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Archived questions from: 19 October, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Why will he not kiss me on the lips?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6041 days ago

19 October 2007 (F) - Why will he not kiss me on the lips? We have known each other for 3 years through work, and have become very close friends. He is forever touching, stroking, pinching and cuddling me. He loves stroking my legs and he loves my tumy .He tells me i h...

What exactly does "taking a break mean"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6041 days ago

19 October 2007 (M) - What exactly does "taking a break mean"? She still calls me and talks to me and wants to see me and says she loves me. Very confused. Please help....

My gut says he's cheating but I don't want to believe it

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

19 October 2007 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 years is also the father to our 1 year old daughter. Ive always been scared that he would cheat on me. A couple of months back I checked his email and a girl wrote scandoulous things to him saying how she missed sleeping with him ...

Is it abuse when I have no voice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

19 October 2007 (F) - Was he abusive? I need reassurance that he was abusive, that it wasn't my fault. I am no longer with my fiance (thank God), but moving on and sorting out all that has happened is still hard. The weekend before I broke up with him we went with his ...

It's one rule for him and another for me. Are his double standards acceptable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

19 October 2007 (F) - My b/f and I have been together for a little over 3 years, we were best friends before that. When we first got together my b/f had lost his job of 8yrs and was in a real slump (emotionally at first, then financially). Me being the person I am ...

My sensei is hitting on me! What do I say to him? Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

19 October 2007 (F) - I am female, I'm 28. I take martial arts classes. Over the past few months I've been at the dojo/school...I've noticed that my sensei/instructor has been hitting on me more and more as time progresses. He will do things like: - Put his arm arou...

My partner is an environmentalist and I'm tired of being getting lectured and reprimanded! I feel like a child!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

19 October 2007 (F) - My boyfriend is French and I'm American. We do very well together excepting one thing. I have many bad habits and I'm very bad at being an environmentalist (in which he is). He tells me what I ought to be doing and for the most part he is usually ...

I feel he should be more committed and that he treats me poorly but my shouting and crying don't seem to be working. How do I spend more time with him without feeling I'm forcing him to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6033 days ago

19 October 2007 (F) - Hi. I've been seeing a guy on and off for the last nine years ... a long old time. We got together when we were still at school, I'm 25 now. After an 8 month break we got back together in June 07. In the past we have both hurt each other - we ...

I'm feeling tied down by my serious relationship - but I don't want to break up! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6041 days ago

19 October 2007 (M) - Dear cupid.. Before I got together with my current girlfriend, I wasn't ready to get involved in a serious relationship. My life was in a mess and I promised myself that I wouldnt get involved with anyone until I had sorted things out. I had made ...

How do I confront her about her low sex drive? If you want to have sex, wouldn't you find a way, regardless of how tired and stressed you were?? Also she doesn't seem to appreciate me: I cook, clean, pay bills...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

19 October 2007 (M) - So I've been with my fiancee a total of 10 months now. We got engaged about 1 month ago. Things with her are great, except for our sex life. To give you some background, I'm 31, she's 25. She's had quite a "colorful" past, and many lovers (som...

This are his excuses. Should I wait for him to make up his mind or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

19 October 2007 (F) - its melba again. The issue is that he said that the problem is not me, that he has problems and wanted to solve them alone as some of them the are so bad that i would think the worst of him. He said that he does not know whats happening to him, as ...

Was I being totally selfish and clingy and was it too much to ask of him to hold me a few minutes? He said he was tired from work and didn't feel like it; I felt rejected.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

19 October 2007 (F) - Hey all, I am in a bit of a dilema, Me and my fiance' have been together for 2 and half years. We met on the computer and a little over a year later I moved to be with him. About a month and half ago I found out he had a one night stand with his ...

I'm married, but thinking of an ex! I'm so confused and don't know what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

19 October 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid, I seem to be in a lot of confusion...i have been married for 3 years now. i also have a son of 2 years with my husband. My problem is that my past relationships seem to haunt me terribly in the sense that i would love to revive the...

My bf's constant calling is driving me crazy!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

19 October 2007 (F) - My boyfriend likes to spend hours on the phone everyday he phones me about 20 times a day, this is driving me mad and I don't want to spend all the time on the phone he thinks it's because I don't want to be with him anymore which isn't the case ...

Boyfriend is always intruding into who I see and why. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

19 October 2007 (F) - I'm been with my boyfriend for almost 3 yrs. and I hate it when he tells me a story and leave out (the important parts) but when his friends are over he tells them the real thing. Also I don't like it when he gets to stop and talk to females he use ...

He jacked off earlier and told me during sex why he was taking so long. It made me angry!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

19 October 2007 (F) - Recently my bf and i were having sex and he was taking a really long time... so I started to feel self-concsious that I was doing something wrong. Then he said "Don't worry... it's not your fault... I "jacked off" today." I was so mad and hurt by...