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Archived questions from: 3 October, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I kissed a friend on the cheek and my boyfriend wont let it go

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year. We really do love each other and care about each other. However, we've been having issues. We have a mutual close friend (call him Charles), that I am very close to. I hadn't seen him in awhile and du...

We are supposedly 'on a break', but the relationship really hasn't changed. I want to officially be his girlfriend again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me because he is depressed. He has a lot of stuff going on with his family and the 2 jobs he works. He said it is not fair for me to be in a relationship like this since he can't see me as often as we both would like. He ...

My long distance girlfriend says she loves me, but isnt IN love with me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 437 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - My fiancee and I broke up two months ago so she could figure out what as wrong and why she wasn't feeling the same way she had when we started dating. We were together for four years and also long distance relationship, but we visit each other ...

My girlfriend's sex drive has gone!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 445 days ago

3 October 2007 (M) - hey, my girlfriend and i have been dating for 3 years...on and off, but she doesnt have a sex drive anymore. nothing at all, and she gets mad at me when i hint off or tell her that im still taking interest in you, and i want you etc etc also, on ...

Is he with me just cause it is convenient, or does he really care?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 459 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - Here is a good one. I am 46, been with the same guy for 13 months. We get along so well, but the problem is he isnt in love with me.He has been up and down lately with feelings, and when I bring up what his future plans are he says he doesnt know. ...

I'm confused about my new feelings. Should I persue this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - hey all... bit of a dilemma lol.. i am gay and i recently met a girl who is also gay. im 18 and she is 23, we got on really well.. and i started to fall for her. One night i was out with friends and her friends and i told her best mate...

She wants me to "get over her", but I can't.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

3 October 2007 (M) - Please don't judge this situation 'cos I don't understand it myself. I went out with a girl six months ago. We had a good time but after a month her ex and the dad of her kid wanted her back. She said that she felt it derserved one more try. Over ...

We're engaged but then she starts acting weird... turns out she had a "crush" on another guy and is wondering "what if"... Will this work for us?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 464 days ago

3 October 2007 (M) - My fiance and I have been together about 1.5 years. We just recently got engaged and everything was fine. We had talked alot prior to the engagment and she had told me thats def. what she wanted. But soon after our engagment she started acting ...

Am I right to say to my Dad, I get no attention just because my sister's pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 464 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - Ok, When my mum died about 5 years ago me my older sister who is now 15 and my dad lived on our own because my two sisters left home for older men. I was only young i didnt understand much but i do now. I know why they both left home and it makes me ...

He treat me and my cats like crap! Stay or Leave?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 232 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - hi i have asked a question about my bf before, as he always goes to the gym and comes home late all week, and now he upsets my pet cats to get at me, my 3 cats are rescued house cats and are very spoilt and mean the world to me, my bf will lift them ...

My bf's daughter and her husband seem to want to control my bf's life..far too much! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - i have been dating a man for the past 2years and 10 months. we broke up twice but are now somewhat back together. i know that we each need to have our own friends and activities, but what do you guys see as a schedule for seeing each other. he ...

I'm crazy about my teacher! He's off limits, I know, how do I deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 464 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - I need help :( Okay so im crazy about this man :'( but he is out of bounds, he is my teacher :S he is always so nice to me and flirts with me and knows what im scared of and he calls me nicknames and always says im his star pupil... he has ...

My fiance doesn't want this baby!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 453 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - Im 24 and I just got engaged to my fiance 25 of 3 1/2 yrs. and I just found out that im pregnant. this is my first child but not my fiance's he already has a 5 yr old daughter that we both love to death. and im overwhelmed with being pregnant. Im so ...

Big trust issues over my girlfriend's past relationships...advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

3 October 2007 (M) - Alright, I haven't been with my "girlfriend" for long, but it is most definitely serious and have already made plans.. The topic for discussion here is not that I'm jumping into it to quick or anything. She is 9 Years older than me, and maybe that ...

Why did he flaunt me like that. Was he trying to make her jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 464 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - my ex just broke up with a girl he always runs to from his past (he calls her his rebound) the other day we were out on a date, and he saw her cousins and some of his friends, he asked me to stay around them and flaunted me in front of his rebound's ...

I feel great when my bf is with me, bad when he's not. When he says he's having a good time with his mates, I feel as if I don't matter. Why can't I be happy (for him)?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 464 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together now for nearly 10 months. I love him very much and i know he loves me. But its like it hurts me to love him. I feel so crap when hes not there, and i feel great when were together. I worry that he doesnt like ...

He left me for another; now we're back together but feel I'm constantly building hate inside me for him. The other girl says they've still been seing each other, which he denies. What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 464 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - i started seeing this guy two years ago and moved in with each a week after we met, the first 8 months were great, then we split as he met somebody else, we then got back together about a year ago, but my mind was in overtime constantly thinking he ...

