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Archived questions from: December, 2010 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

My BF has rejected me because he has a 'mental bock' about my previous relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Currently my ex-boyfriend broke off with me as he says he has a mental block re my past relationship which lasted for 5 years. I was with a guy who was married and when the previous relationship started 5 years ago we were friends and then we had a ...

Bf kept all pic he had taken with his ex - is it normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - We've been together for a year and a half. Recently I descovered he still kept ALL of his ex-gf's pics on his computer. Actually that's not what got to me most, but the fact that after seeing the pics and short video clips (we were looking at pics ...

Girlfriend won't allow me to talk badly about her ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4862 days ago

31 December 2010 (M) - my girl friend will not allow me to talk low about her ex boy friend why? she regards always high about him but she says " I love you more than anybody and I will never leave you", what could be the reason can any one please help me and my fear is ...

My ex still texts me. Should I tell his new girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Hi guys, you may have read my previous question about my situation with my ex.. complicated as it is! (and I recommend that you read that question first so that this one makes sense!)I made the decision to move out of the house that we lived in and ...

I know he has a past, I just wish he would leave it there

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4862 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Im in a long distance relationship with a man i love very much he is working toward moving closer to me so we can see each other more. my problem in he still maintains in contact with a few women who he was in a relationship with, right before ...

We have great chemistry. I like him. But what are your thoughts on fact he has no real friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Hey everyone, I have a very close friend and we hve great chemistry. He has liked me for a while now he said, and he would love to go out with me. I told him I'd think about it, but I'm sure I'll say yes because he is such a great funny and cute ...

18 year old ex broke my heart!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - I'm a 14 year old male and I reciantly got my heart broken by my 18 year old ex. I can't get over her, I cant date another girl without thinking about her. I could really use some ways to get over her so I can get on with my life....

To get access to his child, His Ex expects me to absent myself and I'm sick of it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - my bf has an ex wife who doesn't allow their child to come over unless i am not going to be home. This has always been like this. fr day one, but i put a stop to it and told them i no long was goin to hide from her.but its been along time and still ...

How do I tell my ex that its better for us to be friends than to keep having sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4863 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I feel like i am a joke to him. My ex partner and i recently parted we have 2 kids and were together on and off for about 6 yrs. The thing is he doesnt seem to want me to move on, one minute he isnt speaking to me and the next he is asking if he can ...

Is he just keeping me around for his own personal gain?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend broke up about a month ago and we decided to be friends. We broke up on good terms, he had said that he doesn't want to be in a relationship. And he wanted to break up so he doesn't hurt me. So we became friends. Well about a ...

Shall I continue to deceive myself that she is gone or I should fight for it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4863 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - I thought I have moved on from the girl that I used to love since she has chosen another guy instead of me. So, I thought I have moved on ... Today, I heard that the girl that I love got dump, I felt so sorry for her but I also felt very reliev...

X-boy friend crazy about me but I move on how do I get him to do the same?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4853 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - hi everybody, my x boyfriend will not leave me alone! we dated for not long weeks i broke up with him and then the next day i was dating someone else so he started texting me telling me how bad of a person i was for breaking up with him for som...

How long should I wait for the ex drama to calm down?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - Recently I started hanging out and getting to know a co worker. Everything is going great between us, but they are having issues with their ex (3 kids together). My question is how long would be a fair time to give them to take care of the ex i...

Does he really want to be my friend or is he messing with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - My ex texted me that he missed me. He then called and said that he wanted to see me and that he wishes that we could be friends like before. How should I take this? Back story: We were together for about six months and then had a mutual bre...

Am I being realistic? She wants to wait for her cheater. I want to wait for her

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30 December 2010 (M) - I came out of a relationship about 3 months ago. And since then I've been chatting to friends and such, and my one friend was going through a break up/being messed around by her ex who is basically a womaniser. Anyway, through my friend and through ...

Should I wait or should I not wait?. I still love my ex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - My ex and I broke up a couple of months ago, but we still hang out, and talk almost every night. We share lots of laughs and we tend to make out every time we go out. From time to time he'd invite me over to his place and we would even have sex....

How do I help my ex move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I broke up with my ex several years ago because I just fell out of love with her. She didn't do anything wrong, but we just didnt connect and in the end, my feelings for her changed. She doesn't have any close friends and still considers me her ...

