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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I was stayin at my best friends house recently when she decided that we should stay in her brother's room because he has a double bed. he came home and was fine with it he said he will just share the bed with us, I was fine because I have grown up with him! I was drunk and I was a little loud and he kept looking at me! I didn't think anything of it until I was just about to drop off when he wakes me up and asks me could he kiss me! I said no and turned over! Whilst I was asleep he must have got my phone and got my number because he has been texting me ever since!I don't want to tell my friend because she already thinks that some thing happened! She didn't trust me!I like this lad but its my best friends brother and I wouldn't do that to her!What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2007): Try again to explan to your friend, if she refuses to believe you ask her brother to explain. If that doesn't work you know she isn't a true friend for not trusting you.
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reader, DIE-romantic. +, writes (29 June 2007):
 Talk to your friend about it first, if she has a problem then dont go there, it may be awkward to her, with her best friend dating her brother, but if she doesnt, go for it. Like Eve said, at least your best friend will know who hes dating, and she knows she can trust you not to hurt him. Hope ive helped, and good luck. :) xxx
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reader, flower girl +, writes (29 June 2007):
 Has your friend actually told you she would have a problem with it if anything did happen while you were in the bed?
Maybe you could just sound her out about it and see how she would feel about asking her brother out, you can make your mind up what to do judging by her responce.
Take care.xx.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (29 June 2007):
 Was your friend in the bed too? If you like him in a romantic way then that shouldn't be such a big deal with your friend. At least she'd know who her brother was dating.
If anything YOU will be the one who finds it hardest. You might cause rival jealousy between brother and sister as he'll want to be with you all the time and so will your friend and of course you'll be torn between both of them. Think if over carefully before making any decision but it should be YOUR decision and not your friends.
Eve
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (29 June 2007):
 Im a little confused by your post. I got to messages of you postDo you romantically like him?Or is it you don want to tell your Best friend that he is acting weird around you?
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