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writes:I've got a doctors appointment today, something has shown up in my blood test, i am worried sick, but my bloke seems to of forgot that i am even going! Ålso - He works shifts and i am not sure just what he gets up to during the day. If i ask, he says he was just pottering about, but there is nothing done in the house. I work full time, feed our two boys, he has a son and i do, to separate partners. Also - we are getting married next autumn and i don't feel i know this person. Reply to this Question
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (23 February 2007):
 i think marrying this guy when you know you dont know him well it will be a big mistake. find time in between his shifts because im sure there are times that he is off and you are off as well, use that time to bond, talk to each other all the time use a fone, email, or whatever to keep you guys in touch, so that u dont stay strangers to one another. if he is a lay-back kinda of guy im sure he had forgotten about it, like you said he cant even help around the house or the kids. do you tell him what his behavior is doing to you? do you guys ever talk about anything and everything? be firm with this guy so that you can know if this marriage is worth pursuing or is something to forget at this point in point in time? because the unresolved problems you might be having now they will multiply after marriage i dont know why it happens like this but thats the way it is.
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reader, Cherries Needs Help  +, writes (20 February 2007):
 Try to get more time with this person and learn more about him. If you don't know him you don't need to marry him so get more alone time to get to know each other more.
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