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Archived questions from: April, 2013 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

I feel I missed out, I've only ever been with my wife!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4011 days ago

30 April 2013 (M) - I married 20 yrs I know all my wife's sex partners. We went to high school I've even know what they did because she told me year 20yrs ago. I have seen her have sex with one at a party. I cant get it out of my head its driving me crazy . I have ...

I want to get my ex out of my head and have a normal life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4014 days ago

29 April 2013 (M) - I was in a very tumultuous relationship for 2 years. My ex and I really loved eachother but her behaviors because of her rough past caused many arguments. I, on the other hand escalated situations. We broke up in a major way 3 times but we would ...

If you think someone is mentally unstable, can you call a doctor?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - I don't know if anyone will know the answer to this but here goes. .. If you think someone you know is mentally unstable, can you call a doctor? Everyone I know thinks that my ex is out of touch with reality because he thinks we are together and ...

'that was nice, good to see you looking good' How do I interpret these remarks by my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - I will bullet point this to get the main information you need across; We dated for a year Split up last nov 12 - agreed to remain friends. Stayed in contact but only saw each other for the first time since the split last weekend. It was really...

I know my ex needs comfort. How do I tell him he can always come to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - Ok. My kids fathers mom and dad died and I need some advice, I know that it is killing him, how do i comfort him? His current girlfriend and I don't really get along. I know he needs someone to talk to and he usually comes to me for comfort. I have ...

Why is my ex civiil to me when she told my friend she doesn't even like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

28 April 2013 (M) - i'm confused why the girl i used to date would make comment like this to my best mate about me. I thought things we're okay, so why she lied seems off to me. You decide... We had a bad break up, I was a douche to her I wont deny that. But she sa...

Breaking up with a married man.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - Hey everybody. Thanks for choosing to take the time to read this. So, I was involved with a married man. Over time, it started taking its toll on me. (He initiated the flirting, I stayed away because I knew he was married, he started initiati...

First she says get back together with him, then she talks trash about him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4007 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - hi good day every one , i need help, I have a relationship with a guy for a month now, he has a son and still have a communication with the mom of the kid. few days ago we broke up and within the broke up I MAKE FRIEND WITH HIS X WHICH IS THE MOM OF ...

My ex guy friends are not responding on phone. Do they feel threatened that they don't have control over my life now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have a question I like to keep in contact with male friends of mine from time to time. We laugh and talk on the phone sometimes but when I started talking from my heart and saying things that I have been saying for years finally ...

Do I have a right to be angry that he is going out to dinner alone with another woman?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - Is it acceptable for a man to go to dinner with a female acquaintance when he is either in a relationship or trying to "work things out" with his ex? And if you're "working things out" then does that mean you would describe yourself to othe...

He calls me immature for questioning his relationship with his ex

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - I have a serious problem with my boyfriend. We have been together for five years and have a three year old twins. His ex girlfriend, who is also his other child mother is a serious problem in our relationship. He cheated on me with her multiple ...

He's moved on and he's happy. What do I do? How do I stop missing him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

27 April 2013 (F) - About a month and a half ago my boyfriend broke up with me. Over Facebook. We were "that" couple and everyone loved us. We got along on every level and always had such an amazing time together. The last couple weeks we had been fighting because ...

So hung up on my ex that I can neither move forward nor ask for closure

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

26 April 2013 (F) - Hello, let me just say that I appreciate any and all advice I may receive on here. Three years ago when I was just seventeen, I met a man in his thirties and we spent the next seven and a half months together. I was entering my senior year of h...

We are very much in love so why am I beating myself over her past?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

26 April 2013 (M) - I'm 45 my girlfriend is 28,which we have been together for 2 yrs and have a son.I have only slept with 1 woman before her, my ex wife who I was with for 23 years. I have this re occurring problem which plays on my mind, she has had about 4 partners ...

Why do I appear so imperfect to him? Do I give up on this relationship or what am I supposed to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

26 April 2013 (F) - My boyfriend (of now 4.5 years) was a bit stupid. After one year of the relationship, he kept saved pictures of his ex semi-naked and met up with her secretly behind my back (but did not physically cheat). Anyway, after I found out we had a big ro...

So many questions I never had an opportunity to ask my ex. Why can't I move on? Why can't I stop thinking of her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

26 April 2013 (M) - Why, do I keep thinking of my ex? It's been almost a year, I don't think I am missing her. I never got my last words in, never got to tell her what what I needed to say, like why did you break up with me? I keep thinking what I want to say to h...

One of my closest friends just happens to be my ex. How do I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

26 April 2013 (F) - This is a little long. Okay, so I have a rule I go by when it comes to dating. I won't date someone unless I've known them for a long time, I honestly care for them, and I feel it will go somewhere. My first boyfriend, I dated for 3 years. He was ...

