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Archived questions from: September, 2014 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

I would like to reconnect with my ex. Is it significan that he never changed his passwords when we brokeup?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

30 September 2014 (F) - hi...i wanna know about my ex...we had broken about 2years but i still love my ex and i wanna get him back... i don't know his mind but he never changed all of the pass the accounts password even when we were apart...he blocked my acc but he never...

Is he stringing me along? Or is his mother encouraging him to make contact?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3494 days ago

30 September 2014 (F) - Two years ago, my first bf and I were in contact and somewhat talking in good terms as friends. I attended his brother's funeral to show my respect to his family and himself since we were in a relationship together for close to 5 years and I have ...

Is my husband of 20 years getting ready to have another affair?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3488 days ago

30 September 2014 (F) - my husband has contacted an old flame on facebook said he has been very happy with me, but after 20 years things are not what they used to be. He told this person he has been searching for her for 20 years and has never been so happy to see anyo...

I haven't told him about the baby for fear of rejection

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

29 September 2014 (F) - my baby is two weeks old. in all honesty, i had a lot of doubts and had actually considered adoption because i was so unsure about being a mother. everything changed the moment i met him and I'm happier than I've ever been. he's so perfect. i had ...

I don't know how to get past this, and I'm not willing to stay in this relationship if he wants to keep her in his life.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3495 days ago

29 September 2014 (F) - My fiance and I are together since our late teens, and before I met him a girl he wasn't even dating gave him oral sex. She is certainly not a pretty sight and I don't mean to be bitchy. He said he never felt anything for her, he just agreed to let ...

I'm falling for him but I don't think he's over his ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3495 days ago

28 September 2014 (F) - Okay, so the last time i was in a committed relationship I was 16 and it ended in a disastrous manner my partner ended things abruptly left me wondering what went wrong which I later discovered was the consequence of him cheating on me with multiple ...

Old flame returns! What to say or do? He wants to be friends but he doesn't want his wife to get hurt??

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3456 days ago

27 September 2014 (F) - I was contacted by my first love on facebook. He said he was happily married on facebook as am I; Our relationship was 33 years ago. We dated as teens and were in love till he went away to school he said we should date others and didn't want t...

What do I do with the expensive gifts my ex gave me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3497 days ago

24 September 2014 (M) - my question is very simple and small that I have broke up with my gf last night in a legal way ....now I don't know what shud I do with the expensive old gifts she gave me....should I through them out so that I cud fully forget her ...

Why does a guy contact an ex out of the blue?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3499 days ago

24 September 2014 (F) - This question could just as well say why does anybody contact an ex out of the blue - I'm sure it's not just men that do this. The obvious answer is "to try and rekindle the relationship" or "to see if a bit of sex is still a possibility" ...

Ever since boyfriend showed me naked photos of him and his ex girlfriends things have changed

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3499 days ago

24 September 2014 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 5 months now and things started out beautiful but that something beautiful is dying now. We met through an social network dating site and when we first decided to meet up, I was reluctant and scared, but I went ...

Ex boyfriend's pervy behavior makes me question a reconciliation

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3499 days ago

24 September 2014 (F) - My ex and I were together for many years. We've been broken up for quite awhile due to various reasons and I've been moving on fairly alright. We're no longer friends on facebook but can see certain recent activity, if we check, and we both do as ...

I'm not entirely sold on us "getting back together"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3500 days ago

23 September 2014 (F) - I was in a "relationship" (with no labels) with this guy for about a year and 10 months. Last month, things ended when I got really angry and went off on him about all the grievances I'd felt throughout the relationship and especially this summer. ...

I want her to reconsider just being friends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3500 days ago

23 September 2014 (M) - Me and this girl were in a relationship at the end of last year and she ended it because she didn't think we were right for each other and also because she needed to sort her head out. Last week she wanted to give it another go saying how she made...

She spends a lot of time with her ex boyfriend but tells me I'm still her 'one and only'

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3499 days ago

23 September 2014 (F) - Hello, I've been dating this girl for 6 months now. It all started when I needed help with getting the size for my suit from the girl I like, because I was ordering for Valentine's Day because I promised my friend, Adele, (who is straight but I w...

I'm still hoping we can make it work but I'm jealous of his ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3501 days ago

23 September 2014 (F) - Hi all, I was in a long distance relationship for over a year with a guy who I thought I could really see myself with in the future. However, we recently broke up due to fighting a lot mostly from trust issues and my insecurity. We agreed to tak...

Why is my ex trying to stay in my life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3501 days ago

22 September 2014 (F) - My ex is trying to find ways to stay in my life. I feel like he's pushing us to hang out and be friends. We were together many years and been broken up for about 4 months or so. Neither of us have moved on to other people and he doesn't say anything ...

Need help on how to handle my Bf's mixed feelings. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3502 days ago

21 September 2014 (F) - This is basically about my ex-boyfriend. Recently I had came in contact with my ex-boyfriend The reason we broke up before is because he moved back to his hometown, and I didn't think a long distance relationship would have been fair. We were ...

