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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi yet again its me,Im writing about the teacher I bullied again.I was walking down a corridor alone today at lunch time and the teacher was shouting at a pupil for bullying. Suddenly she looked at me turned to the girl n errupted, she said, "To be honest I was bullied at school along with my best friend and it hurt him so bad he hung himself." I didnt know this and my guilt is so much worse.I was about to apologise but I cant find the words now, I really need to do it but what can I say. I feel really guilty for reminding her of times she wud rather forget. She was crying and I felt so sad, I was near to cryin myself and Im so angry with myself. I wish I could turn back the clock.What can I say to her? How do I apologise when I remind her of such bad things?
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reader, chelsie +, writes (27 June 2007):
if you have fallen out with your teacher maby bring her some chocolates and flowers in and a card saying im sorry i shouldent of done wot i have done and leave the chocolate,flowers,card on her desk and have a liltle chat with her that might make you fill a bit better !
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2007): You talk as if she is your age and in your group of friends.
Your teacher is an adult and is quite capable of looking after herself. However, if you do feel you have treated her badly, just apologise to her and let it be done with.
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (27 June 2007):
 I agree with flower girl- she sounds like she trying to make you feel worse. But there is no one that can make you feel any worse than yourself. You need to apologise to her. Not only for her sake but yours too. What you did is in the past and ok it was a horrible thing to do but you have grown up now. Just talk to her and the words should come to you at the time. Maybe writing to her may help?
xxxxxx
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reader, flower girl +, writes (27 June 2007):
 It really sounds now like she is trying to make you feel bad for what you done to her and as a teacher that is not on.
Like i said to you last time i think you now need to take this to your head teacher so that there is someone in the middle of this situation.
If your head teacher is doing their job properly they will help you anyway they can in trying to apologise to her in a relaxed environment.
Please go and see them you realise what you have done is wrong and the sooner you can let her know the better you will feel.
Take care.xx.
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (27 June 2007):
 Write her a note if your too embarrassed to face her. Just be sincere and then don't do anything like that again. Live and learn.
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