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female
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36-40,
*achakaRoni
writes:When guys say things about their feelings- do they just say it to keep you quiet or do they mean it?I have fallen for this guy, ive been seeing him in a casual way for a year and am scared to tell him how I feel because I dont want to be rejected.Please Helpxx Reply to this Question
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reader, jabey +, writes (20 February 2007):
I think if he has been seeing you for a year the guy must be pretty keen. Decide exactly what you want , do you want to see him more often ? Do you want a future with him? Personally, I would tred carefull, and perhaps just ask him where he sees the relaiotnship going? His answer will give you a clue to how serious he feels about you. You can gage your response on what he says. Then perhaps start with telling him you would maybe like to se him more often, and feel it would be nice for things to move forwad.
This way you miminise the feeling of rejection, and you will get a clue as to where he is at. I think most men are genuine in what they say, and really we have to believe otherwise there is no point them telling us anything. Actions often confirm what a man says, is he relaible, good to you, show he cares. If yes to these then what he is saying is most probably geniune too.
He has been with you long enogh to have formed Im sure an emotional attachment, tread slowly, as some men freak when pushed, and gentley find out his feelings, then open up yours. Sometimes men are waiting for that as women are often the better communicaters and sometimes are the ones that have to lead a realtionship along.
Good luck Im sure you will be fine.
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