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writes:Hi, I've been dating my boyfriend for 5 years now and I love him to death but the initial butterflies are gone and it's deeper, he's more like a family member. His friend and I became really good friends over the past 5 years too and I can't figure out whether he ever liked me. He has a girlfriend now, but I think he's liked me all along but couldn't say nothing cuz it was wrong to do so all along. I now realize I am in love with both of them deeply, I know he loves his girlfriend too... but I can't help sense his love when he looks in my eyes and calls me for no damn reason often. Today he told me... how much he loves his girlfriend and I feel like maybe Ii imagined the whole vibe and I'm kinda freaking out. My close friends tell me they see it too and I'm not nuts... please help me, I need to know, I've never felt so deeply in love before, I'm going crazy faking the smiles and hiding the tears.
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reader, quarky  +, writes (30 August 2007):
 If you look at the question I've raised before, you'll see I'm in a similar impossible situation. I feel for you. I have no answer but you're not alone! My gut reaction is to follow your heart but that can lead to loss of both the people you love and a lot of pain. Somehow, you have to make a decision and different people will tell you how those decisions have worked out or not-I'll leave it to them-I ain't quite there yet!
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reader, daglish  +, writes (30 August 2007):
 As long as that element of love has grown that strong, there is no reason why you shouldnt pop the qn if he hasnt .
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