The guy I'm dating doesn't trust me do to my past. I discovered a message on his phone and I've trust issues too, should I forget about it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 464 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - i have been dating a guy now for bout 3 months,he says he loves me,but doesnt trust me as i have not had a good past.i do love him and would never go behind his back,i read a text on his phone from a girl he become friends with, before he met me,not ...

Is it wise to stay with someone just out of love who I know thinks and acts complete opposite to me? Can it work despite of our differences?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 464 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and i after a year and a half are considering whether or not we should stay together. We love each other but are very different in all aspects. Im caring, considerate, don't drink much and don't really like adventurous things - he is ...

I shouldn't have to tell my partner to act like a partner! His behavior is confusing and really hurts me! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 464 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - hi me again sorry to be so annoying,i wrote about my partner of a year and a half and how his family hates me and abuses me. Now he doesn't want to sort out any situation with me. My last question had the heading "can someone help". Well, I know I s...

We started dating, then I had to leave the country. I stopped calling in hopes that she would move on! What else can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 464 days ago

3 October 2007 (M) - Well, I got to know this girl through dating another girl - and she helped me through this huge breakup and became a huge friend of mine - and she fell for me i dont know since when but she gave me her hand to hold and even told me she was in love ...

My gf always tries to make me jealous and her behavior gets me so angry! What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 464 days ago

3 October 2007 (M) - I have been going out for the last 10 months and I am quite fine with my girl. We are really commited and all, but the only thing that bother me is that she always tries to make me jealous all the time. I get really pissed. The more I ask her not to ...

I'm a verbal bully and need help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - I have a vile and viscious temper (trait passed on from my father) I can generally hold back when dealing with normal situations, but due to the fact my boyfriend is so laid back and quiet and submissive, I (4 years ago) began to easily get mad and ...

What's that smell? My fella has no respect for cleanliness!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 464 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my partner (whom i have a 3month old baby with) for nearly 4 years now. Since the beginning I noticed I would have to mention to him to bath/ brush teeth/ etc, as I noticed he would simply not do these things. I, ...

I broke his trust, and now that I'm telling the truth he won't believe me! I'm also jealous. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 465 days ago

3 October 2007 (?) - Ok, so here's the deal; my bf and I have been having trust issues since I lied to him about my past. I didn't want to tell him my past, but he pushed so much that I lied, a couple of times, because I really didn't want to tell him (it involved a ...

My military bf is going on tour soon and I'm a nervous wreck!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 464 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - my boyfriend and i really love each other. We have been together 1 1/2 yrs. He is in the army - work is very important to him. He is going on tour soon and I'm turning into a nervous wreck, but he doesn't seem to understand. I am getting nervous if ...

My fiance wants to wait two years until we're married! Isn't that too long?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 464 days ago

3 October 2007 (M) - My fiance to get has told me to wait for 2 years from now so that we can get married,Isn't that too long.Advice please....

My ex wants to get back together! Should I give him another chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 464 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - I don't think my ex is ready for a relationship right now. He ran from our relationship because he felt that he was getting too close. In his previous relationship, the girl hurt him and he hasn't been able to trust another female so he pushed me ...

Am I broken? A commitment-phobe? What???

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

3 October 2007 (M) - Am I a commitment phobe? I dont know what to do in this situation. I have been dating a wonderful smart beautiful lady for 2 years now. of course she wants a commitment, and I do too, but just can't seem to step up. I don't know why. I don't ...

He said he was 'bored with our relationship" and it hurt! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 464 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - What does it means when your bf text message you with: "I am bored of us".." every day is the same..."hi..good morning.. good night.." . I am in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend..and we talk on the phone; but lately he's been very ...

Why am I so picky with dating relationships and how do I fix it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - Is something seriously wrong w/ me? What could be going on here??? OK, I don't know if the grass just seems greener on the other side of the proverbial fence, whether I just plain don't want a relationship deep down, am too picky or fickle or what....

I can't have this baby..my bf is an alcoholic and an angry person! Help!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 328 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - I am 7 weeks pregnant and can't have this baby because of being in a really bad and progressively worse relationship. My boyfriend is an alcoholic and overall an angry person and so is his family. He wants to have this baby but I don't want to ...

I feel like I should give him another chance but am so confused!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - I just found out that my BF of 6 months that lives with me cheated. I found messages on his phone that said 'I wouldn't have kissed you, if I didn't think you were attractive' and a few other random things.. I confronted him about this and he alleg...

Why do I always seem to attract the same types??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 464 days ago

3 October 2007 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a younger guy for over two years now but compared to other men I have had relationships with he just doesnt make me feel as sexy as I would like to feel or we dont make love often enough, considering he is 15 ...