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writes:I have an open question for everyone, Would you date a girl who had told you that she was forced to do oral sex even although she didn`t want to have sex with the guy? How would you know if it was the truth she is telling or if she did it willingly? Would you date this girl... and if she has some good qualities, was intelligent and good looking would you marry her in the future?
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reader, zgeek  +, writes (21 February 2007):
 from a guys view if she did do this or was forced to it wouldant matter she seems to be beutiful and a intelligent person you also seem to like her. That will probably be a hard memory for her but your support could possibly get her over it........I would go out with her.
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reader, kenny  + ♥, writes (20 February 2007):
 From a guy's point of view i would date a girl who was forced to do oral sex against her wishes in a previous relationship. After all it wasen't her fault, and the guy was probably no doubt alot stronger than she was. So i would be really sypathetic to her because it would probably would have left emotional scars.
And if she was the right one yes i would consider marrying her, i think it would be abit shallow not to on the basis of an event that she had no control over.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (20 February 2007):
 Hey sweetness,
I don't think there is a way to know if she's telling the truth or if she did it willingly. However, I wouldn't take my chances, because if she is, it's probably a really hard memory for her. If she did do it willingly, does that really matter? She sounds like a great girl - beautiful, intelligent... even if she did give oral sex to one guy in the past, would you ditch her?
We all have rough patches in our past. Regardless of whether or not she was forced or wasn't, be glad you've found a really nice girl who you like spending time with. That's what's important!
xxIndia
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reader, cd206 +, writes (20 February 2007):
 Well.... as a girl I wouldn't date another girl but in your shoes I would totally get over her past. We all have things in our past we regret and whether she was forced into it or did it willingly she recognises that it was a mistake and recognising mistakes is the first step in learning not to repeat them.
CD
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reader, jabey +, writes (20 February 2007):
I presume that in all cases we have to believe and trust in people, until they give us reason to believe otherwise.
I think this would be a strange thing to lie about, and therefore is probably the truth.
You dont know if its the truth, but if you know a person well enough then you can gage what sort of person they are , if they are honest or not.
of course date someone you think is intelligent and goodlooking if you are also attracted to her. As for the would you marry her, thats quite an odd question. Usually we tend to decide whether we wish to marry someone when we have spent time with them , fallen in love and want to be with them forever, that you can only find out by dating and getting to know someone and building up a relaiotnship with them. Then you decide if you wish to marry, not because anyone tells you too but because its what you both want.
I would relax and get to know her and enjoy your time.
Good luck
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