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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have never had a child before, my partner has a son 3years whom we care for everyday, we all live together and the ex only wants my partner. She doesn't want to see her son. It was okay I guess at first only because I love the kid... but now my partner is treating me like I'm nothing and I don't think he really loves me, he hides songs of his ex saying things he has said to me (sweet things)even though he says he never loved her and swore she meant nothing to him, not just to me but also my family and his too. I am not allowed to go through his things but if I don't let him see my fone as a test he acts as though I have cheated on him. I've been this way for a year, worried and at times suicidal with no one to talk to. What should I do if I have come to a stage were we dont talk, hold hands or anything besides trying my best to clean the house etc and none of it gets appreciated?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2007): Welcome to my world, only I am with the father of my child. That is exactly how I am treated. Like I am just there. No appreciation for taking care of the baby, the house, the bills, having dinner on the table when he gets home, nothing. No affection, no anything. I just exist. Now I am pregnant with our 2nd..Some men are just that way I guess. I don't know what to tell you other than have a talk with him about this. Tell him how you feel although it probably won't help. If you can't get through it, at least the kid isn't yours and you're free to walk away if you want to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2007): Of course your bf had feelings for his ex gf they had a kid together.I think you get to sit down and have a chat about your feelings about him hiding stuff.It may be only to protected you.But if you are not happy then leave and start over.They are lots of guys out there you are young and you sound like a nice person but you deserve better!xxx
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