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Archived questions from: February, 2006 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

We have broken up but he doesn't turn up to agreed meetings

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6622 days ago

28 February 2006 (M) - I am having some problems with my ex, 21, since our split after five months. I am 33, we are both gay, and we had a wonderful, honest relationship. However, after New Year he suddenly chose to end things saying things were not working for him....

Di I want to marry her because I feel guilty for what I dod with my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6625 days ago

27 February 2006 (M) - i've been with my gf just over a year and have just got back from holiday with her. i had a messy break up with my x gf and still speak 2 her sumtimes but i met up with her on my lunch break from work and he had a play with eachother. we didnt have ...

Do I give my ex another chance, knowing that he's always asking about his chances with other girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6626 days ago

26 February 2006 (F) - I used to go out with this friend of my brother's but he broke up with me. He's in the Marines now and keeps saying he wants me to give him another chance. I told him he'd have to wait till he came home. My brother tells me though that he is al...

Can't tell him I don't think we're finished, because it was me who broke us up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6626 days ago

25 February 2006 (F) - hey, I'm 20 and I have problems with my relationships, but I find myself thinking about just one person. He was my first love and I have a feeling that we have uncompleted task, but don't know how to tell him I want us back together, because ...

Since the breakup, my ex has gone a bit freaky. What are his feelings and how do I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6627 days ago

24 February 2006 (F) - How do you get over someone who says his feelings for you haven't changed (i.e., he's still more in love than he's ever been), but he can't date you anymore, for other reasons? Especially when you have to see him every day? It's been 7 weeks sin...

He used to send loving txt messages everyday but since we split he has put up a wall of silence!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6627 days ago

24 February 2006 (M) - My ex gay boyfriend, 21, has put up a wall of silence since our split after six months a month ago. I am 33 and was deeply shocked when he suddenly chose to end things, saying the relationship was not working for him. Instead of ending things f...

Who's lying? My boyfriend, about his ex? Or the ex, about my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6628 days ago

24 February 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid I was a stripper when I met my current boyfriend. He is 29 years older than me and well established in his business. When he asked me to stop stripping I didn’t think twice. Three months after we started dating I got pregnant. I now ...

I want my ex boyfriend back...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

23 February 2006 (F) - I was in a relationship for 5yrs and i finished it in november, we gave it another go and i felt that it wasnt working. i was cing this guy from college but me and my ex was sex buddies and he was the only one whom i was doing it with. i then ...

My ex wants to get back together but I think hes scared. How do i talk to him??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6629 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - I am 21 years old, me and my now very new ex boyfriend broke up mostly because he needs to focus on the 2 jobs he really wants and university also. These are things that are very important to him (he is 21 also). We were together for 5 months, ...

Am I overreacting to his phone call with his ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6620 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - Hi, a week or so ago my boyfriend's ex rang him to find out how his interview went... when she rang he left the room to talk to her and an argument ensued. When he came back into the room I asked if he was ok and he responded saying "Nothing, it's ...

Checked his phone and found messages from his ex on it...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6629 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - I have been dating this guy for about five months. I can tell he was the kind of guy who never got into any serious relationship before until me. He obviously likes me a lot and shows his affection for me daily. He emails/calls/texts daily. He also ...

I keep thinking about my old flame...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6630 days ago

22 February 2006 (M) - Hi to all supporters out there. I have the problem that I have struggled with letting go of an old flame. We we're together through school years for 4 years. We have both since left school and moved on with life. I am now 28 but still often th...

My ex keeps wanting to meet up and then making excuses for not turning up. What should i do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

22 February 2006 (M) - I need a little help on how to tackle my gay ex. I am 33 and he is 21 and we have recently split after six months. He ended it by simply not turning up at arranged times - preferring to go out with his friends. He has had a lot of problems at work,...

My b/f got with somebody else while we were apart and she is still texting him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6609 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - Me and my boyfriend had been going out a year and a half. Things were great, then he told me that he wanted to join the army. I knew he wanted to do this before we met but nothing was ever said until this far in the relationship. It broke my heart. ...

I know her sexual past is past, but she keeps running into sleazy exes at social functions...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6630 days ago

22 February 2006 (M) - Hi All, I have a gf who has a long sexual past. This does not bother me, except for 1 aspect... She keeps seeing them at social functions because they are either related to her friends or are friends with them. (She comes from a small town where...

My ex is only in my life because he's giving me money for child support. I hate the arrangement...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6630 days ago

22 February 2006 (F) - Is it dodgey only to have something to do with your ex just because he is giving you money to support yourself and child? If I didn't I wouldn't even be able to pay rent alone...hard to move coz have no money and bad name on tica. Am looking ...

After my friend split up with his ex i started to have feelings for her. Now my friend is single again and flirting with his ex. What do i do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6631 days ago

21 February 2006 (M) - About a year ago, my friend's girlfriend left him. I didnt fancy her at the time, but a few months later I started to notice her. I decided to leave it for a few more months, so everyone could forget about her relationship with my friend. We've ...

