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Archived questions from: February, 2008 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

How do I get over him and just be his friend for our daughters sake??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

29 February 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of 4 years recently broke up with me. We were high school sweethearts who always had a complicated relationship. We got pregnant and had a baby in high school. He later proposed to me after the baby turned one and we planned to marry in ...

How can she move on after a mere two months??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 189 days ago

29 February 2008 (M) - Hi, Here's my story. I was dating this girl for the past 4.5 years while I was studying overseas. We lived-in together for 3 of those years. I loved her terribly and only saw myself with her. 2 months ago, after the end of my studies I had to leave...

What should I do when my boyfriend said to me that he still loves his ex girlfriend?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 190 days ago

29 February 2008 (F) - What should I do when my boyfriend said to me that he still loves his ex girlfriend? Will I continue this commitment? please help me......

He's still supporting his ex wife. Am I wasting my time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 176 days ago

29 February 2008 (F) - This is a long story but will try and condense it down. The man I am with has a problem letting go of his ex wife. We were living together for two years when he couldn't decide what life he wanted anymore, so he went behind my back and made plans wi...

Ladies, what would you enjoy reading in an email from a long lost ex-boyfriend?...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

29 February 2008 (M) - I want to reconnect with an ex I haven't spoken to in 2 years. There's no bad blood between us. We spoke after the break-up a few times on good terms until we both graduated. Ladies, what would you enjoy reading in an email from a long lost ...

How can I make him understand that this is a pointless argument?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

29 February 2008 (F) - I had a fight with my BF. He gets so upset each time the issue is brought up, but he's the one who brings it up so there's no way for me to stop it. Anyway... I had a friend with benefits when I was 15, and years later, he introduced me to...

Is there any way I can get my ex to be more cooperative?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

28 February 2008 (M) - I am in the process of divorce after ten years of marriage,and a beautiful 17 month daughter. My "ex" won't communicate with me verbally, and the occasional email responses I get in response to anything I ask are usually one or two words long. H...

The ex fiance who harassed my husband and I now surprisingly became part of our sexual games! Should I allow her to aproach similarly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - Okay, let me start from the beginning. When I first met my husband he had an ex fiance that was just obsessed with him and he was totally through with her, but she wouldn't stop trying to get in touch. Finally after about a year and a half of her ...

I have tried for 6 years, but I don't really love him. Should I leave?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 186 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - I am a 27 year old female married for a year now. I ve known my husband for 6 years now, since the last yearof college. Prior to that I was in a relationship with a very wonderful guy in college for 3 years and due to faults and mistakes which I am ...

Is he a serial cheater or should I have faith in us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend now for 8 months. I am really in love with him and he says he is me too. I have never been this happy apart from one thing that is really bothering me. He is 10 years old than me - he's 38. He was once married but only...

We talk marriage but she still loves her ex. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

28 February 2008 (M) - Hi there im new on here, but i really need some help on this. I met my girlfriend a year ago and she had been with a heroin addict for many years. He would lie to her and take her money, take drugs, rehibilitate get clean then go through same loop...

My ex and I are talking again but my friend's mad because he likes her too!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 186 days ago

28 February 2008 (M) - I have a problem concerning my ex girlfriend and my used to be friend. My ex and I are planning on getting back together. It would be a long distance relationship (100 miles) Well my ex gf still claimes she loves me after over a year now. She w...

Lover/friendship crisis!!!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - I've been single for a while and the past boyfriends I had treated me like dirt but now I'm falling for an ex from 4 years ago but the thing is he has a girlfriend and she's a friend of mine too! I really like him but I don't want to ruin their ...

Why do I feel like walking away when I argue with my bf? I'm scared the ex has passed his insecurities onto me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 6 weeks. I just wondered if the way I have been feeling is normal? I am so, so into this guy. It feels a little more than lust, but not love. That crazy, can't stop looking at him, can't stop thinking about h...

Is he just being nosy? Is he regretting the split?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 189 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - So go figure this one out... I was with my ex boyfriend for a year. We lived together (from 4 months on). He dumped me just after Christmas. I moved out within the week. He'd spent almost £800 on presents for me for Christmas. Then...

Suffering far from home with a bf who hates me, what can I do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - Since the beginning of our 3yr relationship, my bf and I have had troubles. I found out through investigation, that he was still involved with his ex, and by the time the info came to me, I was pregnant. I gave him a second chance, but he treated ...

I'm invited at my ex's house tomorrow night, what to say and do in order to win him back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - Ok, im going round to my ex's house tomorrow night. We decided to meet up. He's already told me he doesn't love me but i honestly don't believe him, his head's all over the place. I love him sooo deeply and when we talk on the telephone we're all ...

