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Any advice as to how I can arouse him without touching his male members would be greatly appreciated.

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Question - (29 August 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 December 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi all. I am having problems. I am in a fairly new relationship and he knows just what to do to arouse me sexually, but I don't know how to arouse him. He is a little inexperienced and doesn't know what he likes. Any advice as to how I can arouse him without touching his male members would be greatly appreciated. Thank you in advance.

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A male reader, justtesting India +, writes (1 December 2009):

It's not very difficult to arouse a male. Just make it clear that you desire him sexually, and that would be enough of a message. Your attitudes too could turn him on. Don't come across as aggressive. Let him feel dominant in the bed-room (which is very important for the male ego). Show yourself as eager to please him ...

"Dirty talk" could be quite arousing for a male. Sometimes getting close together in a non-sexual situation (like him teaching you to ride a bike, assuming you don't) could be too.

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A male reader, Sandman United States +, writes (29 August 2007):

Sandman agony auntSome men enjoy their nipples being licked or lightly kissed. The neck is a good place to kiss. The inner thigh - just below the "package" might be a good spot to stroke, lightly. And for some reason, I found my knee to be a source of some weird sexual pleasure (when touched under sexual context). It just tickles when it's not done sexually. His butt. Can't tell you much on that subject. Just try his butt.

Hope this helps.

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A female reader, YummyMummy United Kingdom +, writes (29 August 2007):

YummyMummy agony auntTry kissing your guys neck and nibbling on it, varying how hard you nibble. Don't do that too hard though. You don't want to become a vampire. Try nibbling the lobes of his ears aswell. Run your nails across his back and stomach, gently on his stomach as its sensitive but vary the pressure on his back. Kissing can also be a very big turn on.

I'm guessing when you say male member you mean his penis right?


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