If I resume with my original BF (who cut contact for months) will he be able to tell that I had sex with a bigger guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3502 days ago

21 September 2014 (F) - I have a boyfriend but he went abroad in jan 2014 and he hasn't contacted me anymore. After 4 months, I called him and asked if we're still together, he said yes. So i still hope that we will still continue to communicate but he never chatted ...

I'm suspicious of my LDR and his ex-girlfriend, and we've been fighting about it. Is there any chance this relationship can be saved?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3494 days ago

21 September 2014 (F) - Hi all, I was in a long distance relationship for over a year with a guy who I thought I could really see myself with in the future. However, we recently broke up due to fighting a lot mostly from trust issues and my insecurity. We agreed to tak...

I'm over my ex, but I feel emotional about his new baby with another woman

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3503 days ago

19 September 2014 (F) - Hi I will try to condense a long complex story .I split with my sons dad three and a half years ago .it was a painful and messy split .we had a very intense 5 years together where we were either deeply in love of fighting. We were over the moon when ...

I don't like my ex having contact with her godchild because it means involvement with her ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3503 days ago

19 September 2014 (F) - hi i need some advice. my new girlfriend of 3 months has a godchild with her ex girlfriend whos the mother of her god child. she doesnt go out any where or want much to do with her ex its just the kid she wants to spend time with as she loves her ...

He likes me or not? He still have feelings for his ex? So confused.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3504 days ago

19 September 2014 (F) - Here is a guy at my class that I think he likes me. He does tease me sometimes and stuff and gives me some signs that he likes me. Well he once asked for my friend to move so he would sit next to me. Sometimes he tries to make me jealous so he flirt ...

I feel like I want to move on and get over the guilt and try things with the new guy! Should I?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3501 days ago

19 September 2014 (F) - Hi there! Well I'm not sure if I am just going through a phase or is this serious because I am talking with someone for well over a year now. I am not in college right now but I was planning on to but things changed.So for orientation day ...

I want the freedom to test the waters but my ex won't let go

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3505 days ago

18 September 2014 (F) - Hello, I am a freshman at college in my third week and I broke up with my bf at the start. He loves me soo much but almost too much. He also now lives two hrs away. I need a real and tangible relationship, not just skype dates. But at the same time ...

I really thought my ex would be there for me as a friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3506 days ago

17 September 2014 (F) - We were in an off and on relationship. He would always dump me because I'm bipolar and he couldn't handle it. I am seeing a therapist because of this. He knows, but thinks I am the right girl at the wrong time. He broke up with me over nothing and ...

Why are they rubbing their relationship in my face?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3505 days ago

16 September 2014 (F) - I have been divorced for 3 yrs. I didn't have a great marriage as my ex husband had an affair with his older child's mother. I took him back knowing what was going on and stayed in that crap for 8 yrs. One day I filed for divorced and never ...

Is it alright to like get back with your ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3506 days ago

16 September 2014 (F) - Is it alright to like get back with your ex? Some people say it's not a good idea but I feel like there isn't any harm in giving a second chance. However, I asked my teacher whose quite an expert about it and he said that people tend to fall bac...

We're no longer together but I was offended by his actions

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3507 days ago

14 September 2014 (F) - I went to a wedding recently with an ex bf. we didn't go as a couple but we went together because we were both invited, our mutual friends would be there as well. during the wedding I noticed him talking to this girl on the dance floor. then I saw ...

We broke up in 2011 but I still can't move on

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3508 days ago

14 September 2014 (F) - I can't move on with my life. I break up with my ex in 2011 since then I never been able to move, I'm not interested in any men I attended counseling sessions but nothing helped. The fact is I feel lonely and need someone in my life but my heart ...

Should I try again and contact my ex after 30 years apart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3508 days ago

14 September 2014 (F) - Hello 30 years ago I broke up with my fiancee when we were in our twenties. We had enjoyed 7 years together and shared lots of interests and he was a good, fun, kind, interesting and loyal boyfriend. But we had been together since our teens and, a...

My ex says if I date before my kids are grown he'll keep my property

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3509 days ago

13 September 2014 (F) - My last Question was in March about the living situation with my ex. Well the relationship could not be repaired and we went our seperate ways shortly after. We are still in contact having a child together, and we are in a legal battle over some ...

His ex paid for his college and housing, now she wants him to do the same!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3508 days ago

13 September 2014 (F) - I’m almost 26 and my bf is 27, his ex is 29. A little background first; his ex helped him get through University as a full time student while she took care of the expenses of their house and his fees. When they split up after 6 years of relationship ...

My boyfriend's ex wants me out of his life because she wants him back

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3512 days ago

11 September 2014 (F) - My boyfriends ex girlfriend wants me out out of mt boyfriends life so that she can get him to back to her .but he doesnt eant get back with her.he broup with. Her 7 years ago .but she still thinks of him as her boyfriend.she has pitures of the two ...

