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Archived questions from: March, 2016 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

What do I do? My BF refuses to stop talking to a girl he had a crush on before meeting me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2944 days ago

31 March 2016 (F) - So I moved in with my boyfriend in the end of OCT . It was love at first meeting and a very quick move in together. He moved me in on his birthday of all things and said I was the best birthday gift ever. Well since then Ive had to wade through ...

Deal breaker? Should I end my relationship with my fiance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2945 days ago

31 March 2016 (F) - I'm really heart broken and disappointed. I am in a LDR realtionship for 3 years and my fiancé is going to come where I live and get marry this summer. It has been an extremely difficult pat to get here. We both are divorced his wife moved to an...

Unfinished business? Should I leave my current GF for an ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2944 days ago

30 March 2016 (M) - Dear Cupid, I have been going out with my current girlfriend for roughly 5 months now, and everything was going fine, until my ex recently came back on the scene. I had a strong connection with my ex and we were each others best friends. I do n...

I have a LDR but have reconnected with an ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2945 days ago

30 March 2016 (M) - I have been with my current partner for 4 months now, and everything is fine. It's long distance (100 miles). But I drive to see her once a week. However, my ex has recently come back in to my life. My ex and I both moved cross country for ...

Is it wise to confront him with all that I have found out about him in contact with his ex? We have been together for 12 years

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2946 days ago

30 March 2016 (F) - I have been with this man for 12 years I just recently found out that he has been paying for his ex bills though their kids are grown Found out Thur text on his phone with texting and calling each on it the daily found text where they are send...

Should I be happy for my ex fiance after he cheated on me and hurt me so badly?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2946 days ago

30 March 2016 (F) - About 3 months ago, my fiancé of 4 years ended our relationship. I would later find out he was cheating on me behind my back for about 2 weeks with a new woman at his work who he barely knew. I knew he met her and I actually knew her somewhat bac...

Do I have a right to feel uncomfortable? Everyone has a past, but my boyfriend keeps dropping bombshells

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2946 days ago

29 March 2016 (F) - I have had a wonderful few months with my boyfriend but he just keeps dropping bombshells. The first was about a one night stand he had in his unhappy marriage two years ago which he regretted. Then he told me he uses alcohol as an emotiona...

My boyfriend is a dad, and the child's mother hates me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2947 days ago

28 March 2016 (F) - Hey everyone thank you in advance for helping me I am having an issue here and need advice desperately. For the last 5 months I have been dating a great man who has a 4 year old son with his ex fiancé, a woman who he still remains close wi...

I'm still having a tough time moving on from my previous relationship!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2904 days ago

28 March 2016 (M) - I posted something a couple of months ago about my now defunct seven year relationship with this woman that started out as as a FWB arrangement, but progressed into a relationship. My social life has been packed to to hilt with activities in or...

I'm a bit jealous about my girlfriend's ex being her first

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2948 days ago

27 March 2016 (M) - I have a minor but what I fear might be a big problem about myself in my current relationship. And rather than opinions and criticism over how juvenile I am, I would like to hear from people who had a similar experience, and how they got over it. ...

Dumped by a cowardly text!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2949 days ago

26 March 2016 (F) - Hi I am hoping for some guidance with something that has happened to me this week. My boyfriend of a year dumped me by text. It was literally a line saying lets call it a day, following a couple of harsh texts between us. Ironically, I act...

How can I deal with this rejection?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2950 days ago

26 March 2016 (F) - For the past 3 months me and this guy have been getting really close, he told me he started falling for me in the first month and I've never had a relationship before so I said to him I don't know what I want because I've never done this , I just ...

Now that I've started dating again I find myself having dreams about my ex! Does this mean I'm not over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2950 days ago

25 March 2016 (F) - My ex-boyfriend and I dated for one year and broke up three months ago. He was an amazing partner and a wonderful person. He was always attentive towards me and I treasured him. We were in love, however later realized that our opposite personalities ...

I think I'm turning into a bunny boiler! How do I explain things to my ex and move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2951 days ago

25 March 2016 (F) - Help - I think I'm turning into a bunny boiler!! How do I reverse this and make people trust me again? Without going into too much details - I was dumped by my ex, blocked and given no explanation. He wouldn't answer my calls or explain what I'd...

My ex-girlfriend is pregnant by another man and has asked for my help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2950 days ago

25 March 2016 (M) - How should I feel? My ex-girlfriend is pregnant by another man and wants me to take her to get a abortion? ...

I feel like the rebound...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2947 days ago

25 March 2016 (F) - Ok so I've been chatting online to a guy for the past 3 months casually enough but then we decided to have our first date, that's about 6 weeks ago now and we're now on date 14. I'm a very shy and insecure person so this is a massive step for me. H...

My exes are trying to get back with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2947 days ago

24 March 2016 (M) - Can any body tell me what's going on ,in th,making ple past three weeks,four ex girlfriends, have been wanting to see me,one l am seeing again, we were together four years ago, two from two years ago, or so, an now one from thirty five years ago, ...

