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female
age
41-50,
*nxiety
writes:okay so i am going on a date with my boyfriend tomorrow night. we have been on a break thing for the past three weeks, he wants some time off to decide if he is ready to move in and go the to the next step. we have been together for three years and he says he is not sure yet and wants to be sure. well i am supposed to start school in one week, and the campus is 5 minutes from his house. I was supposed to be staying with him on the weekends so that i could attend classes untill we moved in together in december. well school has been put on hold and tomorrow night we are going out to have fun and talk, i feel that he is going to say that he still needs mroe time cause he is not sure. I am going to tell him that i have made a decision and that i am going to start school and will need to stay at his place on friday nights. i am scared to see what he says, if he says that won't work then i think that i should pull away and begin to let go of him. The hard part is that we do love each and he is my bestfriend and vice versa. it is a big move.. if he says no then i know where he stands and should cut my losses.. shouldn't he already know after three years if he wants to be with me? p.s. we have know each other for 9 years and dated for 2 years broke up for 4 but awlays kept in touch.. and advise???
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2007): Your answer is in your question...I feel you should "cut your losses and move on". He's not ready and may never be ready to commit to the type of relationship you deserve.
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