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Archived questions from: February, 2012 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

Should I stick with him or let him go and sort my head out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - I don't know what to do.. I think my ex has messed up my head. I can't feel feelings and sometimes they're the opposite feeling I am supposed to have. I've had 3 family members die in 3 months and I've hardly cried and when I told friends they've ...

Is there still a spark there with him???

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - I have been in touch with my ex boyfriend, now married. It was a bad breakup and we started to finally talk and be friends again. Well one night I get two phone calls from his wife telling me not to talk to him or text him again. I didn't pick up. ...

His sweet words to me, so romantic, well, he's used them before with his past girlfriends!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - my boyfriend was very romantic when we first got together. he used to send me loonggg text messages telling me how he felt about me and how he had really fallen for me and i loved it. as we got further along the line these messages died down, though ...

My boyfriend's ex-girlfriend, what's the best thing to do so she will leave us alone!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4381 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - My bf's ex gf, what is the best way to have her leave us alone? My bf and I have been back together for almost a year now (we dated 1 yr and a half back then, and broke up) When we were together the first time he talked to his ex here and there, ...

Liking a friend's ex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - I really.like my friend's ex-bf. They have broken up many times when they dated and got back together. They broke up again and now my friend has a new boyfriend. I'm afraid to tell her that I like her ex. But i want to tell her I like him but don't ...

I was trying to be friends with my ex, then he started yelling at me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

29 February 2012 (F) - So i was dating this guy and we dated for about 3 months then we broke up and we agreed to be "friends" as almost every couple do and then about 2 weeks ago he text-ed me saying shut up because i said hey sup then we went on and he just kept ...

My ex is insulting me! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - Hello Dear-Cupid-Team, I'm having trouble with my ex. When i met him he was a real Mr Right but then he dumped me because of his ex. After that incident he totally cut me of. I found out he cheated on me - what he is doing at the moment with his...

I want to move on from the first man I was with, but I feel like I have no desire for anyone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4438 days ago

28 February 2012 (M) - hii all i am gay and i was kinda relationship with a man but he was just sex freak.so, i just stopped srring him.and now the situation is that i am unable to forget him,i want him badly he was the first man of my life with whom i was having p...

Can someone really be ready to marry after only three months?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

28 February 2012 (M) - So I posted on here a while ago and the advice was pretty good so I wanted some opinions on something else. Basically I was in a relationship and through no fault of hers I moved away making it an LDR and this put a strain on the relationship to the ...

Should I try getting back with my ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

28 February 2012 (M) - Its been a year. After my really bad rebuking mail, we stopped talking; but she still called back once or twice . And then the last one was an apologizing mail a few days back. We were in contact for around six months, but I stopped talking ...

Still grieving over a failed relationship, how do I move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - Hi! Any words of wisdom appreciated. I broke up with someone about 3 months ago. He was a friend and former housemate. We always seemed to be more than 'friends' but things were awkward as we lived with another guy who was his friend and who liked ...

I think I caught him out with his ex wife, but he wont explain what has been going on! I feel so used....

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - Dear all, please help!! I have been seeing this guy for a year. it has been a rather rocky relastionship, and he had seperated from his wife sometime back - around three years ago. Anyway, I had a funny hunch that things were somehow still 'cosy' ...

I had to leave my daughter with my ex in order to get out of the relationship and now it is so difficult to get to see her, is my ex's behaviour normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

27 February 2012 (F) - i was with my ex for a year and half. we went through a lot together. we had a baby girl few months ago. i eventually realised that i have no friends left due to him alienating them all and few family members too. he always kept hold of my bank ...

He knows I have a bf. What's his problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4441 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - Hey. well, this is confusing so just bear with me :) I met a guy in year 7 and he was in year 9. We were great mates and teased each other and so on and I only thought of us as mates. Wasn't sure about him though. Then in year 8 we started meetin...

Would someone really hold back and push you away if they really did have feelings for you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - Would someone really hold back and push you away and say they don't want you if they really did have feelings for you? Like for example if they weren't ready for the relationship or whatever, even though they can have a relationship with others ...

Should I get back with my ex boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - My ex boyfriend broke up with me in 2006.I did not see it coming because we were getting on fine.I was terribly hurt by the breakup. He recently contacted me in december 2011 saying he wanted us to get back. He sent me a love song and was telling me ...

He stood me up for no reason

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

26 February 2012 (?) - Me and this guy friend arranged to meet up this weekend; his idea actually. We do have a bit of a history. We've never dated but we did have a bit of casual "fun" when we were both single. I ended up developing feelings for him but I think that was ...

Should this change how I feel about my husband to be?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - My Fiancé is a very inspiring person: born very poor single mother who had troubles with "the drink" (one Christmas he told me all he got was a black eye). Yet, he's now finishing a medical residency and has put everything behind him from his past, ...