Will dating her neighbour mess with my mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

27 February 2008 (?) - I've been totally messed up from my ex, she is all i think about and i miss her soo much even though its been 8mnths or so since we broke up as she was my first love, but this new girl im seeing lives 5 doors down from her, is it a good idea to get ...

Should I give her another chance, or has she hurt me too much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

27 February 2008 (M) - I have recently been contacted by an ex girlfriend, whom I haven't seen for 7 years. We have met up a couple of times recently and seem to get on as well as we always did, but I'm unsure if I should try to get back together with her or just move ...

I want to be free of my ex. Did he ever even love me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - Hello All, I broke up with my child's father around 1 year ago. He has moved on with several women, but still remains contact with me. I still see him as a user, but mainly just a guy who will never accomplish anything in life. But the sad thin...

I love him with every bit of my soul, even though I'm constantly getting my feelings hurt. Advice here would be greatly appreciated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - I've been dating this guy since August of 2006. We've lived together since November of 2006. We've known each other since elementary, and just prior to our dating that August, his girlfriend of 13 years broke up with him. We did jump into our ...

I've moved on but my ex wont leave me alone. How do I convince him without hurting him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - Hi..i need help...i left my husband 5 months ago, i am now in a new relationship with another man, who happens to be a work college of my ex husband,i was with my husband for 7 yrs and have 2 children with him. My ex is saying that the man am with ...

What do I write on my ex's birthday card?... I still love her.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

27 February 2008 (M) - Ok, so i dont know how to explain this or anything so here it goes. My ex's birthday is in a few days and i want to send her a birthday e-card. I just dont want to say Happy Birthday I am usually so good with words but im at lost for some here, ...

I found him in bed with another girl..we split, now he wants to get back together..Should I forgive and forget ?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 163 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - I've been really impressed with this site so far, so I'm hoping that maybe someone out there can give me some advice, or share a similar story... I met my last boyfriend about 8 months ago, and we clicked immediately. We had text book compatabili...

I've just split with my girl but I want to meet someone new straight away. Is this right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

27 February 2008 (M) - I just broke up with my girlfriend. In this relationship I really didn't think I was treated well. She didn't pay much attention to me and couldn't show me ANY affection. After going out for two months she couldn't kiss me. I want to know, is it ...

I think I'm truly in love with my ex. I don't know though!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 186 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - dear cupid, does he really miss me even though he said that he isnt in love with me anymore?? i dont know what to do!!! i still care about him though and he still cares about me!!! but just not in love with me like he used to be!! but the thin...

I slept with my ex who has a new girlfriend and now I'm really confused.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 103 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - I made a huge huge mistake last nite!! My ex boyfriend and I ended badly because he really hurt me but we both new we loved each other still but he needed some space. He now has a new girlfriend whom he's been with for about a month, and they've ...

What can I do to stop my ex stalking me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 186 days ago

26 February 2008 (M) - I dated this girl in December only because I felt sorry for her and didn't want to turn her down, I know it was a dick move but it seemed right. We only dated for a week then I told her I didn't have time for a girlfriend and we should just be ...

Still in love with my ex. Should I tell him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 123 days ago

26 February 2008 (F) - well theres this boy and i am in love with him, but hes my ex and is a ful time player. he's realy cute and nice, but every time we try im the only one trying. now we dont talk much, but every time i see him my heart explodes. i love him and want ...

How can I get back together with him without my parents getting mad at me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

26 February 2008 (F) - Ok, I have broken up with my BF over silly arguments two times this week. They have been more than breakups just stupid fights... but I'm a drama queen so I blow everything out of proportion (this is embarrasing to admit =/). So both times I broke ...

She went back to her abusive ex. How do I get her back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

26 February 2008 (M) - I met this girl on the internet. She is 28 divorced and has two boys. When i met her she said she came out of a abisive relationship that she was in for 4 yrs. I am 40 and have a son. I know i took some of the retionship for granted because she said ...

Every time I watch our favourite TV shows memories of her keep buzzing through my head. How can I overcome this??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

26 February 2008 (M) - I could use some advice from anyone who has been in a fairly long-term relationship before. I came out of a long-term relationship just over 6 months ago and I've found it very hard to get over (I didn't want it to end). Since then I can't enjoy th...

We rowed like we never have before after his ex called...was I so wrong in what I said??

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

26 February 2008 (F) - Please help me. When I first met my boyfriend I'd known of him for 6 years, working together in a mental health hospital. I had originally asked him out over email before I left my job. Then after I'd been seeing him for 3 months, I found out that...