I still love my little boy's dad. I don't want to, but can't seem to stop...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6632 days ago

21 February 2006 (F) - I have a 2 year old son. His dad left me when I was pregnant. I still love him but he lives so far away from me now and he has never seen his son. I don't want to love him anymore but can't stop. What do i do? I need all the advice I can get beca...

My family say I should be grateful for any girlfriend at all, but this situation doesn't feel fair to me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6632 days ago

20 February 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for 1.5 years. She is the first I have been with, while I am her 6th. I could have got over this but she kept on going to her ex's house at least 2 times a week to cook him dinner and watch movies with him...

My boyfriend can't let go of the idea of my ex, and it's driving us apart!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6631 days ago

20 February 2006 (F) - I'm a simple, average girl who has my Mr. Right, but now my relationship with him fell apart because of my ex. He kept insulting me about my past whenever he saw my ex, but the thing is, he knows that I love him so much and he knows that I hate my ...

Pretty sure my ex thinks he's gay. Do I tell him I know?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6632 days ago

20 February 2006 (F) - Basically, i have recently (about 2 months ago) found out that my ex boyfriend and close friend who I am still very much in love with thinks he may be gay. He doesn't know that I know (no one else does either). I found his page on one of those ...

We got back together and things were bliss but this morning he hit me and smashed my head against a wall. I love him so much...what do i do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6622 days ago

19 February 2006 (F) - Please help me. I had been with my boyfriend for almost two years, when we argued about money and he left me. The reason we argued about money was that he spent all his wages on cannabis and didn't pay his bills.Four months later we got back tog...

His ex wife keeps sending my bf, reminders of their deceased son. I hate what it's doing to him-should I talk to her about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6633 days ago

19 February 2006 (F) - I'm getting married to my boyfriend of 7 years in may. he has an ex-wife who has to keeps ties with him. By birtday cards,to mailing pictures of the past. She has been married for over 20 years and can't seem to let go of my soon to be husband....

My ex still jokes that she "loves" me, just to tease her boyfriend... but the sexual tension's getting to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6634 days ago

18 February 2006 (M) - I used to date the girl my best friend now lives with. I see them both all the time, and she has always been very touchy-feely. She'll lie across the sofa and watch tv with her head on my lap and she'll hug me all the time. we always joke abou...

My old flame has a girlfriend. Should I give him a whirl, or forget about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6635 days ago

17 February 2006 (F) - I grew up with a childhood sweetheart. We were mad for each other. I recently ran into him again and realize that we still have an incredible connection, but he has a girlfriend...should I pursue him? Or just move on?...

I meet my ex about once a year and I've realised he's my soulmate!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6634 days ago

16 February 2006 (F) - Hi-advice needed pls!! 8 years ago I met a guy. I'll call him 'John'. The spark between us was so electric, we spent every day together from then on. I then became pregnant, but due to various circumstances we agreed to have an abortion. Our re...

Every time we row, he gets in contact with his ex and tells me how much more beautiful and better she is...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6634 days ago

16 February 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for approximately 8 months, but we were together before as well! We have dated on and off since I was 14 (22 now). I need some advice. We get on brilliantly but row when we have a drink. I get mad coz whenever...

He still texts his ex behind my back...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6636 days ago

15 February 2006 (F) - my fionce is still texting and calling his ex bhind my back. we have a 9 week old baby and a home together but he is sneaking these texts behind my back, he knows it upsets me as i have asked him to stop many times but he is stll doing it. he gets ...

My ex is with someone new, even though I know he used to love me. Any chance of us in future?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5854 days ago

15 February 2006 (F) - My ex bf has a new gf, the girl he cheated on me with when he was drunk and it meant nothing!! We were going out 3yrs and in a difficult patch but working on it when he went out and kissed this girl. He works with her so has known her for some time ...

My ex doesn't want me to find someone else but can we be friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6638 days ago

14 February 2006 (?) - Dear Cupid, I broke up with my boyfriend about three weeks ago beacause things just weren't right and i needed space, but ever since he's been calling me and telling me how much he wants me back and he can't live without me though i just want to be ...

Any insight into my husband's one explicit email exchange with an old flame?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6639 days ago

13 February 2006 (F) - I am have been married for two and a half years to a very great husband. We have a 10 month old daughter, we work toether, we play together and we have an amazing sex life. So the other night, I was going to check my e-mail and instead, my ...

My boyfriend's mom likes his ex-girlfriend even better, now that she's back at their church!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

13 February 2006 (F) - My boyfriend's Ex-Girlfriend is back at the same church where my boyfriend's Mom goes. Now the mom likes the Ex because she's back in church...The Mom invited the Ex over their house for dinner. (The only reason I know this is because I'm friends ...

Already starting to lose interest in my BF of 3 months, and flirting with my ex...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6639 days ago

13 February 2006 (F) - Hiya, I need help. I have a boyfriend at the moment and we have been together for 3 months. The thing is I don't know if I still love him, and to make things worse, I am having dreams about an ex. I think I am in love with him and people say he ...

