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Archived questions from: 17 October, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Ever felt like their actions don't tell you they love you but their words do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

17 October 2007 (F) - Ever feel like you are in a relationship where you loves a person very much and they say they love you back but their actions don't it at all? I do everything for my bf but i feel that isn't not equally back. He gives better attention to his...

Condoms keep going missing, but it seems impossible that he's cheating!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 449 days ago

17 October 2007 (F) - Well, here I am again -- the saga of the missing condoms continues. I wrote a few weeks ago about a collection of condoms in my boyfriend's closet, that have been disappearing. Many of you and some of my guy friends stated that my boyfriend may be ...

He's stressed and I feel neglected

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 446 days ago

17 October 2007 (F) - I could really use some advice. I have been seeing a really top guy for 8months now. Everything had been going great. At the beginning it was me who had all the reservations but now im so confused and it hurts so much. We have very similar interests ...

Something's wrong with me cuz I dumped a loser?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 449 days ago

17 October 2007 (F) - What do you guys think of a 29 year old guy thta lives with his mom and dad, doesn't lift a finger to help his mom around the house who works midnights in a nursing home and is in her 60's, does not work and has not worked in 1.5 years, says ...

My girlfriend thinks I'm cheating because she wants me to stop this female friend from calling me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

17 October 2007 (M) - my girlfriend thinks i'm cheating because she wants me to stop another female friend of mine from calling but i said no. How do i convince her i'm not cheating? ...

Why do I stay when he beats me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 449 days ago

17 October 2007 (?) - why does my boyfiend beat me up? i have been with him just over 6 months and we have started having sex but only because he wants it. if we aregue he always hits me. he starts arguements to bilittle me and he says hes scared of me breaking up with ...

I am simply not used to being with a man who can touch a woman and not want her. We have sex once a week; he says it'd be more often if I complained less!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 449 days ago

17 October 2007 (F) - For whatever reason of his, we started having sex once a week. I complain and he says that if I complained less we would have sex more often. I am tormented and depressed. I still talk to him about my unmet needs, it's like a therapy for me, but I ...

He rows with me every time I wish to go out with my friends but he goes on holidays with his wife and says they're just friends? Am I a fool?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 448 days ago

17 October 2007 (F) - i have been seeing a man for three years who has been seperated from his wife for 5 years, however, he phones her every day, spends one day a week with her, and has now gone away on holiday with her. he says they are just friends and that they are ...

I feel I am being used

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

17 October 2007 (?) - i have a really attractive boyfriend and he always flirts with other girls. everyone seems to fancy him and he likes it. i have been with him for 2 years and i love him like mad but it seems like he would rather be wit other girls than me.all we ...

I want to stop being needy

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 449 days ago

17 October 2007 (F) - I am totaly lost. About 3 months ago I broke up with my ex bf (he didnt treat me right). It was hard though because i was dependent on him to make me feel good, to make me feel valued and important. Yet i did it and wanted to work on myself. Ive ...

I went to Japan to vist my gf for our anniversary and her parents say I'm stalking her and will call the police!! I can't even speak w/ her now b/c of them!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

17 October 2007 (M) - im a 17 yr old guy,me and this girl have been together for a year and a half,she went to japan with a couple people from her shcool and 2 teachers,before she went to japan she grabbed me by the hands and said that she wanted to celebrate our 2 years ...

I'm unhappily married and recently started an affair. Is this so wrong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 443 days ago

17 October 2007 (F) - I am unhappily married and i think it is too late. i recently started an affair with a man from my past who is also married. he blows hot and cold. i think we are soul mates and believe i am falling in love. i would be quite happy to stay in my ...

I failed..What do I do now? Can I make things better?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

17 October 2007 (M) - I have made unforgivable choices this year and now am paying the price; I want to put things right but have I done too much? Below are the details to the best of my recollection, I suspect that I have not covered everything or all the minute d...

I know better but I want him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

17 October 2007 (F) - am 26 years old,am in love with a 46 year old man who is a real player,for the first 6months he was all i ever dream t off,later i found out that he was involved with many other women but keeps on denying it.he insists that they are just good ...

He says I'm difficult

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

17 October 2007 (F) - I'm still trying to get over the man who left me for his baby momma and i have another problem. i promised myself after this relationship i would give myself time to see what i want and not give into mens demands unless i'm ok with it. I have met ...

Why hasn't my boyfriend contacted me for a week since visiting his sister 3 weeks ago?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

17 October 2007 (F) - help i'm in urgent need of advice or else i'm gonna go crazy.well my boyfriend visited his sister and has been gone for 3 weeks,anyway he was calling me everyday but now he has stoped. i havent heard from him in a week now and i refuse to call him ...

Relationship going on for years, worth it or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

17 October 2007 (F) - I'm 6 years in a relationship that's not going to the next level. I didn't ever hear a word that he loves me.We're intimate, sometimes, only once a month. I do everything for him. When I tell him I'm done with the relationship he doesn't want to ...

How do I cope with losing my babies and not push my fiance away??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

17 October 2007 (F) - please help me I've been going through alot and really need some good advice as i cant stop hurting and cry. My fiance is very understanding and there for me but i know he is hurting too. I can't be there for him. I feel like i do try but i feel l...

I am not coping with this break up well

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 442 days ago

17 October 2007 (F) - Help me please, because I really don't think I am capable of dealing with this situation. I really love this guy and he loves me. We broke up 4 weeks ago. The reason for the breakup was basically, his alcoholism. We've been together for mor...

How do I handle my situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

17 October 2007 (F) - My Guy Asked me to get married in the most romantic way and yet here I am 2 months later asking for help.. He was married before, although that ended badly they talk (which in my opinon is a good thing At least for the kids and the new wife (me) ...