My ex is confusing! Should I just forget about her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - well my ex's has bin confusing me because sometimes she acts like she likes me still and then other times she seams like she just hates me or is annoyed of me and i have no idea what to do i was going to just stop everything but i don't know if that ...

Help. Baby daddy family drama part 2.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4857 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - My son's biological father, we will call him Cord, died in June of 2009 he was drunk on father's day and fell off of a roof. My son was six months old at the time. 1. Cord was never there for our son even before he died. He never helped me financ...

She's too close to my ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - I met a guy about a year ago. He and I started dating we broke it off 6 months into the relationship and remained friends. One of my best friends met him around the same time. We both met him through the guy she was dating and interested in at the ...

What do I do with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - I honestly was wondering,how do i stop being so blind to the world and start enjoying it? I will be honest, I have tired once now to tell her how i felt during a situation, she just didn't respond, she just gave a blank look and walked away. We ...

Do men still think sexually about their exs?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

29 December 2010 (?) - Trying to get over break up. I know that I do not want him back, yet I feel I am obsessed with wanting to know what he is up to etc. Facebook is EVIL! Anyway, I have changed my privacy settings so he can't see my updates etc, looks like he did ...

Why would I condemn his child?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4864 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - I searched for my first boyfriend from years ago on a social network in Jan 2010. I did not contact him, but one of his friends contacted me about a relative becoming a client. Come to find out this woman is the mother of his adult daughter. She ...

Is it wrong to go out with my ex's best mate? Or should I wait a bit?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - i'm in bit of a pickle! I recently finished with my bf about a month ago. He says that he still loves me and askes for another chance but i don't love him back. But here's the thing, two weeks ago one of his best mates said that he fancies me and if ...

Will she always be a cheater? How spot and avoid a cheater in future?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

29 December 2010 (M) - I just have a question about an ex. I met this girl through work, we flirted and it was as clear as day she was interested. But things were kind of weird, she was also flirting with two other guys at my work. I ended up leaving for a few weeks and ...

Said he adored me. We broke up, so then he scared me when became abusive. Now wants me back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - Please help i loved someone, he looked cute. i dated him now 2 years together. He says he adores me, but one day we fought so hard, so i decided to break up. He started to scare me, with the msgs. He had he started to shout and say bad words, and ...

My ex has no contact in our son's life but can he step things up later?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - hi everybody,i had a two years relationship that end up with a cute little boy.since i got pregnant,my boyfriend had run away with another girl,he had never visited me,he does not even know my son's name.he called me weeks after my baby was born,i ...

Why does my ex say he still loves me when he doesn't want to be anything more than friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

29 December 2010 (F) - well its a pretty common situation im in love with a my ex for more than a year now. We dated for about a month and a half earlier this year but he ended the relationship because we didnt see each other as often as we would like. This crushed ...

Ex advice!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4865 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - hi am new to dis but i need advice on how to get over a ex. we met in oct of 09 and i moved to his hme twn and 10 so we started dating and so on, then things began to change we argured more, broken up over dozen of times, so things started to happen ...

My ex won't leave my head!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

28 December 2010 (?) - I've been with my boyfriend for about a year now but i cant seem to get over my ex boyfriend(lets say A is his name). well A and i try to stay away from each other cause as long as we are together we both wanna be in each others arms, but i have ...

Please help! I need to break up with my boyfriend fast and avoid any questions!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - This may sound weird, because I heard that mostly men have this problem. The thing is that I am very inexperienced but not virgin and my boyfriend has a colorful past. It really bothers me to the point that I want to break up with him and give ...

He wont leave me alone - is he crazy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4865 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - Two years ago, I went through a painful break up with my now husband. During this time, I had a rebound with another gentleman that I unexpectedly fell for. When my now husband and I reunited, I dumped the other guy. It has been 3 years and this...

Is there any chance of this situation turning positive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

28 December 2010 (M) - Dear all, I am in dire need of advice, and I honestly never thought about posting on an online advice service before - I hope you will be able to provide me with some insight. After a 2 and a half year-long hiatus (not self-imposed, just d...

My ex torments me emotionally

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4850 days ago

28 December 2010 (?) - i feel like the bad guy here just because i am a guy. My ex absolutely believes i cheated and that i'm a liar and a jerk a good for nothing. She pounces on my faults and torments me emotionally even though she tells me its just a joke yet without ...