My ex has moved in with a guy she hasn't even known for a month. Now she rings me to complain about him, but I want her back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6639 days ago

13 February 2006 (M) - Me and my ex dated for about 3yrs (we're now 23 and 24) and have lived together for probably 2-2 and a half years. She was my first g/f ever and the first person I ever had any relationship with at all. Throughout the 3 yrs we were together...

Seeing my ex at work every day is a strain! Any way out of this situation that doesn't involve quitting my job?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6640 days ago

13 February 2006 (M) - I was seeing this girl that I work with on and off for about 6 months. We had a lot of ups and downs because she was reluctant to get involved in a serious relationship. After a while we started seeing each other every day and got really close, this ...

Is sex with an ex ever a good idea?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 6632 days ago

13 February 2006 (F) - Is sex with an ex ever a good idea?...

She had lunch and gym meetings with her ex. Now I don't trust her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6639 days ago

12 February 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and I dated for almost a year now. About 1 month into our relationship I found out that she had gone to lunch with her ex-lover. I also learned that he had been coming to the gym that her and I work out at and running on the ...

I'm jealous of my ex's new boyfriend, and I can't help thinking he's getting what I'm not!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6639 days ago

12 February 2006 (M) - My Ex has found someone else.....why does it hurt? My girlfriend of 1 year 8 months broke up with me about a month ago and I was OK with it I guess, cause we were kinda fighting a lot and things kinda fell apart. She said we could still be f...

It haunts me that my ex gf found happiness with the new guy.. It's really bugging me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6640 days ago

12 February 2006 (M) - I left my girlfriend after 4 years because we never had a good sexual relationship. She told me right from the beginning she had herpes. I thought our sex problem was because she worried that she would give it to me, that's what she told me. My ...

How do I stop obsessing over my girlfriend's previous sexual partners?

This question has 76 answers - newest was posted 4163 days ago

11 February 2006 (M) - I've been going out with the same girl now for about 6 months...before we were 'official' we were half going out for about the same amount of time before then. She's had 2 sexual partners before me. She's my first real girlfriend and first long term ...

Can't bear to watch my good female friend dating other guys (and her ex!), when I still fancy her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6641 days ago

11 February 2006 (M) - This girl took an interest in me a few months ago. After getting to know her for a while, we went out a few times, and then I told her I fancied her. At the same time, her ex, who mucked her around last time they went out, told her he had feelings...

Was there anything going on with my boyfriend and his ex when we got together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6633 days ago

10 February 2006 (F) - Hey, I need some advice... I know I shouldn't have done it but (perhaps because I find it hard to trust people) but I looked at my boyfriend's email account. I found an email from his now ex girlfriend from a month ago. He and I got together a...

We split and I got with his friend but now I find I still have feelings for them both...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6641 days ago

10 February 2006 (F) - I was going out with this guy for a year and a half. My feelings eventually changed and i broke up with him. He was really hurt and got suicidal and stuff for like a month. During this month i had been spending a lot of time with my friend.. who is ...

Am I wrong to feel jealousy of my wife's ex-husband?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6642 days ago

9 February 2006 (M) - I just married a woman a few months ago. she was married 15 years, I was 20. we both love each other so much. my wife and I live with her children, my children with thier mother. I have run into a unexpected emotion that has me depressed. my wife ...

My GF's sexual past didn't bother me... until I began to feel like she thinks about them and compares me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6643 days ago

9 February 2006 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been together for a year now, and things are generally great. I really love her. She's much more sexually experienced than me and has had 10 times as many partners as I have. But, WAIT before you stop reading! This i...

She's resisting my efforts to get her back. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6643 days ago

9 February 2006 (M) - Hello, Me and my ex had been going out for 11 months and it was going great. We both love each other lots. Then it became clear that we had lost something; we just kept arguing and not seeing each other as much as we did. We grew apart because ...

His ex won't leave us alone...what can we do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6642 days ago

9 February 2006 (F) - My other-halfs ex cannot get over the breakup and we dont know what to do! Its more complicated as they have a baby who is now 4months old. They broke up before the baby was born. The ex cannot accept that they are no longer together. After ...

What do I do about his explicit pictures of him and his ex-boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6643 days ago

9 February 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and things are wonderful. I knew before we started dating that he had had boyfriends before. He still keeps explicit pictures of him with his ex boyfriend and it bothers me. I found them one day and ...

Says he regrets sending raunchy texts to an ex, so can I trust he won't do it again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6581 days ago

7 February 2006 (F) - Hi, I'm new to all of this but would love some advice please. I have been seeing a lovely guy for 5 months. After a long abusive relationship I never thought I could love again but he has been so caring and loving. I recently found out he was sendi...

His ex and her kids seem to be more important to my husband than us!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6646 days ago

7 February 2006 (F) - My husband put his ex girlfriend's needs before my son's and I. They have two children together (not really sure they are his ) but we have to do without for her, and after five years together it is more than I can stand. What should I do?...