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Archived questions from: June, 2017 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

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I can't tell if I'm dating a really odd social butterfly or a man whore.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2463 days ago

29 June 2017 (F - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about four months. We spend most of our time together. I don't usually feel jealous or insecure about myself. I know I'm pretty and smart etc. So when I do feel insecure I tend to think it's probably ...

He broke up with me but now is sending messages with hearts!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2464 days ago

29 June 2017 (F - Hey i need help, My boyfriend broke up with me recently because he thought we were drifting apart after we got out of school. He told me that we should just be friends and after that he stopped texting me. Now he is texting me a lot and putting ...

What's going on? I am confused why my partner is now an issue.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2463 days ago

29 June 2017 (F - I need some objective clarity. So here goes. When we were teens, say 16 years ago, he had a major crush on me and we went out a few times. I never reciprocated because I guess there weren't any feelings there, and I distanced myself from him. He ...

I'm always the gateway girl!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2464 days ago

28 June 2017 (F - OK, I don't know what I'm asking here, maybe hope from people in / or were in similar situations. Basically, long story short, I'm the gateway girl for guys to find true love/marriage/happily ever afters. I'v never had a relationship last lo...

Graduation dilemma - what should I do ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2466 days ago

26 June 2017 (F - Hi there ! I have a " graduation " Dilemma . I had a messy divorce and lost my home and most of my possessions to my ex husband . My daughter has a University graduation in two weeks and gave her two allocated tickers for her graduation to her ...

I have a gf but still think about my ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2465 days ago

26 June 2017 (M - I feel so bad for thinking about my ex and I know people are going to bag me out for it. If it was someone coming to me, in which I am often the person, it is what I would be telling them. I tried to give myself time to heal after we broke up, 2 y...

He said he needs his space

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2469 days ago

24 June 2017 (F - I have been in a relationship with a guy for 14 months. We study in the same college and things were great. We loved each other. We used to spend a lot of time together and we were very happy. However as the college closed for the summer vacation, ...

Why is he still looking for me? He's married now.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2464 days ago

23 June 2017 (F - 9 years ago (15-16yrs old)I dated a guy in H.S. But we only dated for about a month before he broke up with me over the phone. In that month we were together we had sex and seems like all the guys were talking about it..Well next school year he ...

I'm dating a nice lady but all I can think about is my ex who ghosted me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2464 days ago

22 June 2017 (M - I am seeing someone new who treats me wonderful, the way I've always wanted to be treated, but all I think about is my ex, who I treated great, she ghost me, what I think about is why couldn't my ex treated me this way, it could of been so ...

Does her telling me to move on really mean its over?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2464 days ago

21 June 2017 (M - Hello i was in a relationship with a woman for 17 months , she ended it because we argued, quite a bit , as she wanted to settle down,and i did , but not yet , she said at begining of april ,can,t say goodbye , so i,ll say goodnight, that was the ...

Is this guy interested or not?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2465 days ago

20 June 2017 (F - I met this guy about a year ago now-we met online and met up, we got on well and had a laugh, he didn't push for sex or anything like that, he was really respectful, I had a boyfriend at the time but the relationship was on its way out due to him ...

Is my ex meant to be back in my life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2470 days ago

18 June 2017 (F - How do you know if someone is being brought back into your life for a reason? My ex and I broke up almost 2 years ago and we had stopped talking for 4 months after we broke up, then out of the blue one day he texted me. And we've been talking eve...

Unhappy newly wed, unemployed and losing my mind, help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2476 days ago

17 June 2017 (F - This is a bit long so bear with me. I am 30 years old, newly married to my bf of 2 years and unemployed. Yes, this information is necessary. When i'd met him in 2015 i'd quit my hectic job in consulting to something with less travel...but...

He is getting married next month, I want to tell him I still love him!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2445 days ago

16 June 2017 (F - Hello, My ex will get married in one month from today - should I tell him I love him? We met nine years ago while travelling and had a whirlwind long-distance romance / relationship. I've never experienced being pulled towards someone lik...