Is it wrong to avoid your ex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

28 December 2010 (?) - Is it wrong to avoid social situations where you ex, and her bf will be at the expense of your own happiness?...

Why did my sister in law include photos of my husband's exs from 20 years ago?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - Two months after our wedding, at the family gathering for Christmas, my husband's sister presented everyone with a slide show put together of all the kids growing up. She hooked it up to a big screen television and we all began to watch. At frst it ...

Flirted with other guys to make him jealous, now he doesn't want to be together. How can I make up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - I know what I want help with, but I can't find the words. will try. My boyfriend and I broke up twice. The first time I broke up with him because he was chatting to his ex girlfriend who works with me sometimes. The second break up was mutual...

After a year, I'm not over him, I'm bitter and cynical! How do I change this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4864 days ago

27 December 2010 (M) - I was with my ex-boyfriend for two and a half years. It was my first relationship and my first 'love', we had plans and I thought we had a future. He broke up with me a year ago, out of the blue, said he had fallen out of love and couldn't commit ...

He keeps inviting his ex to family functions!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4865 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - Although I continue telling my boyfriend he is being disrespectful inviting his ex-wife to family functions, he continues to do it anyway. His daughter is an adult and I do not feel the need to include his ex-wife if he know it makes me ...

Why is my ex talking to me every day?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4866 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - Ok so if you read my other questions you will have a better understanding of my dilema or break up. My ex has come back to be my friend he admitted that he slept with someone the same week we broke up after a silly argument and i assumed we would ...

If he really loved her he wouldn't cheat on her with me right?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

27 December 2010 (F) - I am extremely torn and confused over a guy that I was with 8 years ago for 1.5 years. Because of certain circumstances we had broken it off and recently about 4 months ago he came back into my life. He remembers everything we have done, all the ...

We split, but I'm still madly in love with her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

27 December 2010 (?) - Hello everyone now recently me and my gf split and are now pursuing a friendship. Yet we still argue like we're a couple. She recently got mad because of a joke, when she thought I was serious. But I was not. I don't want her completely out of my l...

Does her "Merry Christmas" mean anything?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

26 December 2010 (M) - About 6 weeks weeks ago my ex and I split up, her decision. The last thing she said to me was that she didn't feel comfortable talking to me anymore and I should forget about her. So I haven't spoken with her since. On Christmas Eve I get a text...

He spilt with me. I still fancy him. Now he's sending mixed signals

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4867 days ago

26 December 2010 (F) - hey, im very confused about my situation and i was hoping someone could help me. i liked this guy for about three years but i was cripplingly shy and couldnt tell him. i went out with him for two months, but he never wanted to meet up because he w...

She's my best friend, but not my GF now. How do I move on?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

26 December 2010 (F) - I guess I am here to try to mend my broken heart. I was in a long distance lesbian relationship with my ex for four and a half years. We hardly ever fought and I thought we got along really well. Yes, we were very different in our interests, b...

If he's single why does his relationship status clearly say "in a relationship"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

26 December 2010 (F) - I really want my ex boyfriend back and he wants me back too. So, he keeps saying that he's going to ask me back out. But...on his Facebook page, it says that he's in a relationship with this other girl. So I asked him about it and he said that ...

What's he trying to accomplish with his stealth campaign?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

26 December 2010 (F) - My ex bf was the center of my universe and he knew it. Most times I felt like a yoyo from emotional ups and downs. He did everything that you could imagine under the sun to mess me about. At the ende of the day he broke up with me by text. Yes I did ...

Why do my sister's ex's keep coming after me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4867 days ago

26 December 2010 (F) - Alright. I'll get straight to the point. Ive had 2 relationships with my sisters ex's. Now I have a 3rd one who I think is coming at me slowly, because he's afraid of what will happen. And I've liked him for a long time. Im just wondering, why do ...

I had a good thing with my ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

26 December 2010 (F) - so this is sort of complicated. i was with my ex boyfriend for years off and on since high school. we had our ups and downs. we broke up a few months ago. i got a new place and my roommate is another man. we have ended up starting a relationship and ...

He treated me like a queen, but I wasn't ready. He said no contact, but I want him back

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

25 December 2010 (F) - So, here is the situation. A couple years ago, I went out with a guy who pretty much used me for my money. That relationship lasted nine months. It took me awhile to get over it, but when I finally did, I met someone else, and he was amazing to ...