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Archived questions from: 23 October, 2007 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Beware of Creep

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 444 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - I don't want to be with my fiance that I broke up with 2 weeks ago, but why can't I stop thinking about who he is with next? Do guys move on faster than girls? He already went down to florida for like two weeks and it looks like he already has new ...

On again, off again boyfriend troubles

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 444 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - Hi me and my on off boyfriend of 6 years have always had a bit of an unsteady relationship and recently it has been unsteady because i have been keeping it a secret from my parents as they don't believe he is good enough for me. we hav been arguing ...

Why do I keep trying to cause conflict with my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 444 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - finally found decent boyfriend who is everything i want..so why do i keep trying to cause conflict between us for no reason? ...

I just can't get through to him that I'm not cheating! Please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 444 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 3 1/2 years, but together for 7. We have 3 boys, 6,3,1. I have been completely faithful to him since we first got involved and haven't been with anyone else since! I kept in contact with an old flame who is ...

My fiance is VERY controlling. What can I do??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 444 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - he tells me what i can and can not do. he tries to control me. i been in this relationship for 6 months. my fiance is 47 and i am 31. Recently he has start arguing with me about people that I be around. when my cell phone rings i get worried because ...

Is it time to leave him if he won't commit?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 444 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 5.5 years and we have lived together for about 4. I am now at the stage where I want to get married and maybe start a family,I'm 32, he is 30 so I think this is a pretty normal reaction. I've told him how importan...

I've given the relationship 110 per cent - am I wasting my time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 444 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - I have given up on my relationship, I feel I have given 110%. I moved from another state to be with my bf I gave up my job I had for 10yrs to be with him and he still don't see my point of view.I work and take care of my kids and him all he does is ...

What can I do to change how I am?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 444 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - hi Im scared and 38. I havent been in a relationship for 10 years, I was abused when i was a child. Im now good friends with a guy but every times he hugs me I breakdown and start crying. I really like this guy but Im so scared. Im my mind its like ...

I want to have children with him, but...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 444 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - Hi. I am 22 yrs old and i've been with my 40 yr old boyfriend for 9 months now. I would like to think we could have children at some point because we are so happy and in love and would love our own family. But he had a vasectomy approx 11 or 12 yrs ...

I can't seem to do anything right - can I not even express my opinions over a film?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 444 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - I am finding things difficult in my relationship. I have been tackling low self-esteem using CBT online, a really good self help book and will shortly start counselling. I had two broken marriages, but am friends with my first husband who is t...

We are just about to move in together - am I crazy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 444 days ago

23 October 2007 (M) - i discovered that my Gf was having numerous affairs with men on the internet and made a coouple of dates to meet them one she did meet in a hotel. she claims nothing happened....we are just about to move in together Am I crazy? Please help...

I don't like my boyfriend looking at other women!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 444 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - I don't like it when my boyfriend looks at other girls in public, I find it humiliating. If I initiate sex or give him a blow job before we go out, is there less chance that he will look at other girls because he's just had an orgasm? Or would it ...

Do I stay in the marriage for the sake of the children?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 443 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - Help! I have been married for 25 years. Have 2 children. 6 and 9. For most of my marriage, my husband has refused to touch me. I used to think there was something wrong with me, but turns out, he is very messed up sexually, and we've just started ...

He feels he didn't do anything wrong because he didn't have sex.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 445 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - I luv and am stil inlove with my husband.But he hurt me and i feel betrayed. About 2mths ago i caught him having inappropriate conversations with women in chatrooms downloaded on his cellphone.I went thru his cell while he was sleeping cos he didnt ...

Is there any hope or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 445 days ago

23 October 2007 (M) - Ok, to make a ver long story short. Recently (Sep. 6, 2007) my girlfriend and I of over 2 years split up. We are both sophomores in college yet we go to school in different states. My ex and I grew up together, we went to the same grade school, ...

Is she just staying for the kids?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 444 days ago

23 October 2007 (M) - I am 40 married for 11 years now and have three kids. From the very first month me and my wife have issues. she is the lady who wants to be wanted. But htis is one way. I mean I want to be wanted by her but she rarely give me attention. I ful...

I'm afraid, if I don't change, he'll leave me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 444 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - I want to become less selfish. My boyfriend goes to his friend's house a lot. And I get mad when he leaves. Like I don't want to share him or something. It hasn't always been like this by the way, just the last couple of months of our 8 month re...

She's messing with my heart

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 443 days ago

23 October 2007 (M) - Hey, Me and my girlfriend had to have a little 1 week break from eachother while she went on holiday to Turkey for a week with her family... Fair enough, we said our goodbyes, said we love eachother etc... I missed her, but she said she'd be ba...