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writes: I think my boyfriend is cheating on me with an old old friend of mine. we've been together for about 2 years and he has cheated before (dont give me shit about it, we're all abit deluded when we really love someone...) thing is, i am not up for another heart break! sooo... heres my story.i was on msn and on msn plus you have a option to see when someone signs on and off, he signed off, she signed on, i called him he doesnt answer or msg bak for about an hour... i asked him to come online! he says no? but then comes online, she signs off he signs on...then we had a fight because i asked him if he had her over, he accuses me of cheating on him (classic behaviour) he ends up going to sleep because he works 3am - 9:30pm... thing is, because we had the fight he told me he didnt wanna see me the next day i told him i wanted a break because i didnt trust him and i needed space until i did he got upset and didnt msg me till the next day he msgd me around 10:30 (time he gets bak from work) and said.... he was goin to sleep around 1pm i personally think its because he didnt sleep because she was over, with "COINCEDENCE" she had pupil free day the next day so she wouldnt hav needed to go to school! but good friend who is friends with her said that she went shoppin with her that nite? but she doesnt kno how she got there (my boyfriend lives near those shoppin centres) so i decided to go over his place the next day to see if anythin was goin on anyway! i msgd him wen i was on his street and he was mad at me so he didnt talk much just said i keep stuffin him around with all these breaks and talks bla bla and yehhh... we sorted it out and i stayed over for the next 2 days. On monday i msgd my brother to come pick me up he said yeh then said no 15 mins later when i told my boyfriend he got mad and goes "so i guess ur stayin over again?" and we had a fight for no reason ( i think it was his attempt to get rid of me,so that she can stay over) and dont think i'm bein paranoid because.. she usually has work experience the next day but no one ever really goes, he also went to sleep early that nitee? probably because she was over monday nite afta i left? what do you think? do you think his cheatin or it's PURE coincedence? haha, just need a lil reassurance before i leave him =\ thankyou.
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reader, TELLULAH  +, writes (29 August 2007):
 Hi,
I agree it does sound very fishy, but you dont really have any proof do you?.
You are accusing him non-stop so perhaps thats why he is getting angry with you. I think you should be a bit more clever and try to catch him out, and if it doesnt work then it could be in your head.
After all he did it once so arn't you waiting for him to do it again.
Hope it works out for you whatever you decide to do.
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reader, Tinkz  +, writes (29 August 2007):
 Hey sweets
Well lets just say the sooner you get rid of him the better!
It does sound like he's cheating and you don't need that shit in your life!
I know love is Blind so i'm not even going to hassle you bout him cheating before! I've gone back many a time to men that have cheated! But once you realise that you deserve better then you'll find better! The Law of Attraction!
Trash deserves Trash and if your friend did that to you then i'm going to classify them as trash!
Kick his cheating ass to the curb! Hold your head high and and wave goodbye!
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reader, flower girl +, writes (29 August 2007):
 If your gut instinct is telling you he is cheating then he probably is, and to say we are abit deluded when we are in love was a major understatement and i think that is why people get away with so much because as much as you know these things are happening, we try and push it to the back of our minds and pretend it's not happening.
You have done nothing wrong babe, so you hold your head up high and get rid of him they deserve each other if they are doing that to you, you will find someone that will treat you with the respect you deserve.
Take care.xx.
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