Should I stay good friends with my ex for our son's sake?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2952 days ago

24 March 2016 (F) - I have an issue that is sort of complicated. I have an ex fiancé and we have a son who is currently 3 years old. We were together about 4 and a half years or so. The reason we broke up is well he had cheated on me with a woman he had met. This st...

I am jealous of my online boyfriend's past relationships.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2909 days ago

22 March 2016 (F) - Guys. I have an issue . I have been dating a guy online now for sometime like 3 years . he is open to me about his ex and showed pictures and told me stories like how his ex cheated on him. I understand and appreciate that he is trying to be open ...

Is it right to stay in a relationship when your partner indicates that someone before you was his ''perfect match''??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2954 days ago

22 March 2016 (F) - I would really like some opinions about my situation and I'm not sure if I'm being an idiot staying with my boyfriend or if I should leave him. I've been with him for three years and from the second date he started talking about a female friend qu...

We broke up but he wont leave me alone

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2954 days ago

21 March 2016 (F) - Hi, My ex and I broke up about 3 weeks ago and I thought it was mutual, both of us acknowledged that we no longer get on like we used to and have tried to make it work on multiple occasions over the past year. Basically it was one of those relatio...

Should I help my son financially?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2954 days ago

21 March 2016 (M) - My son is 28, and has basically never worked. I'm soooo disappointed in him, I can't begin to say. He hasn't spoken to me in over a year.He doesn't respond to phone calls, emails, texts, or anything. He thinks I belittle him because when I was i...

Still worried sick my ex might pursue one of my closest friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2955 days ago

20 March 2016 (F) - Not been with my ex boyfriend for about a year now (we were together over a year and a half) and my feelings are still there, his friends aren't the best and can be really horrible about me. When my ex boyfriend and I are by ourselves like in conve...

My boyfriend cheated and left me, so why do I feel guilty?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2956 days ago

20 March 2016 (F) - I need some help. Basically, my ex boyfriend cheated on me and ended up dumping me in order to be with the girl he cheated with. Now he didn't do this in a 'mean' way, he just seem very confused. He was still trying to make our relationship wor...

It's been a year and I'm still upset over ex boyfriend. Will I ever get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2956 days ago

20 March 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid, it's almost been a year since my ex boyfriend broke up with me, and I'm still upset and I still miss him. I don't think I will ever fully get over it. I no longer think about it constantly like I did in the beginning, but I still thin...

Should I confess the details of my secret messages ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2957 days ago

19 March 2016 (F) - Should I tell my husband all the details of my relationship with an old friend ? My husband has always had a high sex drive and never had a problem with performance. But since he found out about us sharing some very explicit texts, he has ha...

My ex has filed for bankruptcy and the house I was awarded in the divorce is being included! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2956 days ago

18 March 2016 (F) - I got divorced a few years ago. In my divorce I was awarded the house with my ex husband paying the outstanding debt. My property stood good for the mortgage but my name isn't on the mortgage A few months ago my ex decided that he was filing b...

My ex contacted me months later to make amends

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2958 days ago

18 March 2016 (F) - I would like to get some advice on if I made the right decisions regarding my ex boyfriend. I am 22, he is 25. We were together 3 years and were friends for about 1 year before. All together I knew him for about 4 years, which is quite a long tim...

I found my cheating ex on a dating site again

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2958 days ago

18 March 2016 (F) - So I met a man across the country who lives in Seattle (I live in the east coast). He remained faithful for almost 2 years and before I flew out to see him I found out he was still on date sites and had dated several and hooked up with 2 (no sex). I ...

Blocked by my ex and his new girlfriend. How do I make things better?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2956 days ago

17 March 2016 (F) - How do I make this situation better? My ex and his new girlfriend fell out with me big time. I tried to talk them round - but they didn't want to know. So I got annoyed and sent them 1 or 2 nasty anonymous text messages - but they guessed it was ...

My alcoholic ex wants us to be a couple again. I love him but am very confused

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2959 days ago

17 March 2016 (F) - Last year I decided that in order to help my ex sort this drinking out, I had to leave him instead of letting him get away with it all the time. Now he wasn't an alcoholic, more of a binge drinker which meant he would be away from work for a few d...

My Boyfriend's ex just will not let go. Shall I attend the wedding we're both invited to, or stay away?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2961 days ago

15 March 2016 (F) - My boyfriend is taking me to a wedding and his ex, who is Very much clearly still in love with him, will be there. Should I go to this wedding? I don't want to end up causing a scene. FYI, my boyfriend has told her to move on and that they won...

Time and time again I take him back, only to be rejected again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2961 days ago

14 March 2016 (F) - I am seeking advice, I have been involved with a man whom ive been on and off with for 5 years. we were together for a solid year and a half, and he broke it off. The breakup was devastating for me, I thought he was the one. since then we have bee...

Ex moved on with someone else quickly. Does this mean he was over me before we even broke up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2960 days ago

14 March 2016 (F) - Hello maybe someone can help me out, thank you in advance. My ex and I broke up back in late January and within almost a month he got into a new relationship. We were together 3 1/2 years so him moving on in just a month kind of hurt me because ...