It is definitely not over...so why don't I feel bad??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

26 February 2008 (M) - Hi, my ex girlfriend and I had been together for 3 and a half years, and about a year ago we went through a "near breakup" because of the way we treated eachother. Since then it never quite felt the same, even though I did still want to be with her ...

Should I call my ex boyfriend's current girlfriend and let her know that he has been playing both of us?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 176 days ago

26 February 2008 (F) - Wondering if i should call my cheating ex boyfriend's current girl and let her know that he has been playing both of us. I am the only one that knows about it. She is only 22 and he is turning 34 this year. So she is young and I would be lying if I ...

Will I always be under his ex's shadow?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

26 February 2008 (F) - Dear Agony Aunts, I've been dating a boy for about two months now. Even though we're just dating, I'm feeling worried. I only date guys whom I see myself being in a long term relationship with. In other words, I don't just date randomly for fun...

Can't forget my Ex-girlfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 90 days ago

26 February 2008 (M) - I've been into a relationship and it was 5yrs ago and until now i'm still being hunted by my past. I was dumped by my ex-girlfriend for another guy which didn't even last for a year. we're together for almost 5years and i did nothing but to love ...

Could he love her and love me but can't choose? Help me understand this guy!.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - i have been seeing this man for 22 months now. everyone turned their back on him even his girlfriend she put him out of their house. he moved in with me 3 months ago i was by his side the whole time i met his family,friends and he told them that i ...

He isn't sure what he wants, and it's making ME confused. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - I am 17, and me and my boyfriend have just gone though serious trouble. It started when we argued over soeting stupid, i was drunk and overeacted, and threw my phone at him. He got really angry over the next few days although i tried to apologise ...

Is he doing this to make me jealous or just being friendly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - I began dating a guy in May, last year. Overall, the relationship was good but we did have our ups and downs. We decided in October that we'd break it off temporily to make us stronger but during this break i had sexual contact with guy from work ...

I cheated. What should I do now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - i have been with my man for 3 years and things are great we are getting married in a few months but recently i had it off my ex, help since we split 6 years ago we have remained good friends and now this what to do?...

I think my ex might be involved in hoax letters to me. Should I confront him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - Something strange is going on and I'm unsure what to do about it. Firstly I had a valentines card sent to my place of work. I immediately knew it was a hoax because they referred to something that just wasn't possible plus I was suspicious as th...

Any advice please on how to reach my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 194 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - I want to get in contact with my ex, i have a boyfriend for a couple of years now and he later moved on to a new girlfriend after realizing i was with someone new he knew he was done in my eyes. I broke up with him but he beg me to stay with him but ...

My ex was not right for me, my new lover lied to me and I had to terminate my pregnancy. How do I cope with these burdens?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 173 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - I am going through some major anxiety and i believe its because of my most recent loses. I was pregnant with my ex of 2 years' baby. We were supposed to get married but when we shouldve been growing together and being there for one another is w...

Should I keep talking to her or not?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

25 February 2008 (M) - Hello everyone. Have a question that I hope some of you can help me with. Should I continue to see and talk to my ex? Its not all the time, every now and then. Sometimes we will meet out for dinner, or spend the day together. Sometimes, I am ...

Do I pursue her still or get out now before I get hurt??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

24 February 2008 (M) - Well, I've been seeing this girl for about 1 and a half months now. She's a great girl, we have a lot in common, get along great, there is a physical attraction, etc. Now, she just got out a a relationship of 2 years this past New Year's in which...

The pain I felt then is just as strong now...what can I do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

24 February 2008 (M) - Me and my ex were together for just over 8 months. We broke up 3 months ago and she's been with someone else for 2 months. I can't get over her. The pain I felt then is just as strong as it is now. What should I do?...

I am over my abusive ex whereas the boy that liked me went on with his life. Maybe I do not deserve a proper relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 195 days ago

24 February 2008 (F) - Well I came out of an abusive relationship that lasted 3 years. I've known a boy since I was 12-13 and he's a year older but he is so lovely and such a nice person, and he is very nice looking but I don't know if he's interested. When I started g...

What do you do when you have a holiday booked with another partner when the ex whom you still love asks for reconciliation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

24 February 2008 (F) - what would you do if an ex boyfriend you really loved split up with you, you had no contact with him for months and you made a go of things with someone else and you have got a holiday booked with them. then the ex texts and tells you they love you ...

I think I have fallen for my ex again after his visiting me. What to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 195 days ago

24 February 2008 (F) - Okay im 14 and about a month ago i split up with my boyfriend. And apart from the odd 'Hello' in the street i never thought bout him, but then last night he texted me saying hi and then we got talking then he came round to see me and i think i have ...