Does my ex boyfriend really love me, when he has a girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4017 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - Does he really love me? I dated this one guy for about 6 months and then, like most relationships, if came to an end. We never really spoke after we broke up, I mean sometimes we did talk. But if I ever needed help he would always be there for me. ...

It's over, but he still wants me around?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - My ex boyfriend of 5 years dumped me 4 months ago and won't let me go. He broke my heart. He told me he wasn't fully sure I was the one for him and he couldn't go on feeling these feelings of uncertainty any longer. He told me he loved me and...

Why would my partner keep explicit pictures of their ex? Tried to shrug it off, yet still feel hurt

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

24 April 2013 (M) - I looked in my partner's inbox the other day and found explicit pictures that his ex had sent him. I know for a fact that his ex has been to visit him many times. The first I knew of was back in 2009. I have also seen pictures on his ex's Fac...

My husband said he'd pack up and move to be with his first love! What am I supposed to do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - I just recently found out that my husband's first-love contacted him. I also now know that he was the one making the attempts to find her He says he is still in love with her and never got over her. He also wants to continue contact with her to ...

My crush has a g/f but says I'm pretty. How do I tell his g/f what he said?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

23 April 2013 (F) - Ok so today I saw my ex near and he kept staring at me I said " what are you staring at me for " and he said " nothing ". I said something funny and stubid but I said " what you wishing you had all this again " and I like pointed to my self and ...

In the limbo of friend/ex/possible bf.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

23 April 2013 (M) - Ok, so I just want others input. Helps me analyze things from a different view. I went out with her and she broke up with me. (Basically, she was young. Impossible expectations (please don't judge me like I'm a low life, just take my word on ...

Girlfriend still has 'feelings' for her ex. Is this normal? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

23 April 2013 (M) - Hi everyone. Please can you give me some advice. I have been with my GF for about 3 mnths. She is from Italy and has gone home there for a month. we spoke on skype and she told me that she had seen her ex at the weekend. she then told me that...

Betrayed my BF, but I want him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

23 April 2013 (F) - I betrayed my boyfriends trust. I lied to him and hurt him..i was selfish.i made a big mistake.. And we broke up forever..i feel like a horrible person..in a way i feel like i deserve it. Maybe i do? Cause of how i treat others. Maybe its a ...

I cannot get over the love of my life, Help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

23 April 2013 (F) - I am in love with my ex. I know right? 17 year old junior girl in high school thinking she's in love, its one big cliche. I just realized it and it scares me. It scares me. I mean we broke up because he cheated on me. With a freshman. And that...

BF face book status "when God sends her, don’t lose her" What does this mean?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

23 April 2013 (F) - My current partner and I have been together for 1.5 years. Him and his last gf were together for 7 years and were going to get married. When he met her, she was ******* somebody else’s boyfriend. 4 years into the relationship, he cheated. He told ...

I'm not sure if I'm mature enough for another go with my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4020 days ago

23 April 2013 (M) - My ex-girlfriend and I broke up about 4 months ago, due to "loss of attraction" although, looking back it was probably because I was an immature d*ck and took to many risks. She dumped me randomly though, literally a week after drawing me an ...

My ex left me because he got his ex pregnant. How do I move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

22 April 2013 (F) - My now ex left me because he found out his ex girlfriend was having his baby. They had parted on bad terms and he told me that he didn't want to get back together with her because he didn't trust her, but he still left me, and I guess that they are ...

My girlfriend is a control freak and won't even let me talk without starting problems!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

22 April 2013 (F) - I am currently with a partner for almost 4 years now. She is a control freak, almost always never wanting to admit her mistakes. If I do get her in a corner, she will turn the tables around, accuse me of starting an argument, and then completely ...

Does my Muslim boyfriend love me or is he using me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

22 April 2013 (F) - I am a catholic woman and have been seeing my muslim boyfirend for over a year now,i am very happy with him,he is originally from Yemen but from the age of ten had lived in cuba, he has been in britain for nearly 4 yrs now, he is still waiting to ...

He really has ruined this girl emotionally. What can I do please I don't want to not be with her, why wont she let me in! Any advice would be helpful?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

21 April 2013 (M) - I've been dating this girl for the past few weeks, not long I know but I like her so much and the more I get to know her, I'm sure of it already I want to be with her as my girlfriend. But last night I was left crushed at what she told me, that I'm ...

I'm not going to try anything whilst he is still going with her but I was wondering if he might have feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

20 April 2013 (F) - ok so I have this friend, M, who has a girlfriend and I'm not going to try anything whilst he is still going out with her but I was wondering if he might have feeling for me. We were kind of close two years ago but then I thought he didnt like me so ...

I pushed her away in the past, but now we've rekindled the spark, but we are both married and not sure how to proceed.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

20 April 2013 (M) - This is hard to share. I met the love of my life (I'll call her Jane) in High School. It sounds typical, but it's true. We dated for three years, and it was love from the very first moment. Those three years were the best of my life. The feelings...

