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writes: Ok so my boyfriend is 33 and I am 22. We have been together for a little over three years. When we got together I knew he watched porn, I didnt have a problem with that because I watch as well, sometime with him. For the last few days he has started more often, almost everyday. The only problem with that is we havent been having sex as reguarly as we used to. Is this a problem or am I trippin?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2007): Since he is male, you can take hints from people who are the same sex to get to understand what is going on in his mind. The male mind frequently looks for variety. You can run a test. While he is watching, walk up casually in a different attire, sexy of course. Make sure he has noticed. If he looks up, give him a naughty smile. He should be evoked with this. It is best to make him turn off the porn rather than interrupt him. If he still gets going with the porn, may be it is time to shelf him. Hope you got the idea of the mechanism. Good luck.
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reader, anneon  +, writes (5 October 2007):
 It is troubling that he is opting for porn over real sex.
If you act now, it won't turn into a serious issue. Just make sure that he knows you are eager to try new things in bed and have more sex. Be as available as possible. He should come around pretty quick when he realizes he has a real, sexy woman next to him. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2007): im in the same boat,maybe a little worse he now fails to ejaculate
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reader, penta  +, writes (5 October 2007):
 I think that the fact that he's watching more port and being with you less is a bad sign. Although I don't think there's anything inherently wrong with watching porn (guys or girls) I do think it's a problem when the porn starts to replace interaction with your loved one.
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reader, Memorize +, writes (5 October 2007):
 hello
i sort of see it as that he enjoys watching it like TV or such. try watching it with him and play with him if you know what i mean one thing can lead to another.
Maybe he enjoys watching other people have sex its a turn on for many people by what i mean is that, hes not watching it to get turned on but to enjoy it.
So try watching it with him and ask, "hmmm can we try that?"
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2007): It's a problem if the trend continues.
It could be the beginning of a porn addiction.
Porn can be dangerous for sex lives.
http://nymag.com/nymetro/news/trends/n_9437/index1.html
Nip it in the bud before it gets out of hand.
Walk up to him, turn off the porn, and give him a strip tease.
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