My ex and I split 2 years ago. I've always loved her. Should I contact her or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

26 February 2012 (M) - I split with my ex just over two years ago. I still think of her and I sent her a message just before xmas a couple of months back and she replied the same day telling me she wasn't so good and that she started a new job and didn't feel herself ...

I'm getting tired of it, I really am!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

25 February 2012 (F) - I was asking for advice concerning my ex we broke up in August remained friends he visits on weekends and has times he stays in the week I see our friendship like being on a roller coaster one minute fine then look out. We are nothing alike y...

I don't want to rekindle our affair but his son just died ...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

24 February 2012 (F) - I ended an affair with a married man 6 months ago. 2 days ago, I found out his son passed away at 21 yrs old 1 day ago. Although I avoid all contact with him, I feel bad for his lost. I want to know shld I call and give my condolences. Something ...

Confused with feelings for my current boyfriend and my ex! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

24 February 2012 (F) - Hi friends.... I am going through a problem these days. so wanted to share that with you... I am presently in a relationship with a guy. In the early phases of our relationship, everything was normal. He used to love me a lot and cared for me. bu...

He was once a cheater, so what makes me any different?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4405 days ago

24 February 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for six months and I can honestly say without hesitation, I've NEVER loved anyone the way I love him. However, he has a past and it's affecting me and our relationship. Before I go any further, let me give you ...

Should my bf stop texting and meeting his ex crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4443 days ago

24 February 2012 (F) - Dear all, I decided to write a more complete story so that you all can have a better understanding. I am in a serious relationship for a year now. 3 years ago in 2009 I broke up with my ex and was very depressed. During that time I ev...

What is the most romantic way to win over an ex who is dating someone else?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

24 February 2012 (M) - 5 days ago I dumped my girlfriend that I have had for 6 months. I wanted to be single and I honestly think about my ex a lot. I love her still but she is with another man. It stinks, to say the least. So after the break up I see my ex's tumblr f...

He declined my proposal with the answer 'I see this happening in the future'. How do I show him marriage would work without being pushy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

24 February 2012 (F) - Hi, I would appreciate your views on my dilemma. I recently proposed to my boyfriend with a poem I had written myself. We have been together for 18months although do not live together at the moment. We have discussed living together but it's ...

Why did my ex call just to tell me I'm a nice girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4443 days ago

24 February 2012 (F) - What did he mean by that? why did he call me? ? ? I loved my ex bf so much. We weren't just boyfriend and girlfriend we were friends aswell. We'd talk about everything and anything and could talk for hours on the phone and not run out of t...

PDA issues with my boyfriend, and jealous of his insanely beautiful ex! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4444 days ago

23 February 2012 (F) - Ok so have this amazing perfect boyfriend I have been dating off and on since 8th grade(we're in 10th now). I love him to death, we were even each others first kiss. currently this time our relationship has lasted since 2 days before thanksgiving ...

I'm in a happy relationship now, so why wont my ex move on like I have done?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

23 February 2012 (F) - hi everyone i need to understand why my ex is still tracking my movements on the internet? we were together 7 years, its been over between us for 2 yrs but only stopped sexual contact 10 months ago. we have had zero contact except on 3 occasions via ...

Do I give my ex yet another chance for my little girl's sake? Or do I move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

23 February 2012 (F) - hi again... i seriously need advice. i come out of serious relationship of 4 years, 3 n half months ago, my ex is a recovering alcoholic, we have a little girl. he is desperate to get back with me and he is going to this council session every week ...

Is it just too soon to start a new relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

23 February 2012 (F) - This shouldn't be this difficult. I broke up with the ex January 2nd. The last 3 weeks I've had a really nice, sweet, caring guy in hot pursuit. I've told him several times that I'm in no shape emotionally or psychologically to get into anything ...

He put pictures up on Facebook of his ex wives, am I right to be upset by this or am I over-reacting?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

23 February 2012 (F) - My boyfriend has recently put a couple of photos of his ex wives on his phone, and his FB timeline. I was a bit shocked when I saw them. His explanation was that they were a part of his past and he wanted them there. I found this odd, I too have ex ...

He claims his chatting with his ex was harmless, but it really hurts me. Who is in the right here?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

23 February 2012 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 18 months, and I love him dearly. A few months ago I found messages on his Facebook between him and an ex. The contents upset me as they were flirting, although nothing too major. I told him how I felt, and he ...

I cant go to senior prom with my G/f because of the age limit and so her ex is taking her but I know he still has feelings for her. I don't trust this guy and I don't know what to do

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

23 February 2012 (M) - hi agony aunts, i am in a relationship with an 18 year old girl. I am 22. the problem is that her senior prom is coming up, and we can't go together because her school has a stupid age limit, you can't go if you're over 21. so anyway, a gu...

