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writes:Can a guy that has cheated in the past and promised before God to turn a new leaf, hold his urge to cheat again? I ask because i have a very pretty gf and she comes over all the time. I know she's attractive so im sure my husband must think so too. How do i know he won't do it again? Has anyone ever held it so hard to cheat that you don't? What should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (21 February 2007):
 This is where trust comes into a relationship. There are lots of beautiful people on this earth, whether it is your friend or seeing someone on the street, if he really loves you and respects you then he wouldn't be interested if it was put there right in front of his face and your friend wouldn't be much of a friend if she let this happen would she?
Continue to work at your relationship. Boost his ego from time to time, leave him little notes in his pocket, on his pillow, in his briefcase "missing you already," "can't wait to see you tonight," "I smile when I think of you," things that will let him see how much you care for him. Take care of yourself too and always try and look good and smell nice too. Men are very visual as you well know so they'll notice when you've taken care over your appearance. (It will keep him on his toes too in case he thinks YOU have someone else.) So always look nice, show a bit of cleavage and refrain from letting yourself go.
Be cheery and bubbly, give him attention and try not to moan and whine about things, remember, beauty comes from the INSIDE first... he'll love all that in your personality and you'll find he won't look twice at another woman, why would he ever want to when he has you! :o)
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reader, cd206 +, writes (21 February 2007):
 There are always going to be temptations in this guy's life, be it your pretty friends or girls he works with. If his faith and his will are strong he'll be able to get through this. I don't know if it matters if it's God or love or some other divine power that holds him back from cheating but as long as he recognises his committment to you I think everything will be fine.
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