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writes: My boyfriend and I were very happy together, we lived together and spent almost every day together, we were inseparable and had the same tastes and got on so well. We started bickering over little things and then eventually we had a big row, I told him to get out of the house, and he packed his things and left. I have since realised I might have been a bit of a pain to live with, and used to go on too much about nothing. I really love him and he means everything to me I thought he was the person I would spend the rest of my life with. I wrote him a letter and have tried to text him etc about this, but he says he is not sure how he feels anymore. I am completely confused, it has been almost three weeks now and I have not really heard anything from him and he used to be so attentive and always text me if we were ever apart. How is it possible for him to completely block me out and not feel anything anymore? And not miss me and want to speak to me? He told me he loved me and that we would always be together and that I was the best thing to happen to him, how can this change over night? It’s as if he has just flicked an off switch.
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reader, cd206  +, writes (20 February 2007):
 If this has really totally changed his feelings for you then they weren't that strong to start with, but I'm with you, this sounds a little unrealistic. My guess is that he wants you to hurt as much as he's hurting and this is the quickest and easiest way of getting at you. Tell him you love him and you accept your mistakes in your argument but that you're giving him time to sort his head out. Hopefully with time and space he'll find his way back to you.
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