Ex-boyfriend or ex-friend? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

22 February 2012 (F) - My ex boyfriend from two years ago used to be my best friend. All through my last relationship with someone else he was always there for me, we were inseperable and he was my best friend. After me and my last ex boyfriend broke up, me and the ...

We're over. Should I try to make things right so there's no tension?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4445 days ago

22 February 2012 (F) - Hey everyone, so I have a small issue. Well, it all started in December. My ex and I were still dating but... We were very distant. We hardly ever got together and I wanted to break up with him, but I didn't know when or how. I never loved him, ...

He's leaving his girlfriend, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

22 February 2012 (F) - I've been hanging out with a co-worker friend of mine who is a guy 2 months ago. And we've got very attached to eachother, but the thing is that he has a girlfriend and a child with her. His girlfriend is bipolar with a very bad temper. He's told ...

Should I still be sleeping with my ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4445 days ago

22 February 2012 (F) - My ex boyfriend and I broke up two months ago, but were still good friends. We hang out regularly and its not awkward at all. He will call me up just to chat, surprise me with dinner and ice cream and even bought me chocolates the other day. We s...

Should I ask him about his relationship with his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4445 days ago

22 February 2012 (F) - So my boyfriend I am now seeing are planning on getting married in the near future. He moved from alabama to north dakota and thats when I met him. But as I was creeping on his facebook wall and looking at his pictures I noticed that he is still ...

I ran from my ex girlfriend! Did I do the right thing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

22 February 2012 (M) - Hello. I had an encounter with my ex, on a city bus. Now, she's the dumper. I'm scared of her, as she lied to me, and such. Anyways, I got off the bus, and, I find out she got off at the same stop. Now, I attend the same school as her (But, thankf...

I don't want a repeat of my last visit to Russia to meet my ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4445 days ago

21 February 2012 (M) - HI, I recently went back to russia to visit an ex girlfriend and her family. The last time i was there was 4 and a half years ago and she actually dumped me after 24 hours of arriving.I left early and came home. I forgave after a time and her fami...

Should I ask my ex out on a date? I don't want to do it too early but don't want to wait till its too late!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

21 February 2012 (M) - Ive been broken up with my ex gf for about a month and a half and i miss her so much. she was the one who ended it because she had a guy she met and i guess you can say she got a crush on him. this happened to me as well a few years ago but i never ...

Wow! Cheated on twice in a row

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4445 days ago

21 February 2012 (F) - I am devastated to say the least. The guy I have been dating for the last year, I found out was cheating on me. I know that these things happen, but it seems like they are happenening to much TO ME! I don't know what I'm doing wrong? In a nut ...

Why would she do all this texting, Christmas present, chatting, etc when I have been avoiding her and not returning the same to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4446 days ago

21 February 2012 (M) - I was dating a girl from work for about 8 months last year, but finished with her in December. The relationship was an emotional rollercoaster to say the least, but the last straw for me was receiving a text from her saying she was going on holiday ...

Is there something going on between my ex and one of our friends?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4446 days ago

21 February 2012 (F) - Arghhhhh! I need someone to calm me down a bit!!! My thoughts are running away with me and i'm totally freaking out!!! I'm trying to get over my ex at the minute, and it's going well so far, apart from this one thing that's literally tortur...

Controlling ex has made it difficult for me to talk to people

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20 February 2012 (F) - I had a boyfriend who was really controlling and he stopped me from talking to anyone but him. Obviously i ended it with him, but now i'm finding it really hard to start conversations with people and i'm no where near as sociable as i used to be. I ...

Husband are I are moving back to his hometown where he has alot of ex girlfriends!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4446 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - My husband and I are in a situation where we need to move closer to his work. Unfortunately, that move will take us to the small town he grew up in. That town has LOTS of his ex girlfriends in it. (He was quite the cassanova) I am upset about this ...

So with the new date, do I tell him about my ex and what about the conditions he puts on our dating? And why does my ex want to deter me from dating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4447 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - Topic 1: My Ex Recently I broke up with a b/f of over a year, we didnt have any sort of falling out, we simply cant/couldnt be together because of issues outside of our control. Since we both admitted that we didnt think we could wait like 10 yea...

Now that I have the chance to get back with my b/f something is holding me back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4447 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - I need help! See I was with this guy for about 4 years, we had a son but he treated me really bad. We both were just really immature about everything. Until one day i could not take it anymore, i called it off. I started seeing another guy and at ...

Is it a phase, me thinking I could be gay? Could the suicide of my ex still be complicating my life right now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4447 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - I honestly think Im gay. I've never been this is love with a girl. My mom says its just a phase and what Im thinking is love is really in need of friendship. My ex recently committed suicide and it took me a while to get over it but i smiled a...