He gets drunk and only talks about his ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3513 days ago

10 September 2014 (F) - I am at a total loss. I am a 35 year old female and my boyfriend is 45 years old.We've been together 7 months. Right now we are living across the state from each other although.we do get to see each other every 2 weeks. We met on Facebook almost 2 ...

We're on a break that's supposed to cleanse the relationship but I'm worried that instead she might move on

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3514 days ago

8 September 2014 (M) - Hey guys. I'm really confused at this moment. Not sure what to do. My ex and I were together for quite some time. We have been through a lot together in our relationship, and not all of it was good. There's been a lot of hurt on both ends. We ha...

I asked him not to see his ex but he did

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3513 days ago

8 September 2014 (F) - A few weeks back my boyfriend of over a year told me he was going to see his ex girlfriend because her sister was unwell and she'd asked for support. Theyve been broken up approximately 2 and a half years. My boyfriend and his ex had a bad break up. ...

She lies because she knows my insecurity will make me overreact

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3515 days ago

7 September 2014 (M) - Hi guys, I am madly insanely in love with my girlfriend, we have been together a year, split up a few times but nothing long term and the longest was for 4 weeks we were apart. Mostly it is to do with her ex partner. I am an incredibly insec...

He insists on keeping letters from ex's

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3516 days ago

7 September 2014 (F) - I recently found out that my bf still keeps letters from his exes. It makes me uncomfortable because I throw away things my exes give me. Of course I understand that perhaps some people are more sentimental. Yet the irony in this is that he claim...

Do I break up with him or tell him the truth about the affair I had with his father and ruin things for his family?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3515 days ago

6 September 2014 (F) - Ok so before you read this I know what I did was wrong and deeply regret it and it's all a big mess. Four years ago I was in a really bad place. I had fallen out with my parents and moved out of home in to a grotty flat which I had to work 3 jobs...

He said he'd post naked pics of me if he ever saw me with another guy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3516 days ago

6 September 2014 (F) - Please help me i have the same problem and it is much worse because he just doesn't wanna see me happy.. he hasn't post my naked pictures yet but he would if he see me happy. I dunno what to do with it... I don't want my pictures to be posted all ...

I don't want to care about him no more!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3515 days ago

6 September 2014 (F) - Hi. I'm 24 years old and I still care about this guy I loved since Iwas 17. There was always a mmisunderstanding with the two of us to where we never got back together. But at times he would say he wanted to be alone and then when I'm in a situation ...

I thought I was over him, but then I heard he had been asking after me and the feelings come flooding back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3517 days ago

6 September 2014 (F) - Hello guys,i'm a female 19 years old. first of all, i want to thank you for your advices i've been here almost two years now in this website,everytime i needed someone to help me,you did!so thank you so much!for everything it means a lot to those wh...

How do I remain close friends with my ex after our breakup?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3517 days ago

5 September 2014 (M) - hi, my boyfriend and i decided to split up last week, but the relationship ended in good terms and we both decided to be friends, i really think very higly of him as a person and really want to be close friends, so my question is should i write to ...

Could he really be in love with both of us?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3517 days ago

5 September 2014 (F) - I had to meet my ex recently (broke up couple months ago - he fell in love with someone else at work). He had something of mine that I needed back. Think I was ready to meet him and glad I did, we chatted for about an hour and he left. During our ...

What is this connection / "thing" with my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3518 days ago

5 September 2014 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend of 14 years about 8 months ago. We grew apart in the way we were doing separate things and we also hadnt had sex for 6 years. He would want sex but I didnt feel close enough to him anymore to want to do such intimate ...

The guy from the dating website knows my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3519 days ago

4 September 2014 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend last April and have recently started looking for another guy. I met this guy "M" and we seem to hit it off in a friendly way and i really want to see if he's interested to. Problem is he knows my ex. I dont know how ...

Ex girlfriend says she needs time

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3517 days ago

4 September 2014 (M) - I still love my ex girlfriend and tried to get her back, but it turned out she was seeing someone new. That's ended, but she won't see me. She said she's too confused and needs time to think. What does too confused mean? Does this mean she ...

Do I owe it to my ex to give it another try?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3520 days ago

3 September 2014 (F) - I broke up with my bf of four years about five months ago. We had a volatile relationship on both ends and even though I loved him, I was glad it was over. I felt free again. I started dating someone new about six weeks ago and we get on really...

He tells me he's looking for a divorce, but ...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3520 days ago

3 September 2014 (F) - Hi I've been seeing my ex boyfriend behind his wife's back for almost a year now. I was very much in love with him at one time. He dumped me and got married. We were together 13 years. He comes to my home and is very comfortable. He told me he was ...

Should I warn my assistant that the man she's chatty with almost had an affair with me and is married? Or is it best for me to stay away and let this happen?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3520 days ago

3 September 2014 (F) - A while ago I got chatting to a guy I work with and we got close very quickly. We both had a crush on each other and both wanted more, well I did anyway. He made me send him photos, chatted about sex a lot and I did really like him. He knew I liked ...