I want to help him but I can't take much more

A female age 51-59, *ichy writes:

BoyFriend Lives with EX WIFE who cheated while they were married. I know in my heart he has not dealt with these feelings of infidelity and I feel like I am caught in the middle. 1 1/2 ago he introduced me to her as she was a bartender at the time. I fell in love with him immediately,,,as time went on,,,he was all along living with his ex of 8 years after a few disaster relationships after they divorce, now I come along and as easy going as I am, I welcomed the ex into my life and became supposedly good friends. I trusted in her as my boyfriend is grieving the loss of his parents he becomes enraged and takes it all out on me. I think his anger is all from his ex wife, she cheated on him for a year and told him. He is very easy going and I think he takes his rage out on me. He states they have a "loyal" friendship.I relly eel sorry for him because he seems lost without her. I cannot take much more of this because now,,she has forced him to leave her apartment and I offered to take him in but he refuses. I am no longer friends with his ex because she has lied to me a number of times. I have helped her by employing her in my business and trusted in her. She is 42 years old and hs no stable career, always bouncing around. How can I help my boyfriend because I am ready to pack and run away. This is not fair to me.

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