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male
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36-40,
*aogwan
writes:i just wanted to know,i've just got my first gf. i've been with her for nearly 3 months now. i'm her longest relationship so far and we're both virgins. one night me and her went out for a meal and she started telling me about a few other guys she had kissed after the two relationshps she wos in,and she also told me bout a fling she had.for some reason when she told i started geting a bad burning feeling inside. i appreciate she is being honest with me but maybe i would've appreciated it if she had to when i asked her bout other guys. but she said she forgot about those other guys because they did not mean anything.I think i'm feeling jealous that she is more experienced than me in the sense that she has done more kissing and i havn't. i don't like feeling like this, but she has told me she has never felt like this for anyone before the way she feels for me...i do always put her happiness before mine. I have liked other girls before but i have never had the confidence to take it further because i didn't not want to get rejected..i really regret it because i know if i had i wouldn't be feeling this jealousy inside me...Please someone help me.....!!!!!!!!!!! by the way we're both 20..and she is the 2nd girl i have kissed properly!!!
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (22 February 2007):
 This is not a problem, really it isn't. She isn't that much more experienced than you. Just relax and enjoy your new romance. Have fun!
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reader, cd206 +, writes (20 February 2007):
 Okay, I think you need someone to tell you the truth here, even though this may not be what you want to hear. She's kissed two guys before you! You're at the very least 18 if you didn't lie about your age in the profile. You're not going to find more than about 10 eighteen year old girls in the country who have kissed less than that. What she has done is by no means bad compared to what some of the girls have done. I know an eighteen year old who has lost count of how many guys she's kissed. She's with you now. If she wanted to be with any of the other guys she's kissed she would be. I don't know if it's my place to tell you this but get over it! We all have things in our past we regret.
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