Shocked, worried and confused. I'm in the dark with a pregnant ex and I've done nothing wrong.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

20 April 2013 (M) - Ok, here goes nothing. I met my ex while attending university. Everything was going fine for the first 3 months until she found out she was pregnant. That's when I began to notice a change in the way I was treated. She blames says its bc of old ...

My boyfriend is staying friends with his ex no matter how I feel about it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

19 April 2013 (F) - Sorry if this is quite detailed and long I just really need some help! Well in a month I will have been with my boyfrind for 2 years, its a happy healthy relationship apart from one thing - his ex and still best friend. Its not just the fact ...

Does my bf have to look or think of other girls in order to get hard to have sex with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

19 April 2013 (F) - I feel like my bf of 3 years is talking to people about me and i tink that its bad things .... i think hes secretly calling his ex gfs he called his ex gf when we first started dating i didnt know about it then one day he got all dressed up ...

Why, if we have no contact, does my BF show up as number one in my "people you know" on my FB? Does it mean that my ex-Boyfriend has been recently viewing my profile?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

19 April 2013 (F) - Why is my ex-boyfriend consistently the number one person in my "people you may know" on Facebook? i haven't viewed his profile in a long time, and recently he has been the top person on the list every time I log on. We've never been facebook fr...

I need to get over my ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4023 days ago

18 April 2013 (F) - Hi so I wanna know how to get I've my ex. Ok long story shirt we were together for a couple months and we just recently broke up. He was sooo annoying towards me and my friends. None of my friends liked him and wanted me to break up with him I did ...

My ex boyfriend now claims he wants to be friends but I don't

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

18 April 2013 (F) - my boyfriend broke up with me a week ago but at school he always stares at me and i'm trying to get over him but it's impossible bcoz he told me that he lied to me so many times and i dont rlly know how to handle it. what should i do? he said we ...

I still think my ex is the one for me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4007 days ago

18 April 2013 (M) - I still love my ex-girlfriend and I feel like she's the one for me! But I don't know if she love's me back. She made me feel like I belonged in this world and no other girl hasmade me feel like that ever. What should I do???...

I'm playing guitar at a folk club and told my on/off ex not to come. Am I overreacting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

17 April 2013 (F) - I'm playing guitar and singing in a folk night tonight, and my on-off-ex said he's down in town, and invited me out for a meal, and said he'd see me in the pub. The thing is, I feel really uncomfortable about him being there when I play. It's so ...

Despite knowing about my Bf's past, now it's haunting me. How can better cope with my feelings about his past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

17 April 2013 (F) - Hi..I have this really nice warm loving soul as my bf. We have been together for over an year now and the later six months (till date) has been a long distance. The issue is we made a mistake of discussing his past in detail. Well he trusted me...

My ex is being nice and I' m missing him. How do I get some self control?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

16 April 2013 (F) - Help! I love this site, you're always so helpful. I'm feeling weak because my ex is being nice and I'm missing him. I know I don't want to get back with him tho he keeps trying. Help me please to have some self control. Why do I still miss him every ...

My ex is moving away and I want her to know I'd go too but I've called 20 times and she doesn't answer!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

16 April 2013 (M) - I really hope you can help. My girlfriend dumped me at Christmas and I've been hoping beyond hope that we would eventually get back together. I've kept in touch with her throughout this time even though she's made it very difficult and has ...

I can't decide who I want more: my FWB or my ex boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4027 days ago

16 April 2013 (F) - Hi everyone, i was in a fwb arrangement then i met my boyfriend who is now my ex. i am drawn completely to my fwb he is also the same with me. when were together the sex is amazing but the problem is i still love my ex boyfriend but i cant get e...

Is he not over his ex? Should I even try to have a relationship with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4028 days ago

15 April 2013 (?) - So I am getting mixed messages from the guy I like. I met him about 7 months ago. We started talking and we hung out a few times. My boss and cousin felt like he liked me as well(we all worked together until he got another job). At the time I met h...

Is he just playing with me or genuinely in it for the long term?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4027 days ago

15 April 2013 (F) - dear all, I am in a relationship with this man. There has been a few issues. He was texting his ex girlfriend while with me, two girls on separate occasions approached me and said they were with him (he is quite a hard worker and seen as a good ...

Uncomfortable that my GF is going to see her ex abroad. Can I trust her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

15 April 2013 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend about 4 months. She asked me the other day about my ex's and I told her what she's asked and was honest. So I asked her about hers. She told me that she still talks to one of her ex's. No problem there, so do I. She t...

What does it mean when you call your past partners"friends" instead of "exes"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4027 days ago

15 April 2013 (F) - Would you refer to someone you dated years ago as a "friend" or an "ex girlfriend". My boyfriend always calls girls he went to school with "friends" even though I'm pretty sure they are girls that he dated. I'm not sure why he does that. He's very ...