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*oodles113
writes:what would you do if an ex boyfriend you really loved split up with you, you had no contact with him for months and you made a go of things with someone else and you have got a holiday booked with them. then the ex texts and tells you they love you and they are sorry for everything! and you know you still love them but shouldnt really go back! what would you do?
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (25 February 2008):
 If it caused a big problem for your ex with his child, then i would DEFINATELY not go back. Thats not fair for the child. I wouldnt personally wanna come between someone and their child.
C xxxxxx
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reader, noodles113 +, writes (25 February 2008):
noodles113 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni see where you guys are coming from but we wasnt unhappy, we didnt argue if anything we were all loved up! he has a young daughter and he wasnt allowed to see her whilst he was with me! so he finished it! i was heartbroken and know i still love him! its causing a few problems between my new fella cus im not with it at the moment and he knows something is up! its really hard to know whether to follow my heart or just stay where i am! but i have told my new fella whats been going on and i think thats was causing the problems between us!
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reader, noodles113 +, writes (25 February 2008):
noodles113 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni see where you guys are coming from but we wasnt unhappy, we didnt argue if anything we were all loved up! he has a young daughter and he wasnt allowed to see her whilst he was with me! so he finished it! i was heartbroken and know i still love him! its causing a few problems between my new fella cus im not with it at the moment and he knows something is up! its really hard to know whether to follow my heart or just stay where i am! but i have told my new fella whats been going on and i think thats was causing the problems between us!
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (24 February 2008):
 Hi,
I am wondering if your ex knows about you going on holiday with your new guy. If he found out the jealousy bug would have reared its ugly head and he would just be driving a wedge between you two - it seems a big coincidence that he is putting his hand up now just as you are about to go away with your new guy. But coincidences do happen.
So weigh up why you guys split up, were you unhappy, were there just too many things you guys didnt have in common ? If you were the new guy deserves his chance, you learn soon enough that being in love with someone doesnt necessarily mean you should actually share your life with them - sometimes people are just too different to really share a happy relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2008): Think about the reasons you broke up with the ex, decide if your new guy deserves a chance which sounds like he does and that he is taking your relationship seriously as he has booked a holiday in the FUTURE with you, where the ex may have wind of it and just be trying to rain on your happiness.....I would tell the ex about your plans to go on holiday and tell him to have a nice life....but that's me....you have to decide how to live your own life, my dear.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (24 February 2008):
Not go back. And go on holiday with the new guy.
If you know it wont work with the ex, dont let him call the shots.
C xxxxx
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