If I date or have someone else should I tell my ex who is in jail? He wants to know everything!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2962 days ago

14 March 2016 (F) - So my ex is currently in jail has been in there for a year already and looking at 3 to 4 years the most but could be out by the end of this year if his bond gets lowered .. He has been calling me everyday from the jail phone and we been talking ...

Is this the sign of a break up? Should I text him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2962 days ago

12 March 2016 (F) - Dear cupid...my boyfried and i have been together for 3 year we were so in love we do every thing together, at least we use to until his ex gf came back in town. He speaks to her and ever since she has came back he and i do not comunicate at all. ...

I'm worried about my ex she has contacted me out of the blue and I don't wish to have anything to do with her

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2965 days ago

11 March 2016 (M) - Hello everyone. How are you all? Okay, so I'm not sure how this goes? First time here. I really need some advice. I, like many others had everything. Cutting a long story short. I lost it all. I got involved with a lady I should never ...

Heartbroken over my ex. Why is his new girlfriend taking revenge this way?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2965 days ago

10 March 2016 (F) - I am so heart broken right now. I was with my ex for 3 years. We've been through a lot together, we loved and sacrificed for each other. We were there for each other through thick and thin. The only thing was we always argued about every little t...

He said he wants to try again but now has gone silent!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2967 days ago

9 March 2016 (F) - Hi, my ex stoped speaking to me last Sept last yr , then all of a sudden he contacted me on 14 Feb, saying how he missed me, and how it was all him with being a father figer to my little girl and got scared, and wasnt used to someone being so nice ...

Ex partner is a born again Christian now and I am scared of our daughters upbringing

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2794 days ago

9 March 2016 (F) - Hello everyone, Can anyone please give me some advice on how to deal with bringing up my 2 year old daughter with my ex partner who is now an evangelist born again Christian. Before we split up I was with him for years and he hated all forms...

how do I determine if this guy is serious about me? Or is he just using me as a rebound?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2967 days ago

9 March 2016 (F) - i just want to know if I'm overreacting or not , okay so I've been talking to my ex lately again he reached out to me and honestly it's kike a cycle with him repeating over and over again. Its like one minute he's all serious about being a relation...

I’m troubled by my boyfriend’s sexual past! Please help.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2967 days ago

8 March 2016 (F) - Hi Dear Cupid community, I've been dating a wonderful guy for about 9 months. But for nearly 6 months, I've been struggling to get over his sexual past. We briefly discussed our sexual pasts in the beginning of the relationship and I mentioned that ...

Was my ex right for gettigng upset with me? We've broken up

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2968 days ago

8 March 2016 (F) - Hi guys! I know your probably bored of me now after asking previous questions so apologies if you are. I am still quite distraught about whats happened between me and my ex (Please read my other posts if you don't know some of the situation). ...

My ex keeps asking me about other guys that I meet! It’s confusing!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2968 days ago

8 March 2016 (F) - Really need help please!! my ex boyfriend broke up with me about 3 months ago. he first said the reason why was because he didn't love me anymore, but then he gave other reasons saying he wasn't ready, he was also telling his family different reason ...

Hurts me that ex bf found love and moved on so quickly meanwhile I'm still hurt

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2964 days ago

8 March 2016 (F) - I hope this doesn't come off rude or pathetic but I really need some advice. It's been only 2 months since the guy I was with for 3 years (and who I was really in love with) broke up with me and started dating someone else immediately afte...

I wonder if he’s really interested in me, and whether I should tell him about his best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2969 days ago

7 March 2016 (F) - Last August I got with a guy for he first time, I went back to school and he went to college I didn't think much of it until I bumped into him a few weeks later at a party and he approached me and we chatted while both sobar. Two weeks later we saw ...

How do I tell my new girlfriend I had a one-night stand with her sister before we met?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2969 days ago

7 March 2016 (M) - I recently started going out with this girl. She’s beautiful, smart, kind and funny. Pretty much everything I could ask for in a girl. The only problem? I’ve slept with her sister. I’m 23 and she’s 22. We’ve been going out for 3 weeks now. The o...

I need help dealing with my sexuality, relationships, and love! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2888 days ago

7 March 2016 (M) - So I have a complicated relationship type thing with this guy I've been seeing for over 6 months here's the story and the problem. I met this guy back in September he was like the 3rd guy I met and we had a great connection. When we slept togethe...

My reaction to seeing my ex has me wondering if I should be engaged!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2969 days ago

7 March 2016 (F) - I am engaged to my long term boyfriend. This has been a recent engagement and I was very happy. However, I ran into my university ex at the weekend or I have rarely thought about in five years. It was nice to have a quick catch up. Since seeing him ...

I messed up again, or maybe for the 11th time! Advice on how to get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2969 days ago

7 March 2016 (M) - I'm 20 about to be 21 she's 17 about to be 18 We meet each other in high school We worked together for atleast a year I was dating a girl Broke up with her to be with the girl I'm currently with Then broke Up with her and go back with the o...