Boyfriend wanted to use an old tube of lubricant during sex but I got upset because he's used it with previous partners. Am I being silly?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2470 days ago

16 June 2017 (F - Hi Everyone, So I have a bit of an awkward question, but genuinely don't know if I'm overreacting and too embarrassed too ask friends/family. So my boyfriend of 1 year has had a tube of lubricant in his drawer for a while, I noticed it a whil...

I love my girlfriend but can't get my ex out of my head

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2470 days ago

15 June 2017 (F - I've been with my current girlfriend for 2 years. I love her to pieces but I can't get my ex out of my head. I miss her and want to talk to her again. She had been upset about me for a long time but she may have gotten over me. I've ways loved her. ...

Recently diagnosed with HSV-1 and HSV-2, he tested himself and results were negative??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2476 days ago

14 June 2017 (F - So I have a few concerns about my current situation. To begin, I was having low back pain for about 5 months and I finally decided to go to the doctor to try to get it checked and maybe some relief medication. While I was there my PCP also did ...

My partner is falling for his ex and although I know I should end things I love him!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2479 days ago

12 June 2017 (F - I've been in my relationship now for almost 6 years and engaged for 2 of those years. (No date for marriage due to both of us being at risk of redundancy) and over 5 years ago we had a problem with my partners work colleague. To give a little ba...

I'm married but cheating with my old flame and I'm hopelessly in love

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 2214 days ago

12 June 2017 (F - I went to a reunion and as soon as I stood in front of my old flame I knew. I hadn't thought of him in 40 years. I'm happily married and live a plush life. He never married. Even though we live in Different states we've been together twice And...

Fear I'll always be comparing new guys to my ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2472 days ago

11 June 2017 (F - My ex and I broke up almost exactly 1 month ago. It was one of the most painful breakups I've ever experienced. I thought our relationship was really good. He was incredibly considerate, kind, and dependable. He was always going out of his way to ...

My husband and I are struggling to move on. Any suggestions on how we can resolve this?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2474 days ago

7 June 2017 (F - Hi. I am a married mom mid thirties. My husband and I have been together for 20 years, married for 13 years. We have 5 children together. We have had a wonderful marriage up until recent. Back in Feb 2015 my husband started to receive texts fr...

I was so attached to him. Now I want to cut him out of my life. But how?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2486 days ago

6 June 2017 (F - Hey. I need some help. Although I have moved on from a long term relationship before this and I know it gets Okay with time but I can't seem to get over this situation. I invested all my feelings in a guy for 4 years just to get cheated. It too...

How can I forget him? How can I train myself to stop thinking of him in the way I do think now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2474 days ago

6 June 2017 (F - Hello everyone I wanted to ask if anyone has any techniques on how to stop associating certain memories with an ex. My ex and I went to school together and reunited for a short lived relationship. Long story short he was just brutal in endin...

My husband had an affair a couple of years ago. Should I write to the woman and ask some questions?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2474 days ago

6 June 2017 (F - my husband had an affair a couple years ago, he says it is over but I have my doubts. She does not live near us anymore. I want to write her a letter and ask her if he has called her or written her a letter. If he has what has he told her, did he...

Why do I miss him so much now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2487 days ago

5 June 2017 (F - I dated a guy for around 6 months altogether. The first three months were perfect, absolutely perfect and we were so well suited, it was literally as if he was my clone too, we were so matchy matchy. I became depressed at the end of the three mo...

I need advice on how to handle this, please? My life is turning into a sitcom

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2488 days ago

5 June 2017 (F - I'm sure a lot of you will probably think I'm being silly. I've tried talking to myself about this, and I've realized that I'm not mad/jealous because I don't want him anymore, I'm just annoyed. I married my ex-husband A (he's 33) in 2013, we wer...

Still devastated over ex, contacted him after 3 months?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2478 days ago

4 June 2017 (F - While he was in Italy on holiday with his mom who always a burden on our relationship, he told me he wanted to move out with me, and take the next step, I was hopeful. A week later he calls me telling me he has decided to move to Italy for good, ...

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