband dated this woman while we were separated, and she says her child is his, which I can't accept! We're happily married and also have a child together. Should I stay with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 308 days ago

5 October 2007 (F) - Hello Need some advice. My boyfriend at the time who is now my husband separated for a little over a year. We have recently gotten married and are happy. Until I found out that the girl he was dating had a baby, and she says that it is his. Nee...

Holding out until marriage, but the plans haven't begun.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

5 October 2007 (M) - I have been with my fiance for 6 years and engaged for 2 and a half of them. We have never had sex. She says she wants to wait until marriage and I agreed to that. So I proposed with the intention of getting married soon after. Now its 2-1/2 ye...

My boyfriend isn't motivated.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

5 October 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for two and a half years. We met when I was 16 and he was 17. At first things were great, and somethings still are. However, he isn;t motivated to do anything with his life. It's been like this for almost a ...

My boyfriend's sister-in-law wants to date him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 329 days ago

5 October 2007 (F) - i have been dating this guy for almost 3 yrs. even though we broke for a short time. we are back together and dating exclusively. he has a sister-in-law that is trying to get him as a bf. her son and my boyfriend's daughter are pushing this too. ...

Am I just being paranoid or jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

5 October 2007 (M) - Do I have cause for concern here or am I just jealous? I started seeing a chick, and she has a ton of friends who're guys, and I always see myspace pictures of her drinking with these guys, and them having their arms around her and whatnot. ...

His mum died and he's becoming drunk every night. What can I do to help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

5 October 2007 (F) - Hi. I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now and things are at the point where we are discussing maybe sharing a flat together next year. Recently (about 2 weeks ago) his mum died of cancer and I've really tried to be there for him as ...

Is he still interested in his ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

5 October 2007 (F) - My bf of 3 years still talks to his ex. He talks to her almost everyday. This bothers me and I have told him so in several occasions. It really does bother me specially b/c he is doing it behind my back. We live in different states and his ex ...

Why is he convinced I am cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 318 days ago

5 October 2007 (F) - hi im wandering why my man is convinced ive been cheating, there is no real evidence against me only a phone number that is my cousins. There isn't a name, an address, a place of residence nothing yet he continues to say I have a (friends with ...

I have a bf but this new guy carries on flirting with me. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 316 days ago

5 October 2007 (F) - I have had a boyfriend for four years but we have to be apart because of the nature of my work. i met a new guy and he always flirts on me. He made me fall for him. The problem is when he felt that i'm falling for him he just didn't mind and did not ...

Son-in-law is controlling father-in-law's dating life

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

5 October 2007 (F) - what do you think about a son-in-law controlling his father-in-laws date life? the father-in-law fears that the son-in-law will take it out on his daughter when he finds out that the father-in-law is back with his girlfriend after being broken u...

My daughter has turned her back on her family in favour of an older man! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 313 days ago

5 October 2007 (F) - Help me my daughter 19 previously a loving member of our family has found a 34 boyfrind(manfriend) who has whisked her away to live in a flat with him. We have never met him, and although we tried to reason with her, and then just resorted to being ...

I think he bought the new computer just to look for porn! He's trying to hide what he does, but I found out. I feel betrayed!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

5 October 2007 (F) - I know you have heard this a thousand times before. I have just discovered tha my partner has been looking for porn. I know that guys do this sometimes, but what is really scaring me is I think he has set up a separate profile on our computer and ...

She says she wants to be mates, but I like her more than a mate! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

5 October 2007 (M) - I really like the girl I'm with right now, but she says she wants to make mates. But I like her more than a mate, I can't stop texting or can't stop thinking of her. I really like her and she thinks good of me she does like me, but how can I tell ...

How can I get my partner to love me as much as I love her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 327 days ago

5 October 2007 (M) - It took about three years of hardwork to win the heart of the love of my life.Almost one year into the relationship,my love tells me that she is finding it difficult to bring herself to love me as much as i do her.She had always told me she was ...

I've found my soulmate and I love him! But, he's married! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 319 days ago

5 October 2007 (F) - I am dating a married man. We were instantly attracted to one another, but with him being married, we opted to be friends. We have been close friends for the past 2 years, we have the same interests, we can talk about anything, we respect one ...

We only see each other once a week, but he says he needs to spend more time w/ his troubled sister!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

5 October 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I see each other once a week, but he is having sister issues I am giving him his space, but I really need him. What should I do, I dont want to be selfish. He said we should cool it down, and that he should spend more time with his ...

I left a note saying I had a crush on her and she said thanks. I'm having trouble reading her, is she flirting or avoiding me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

5 October 2007 (M) - Been trying to get a signal/response from a female at work.I left a note saying I had a crush on her.She said thank you after finding out.I mostly have to initiate the conversation at work.I am having trouble reading her.Is she avoiding me?What ...

I constantly worry about my relationship! I know it's silly, but it's driving me mad!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 329 days ago

5 October 2007 (F) - Hi. My bf and I have been together 18 months and are happy. I don't get to see him that often because of his work when he is in the area. Maybe once or twice a week every day I wake up and the only work I can use is I panick. I worry about if he ...

I love my husband, but I love my affair (who is breaking it off with me) too! I feel so lost.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 329 days ago

5 October 2007 (F) - hi. im married for almost 7 years and have a kid with my husband. Lately this year i fall in love to guy who is married too. We both know we are married but we fall in love..yes i felt he loved me. For the first time we spend the night together we ...

I think he cheated, but it was a year ago, how do I get to the truth?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

5 October 2007 (F) - I suspect that my spouse cheated before we got married. We've only been married a little over a year but shortly after we got married there was some references made towards him cheating, he was very secretive about his cell phone and calls. I went ...

I don't know whether to accept the situation or not.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

5 October 2007 (F) - I met a guy last year online and we instantly clicked. We started dating and discovered we had a lot of things in common and the subject of marriage came up quickly. He proposed to me within a month after meeting me. To make a long story short, ...

I got my friend to call him, and he denied being my boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

5 October 2007 (M) - Myself and my boyfriend have been going out for five months now but he never told me he loved me till the day i decided to text him by telling my friend to call him without him knowing we were friends,i had been with him day before the call and we ...