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Archived questions from: January, 2006 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

I just need a second chance to remind my ex how much we loved each other!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6464 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid My ex boyfriend and I have been broken up for almost a year but we were dating for about 1 year and 6 months. We broke up due to the fact he did not trust me and said I was a flirt, so basically it was a jealousy problem. He always prom...

He dating his ex and she's pregnant with his baby, but he wants to be with me too. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6082 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - i met a lad, my brothers mate when i recently went away to visit my family.We went out and we kissed but nothing else. When i returned home we kept in contact and he was saying that he really like me. I am now moving up to this place ( bearing in ...

I still have feelings for my married ex bf? Help me understand-why we see each other?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6215 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - I have seen my ex boyfriend after 20 years hes still the same and we have had fun togther hes married though I dont know whats going to happen between us both.He has a small child also and hes doing well for himself too so why do we see each other ...

I still have feelings for my ex who is the Mother of my sons. But I'm married now to someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6659 days ago

30 January 2006 (M) - My Xwife and i were married at a young age. We were married for six years and together maybe 2 yrs of the six.Currently we have been divorced for 9 years and I am currently married to another for 8yrs.I am not happy in my marriage and find that I ...

I'm a grown woman, but my dad still wants to guide my love life! Any thoughts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6660 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - I have had to return to my parent's house following a divorce, although I am waiting to return to my own home, which should be in about four months. They have been very supportive and we have managed well even though I have become a born again te...

I just can't be friends with my ex! I'm in love with him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6660 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - Went out with this guy for almost ten years, and then broke up for six because he cheated on me. We became friends for about one year, and he expressed interest in having a serious relationship again. I decided after a year that I wanted to try to ...

My ex and I moved back in together and he's very flirty. But then he tells me I'm not his girl!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6660 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - I am madly in love with my ex we just recently broke up about two months ago. We were about to get married and it seemed like he just got cold feet after that things just went downhill. After the breakup I was completely hurt. Then I found out he w...

This is a really difficult one... My boyfriend is so depress he wants to end it all... And it's all my fault. How do I fix it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6662 days ago

28 January 2006 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 1.5 years now. and our relationship has been difficult from the beginning. He's from Australia, and I'm from the Netherlands. He's the 6th I've slept with, I'm his first. My last boyfriend and I were together fo...

My ex and I are best friends, but I'd rather we were back together...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6662 days ago

27 January 2006 (M) - Help me get back with my ex? We were engaged and between everything broke up 4 times. She only wanted friendship then and I am her best friend now. Is friendship the kiss of death? I love her so much but she says she loves me too, but isn't "in ...

What should I do about my confused college guy, who is dealing with his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6662 days ago

27 January 2006 (F) - Hi .. I am a college student doing what I have to do .I met a nice guy on a college based website in Oct 05 and we have talked since then. We have both developed feelings and we have expressed them. Well.. I have . He expressed most of them. ...

I fantasise about my ex husband...is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6653 days ago

26 January 2006 (F) - I have been divorced now for over 4 years. My ex is remarried and has a new kid. We have Two. I have been seriously dating one particular for 3 and 1/2 years. The problem. I fantasize about my ex-husband. Even wish we could work it out. He...

Mum made me break up with my boyfriend after I got pregnant, but I still miss him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6640 days ago

26 January 2006 (F) - Hi, I'm 17 and I have a 6 month old baby boy, but my baby's dad doesn't see him, which isn't my choice or his. It's my mum's because I still live at home and she made me break up with him when I got pregnant. But I miss him. What should I do?...

We broke up over my insecurities with her. Now I want to show her I've changed...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6664 days ago

26 January 2006 (M) - My ex broke up with me a month and a half ago. After we broke up we agreed to be friends. We talked online etc for a while, but after a while I believe I pushed her away by telling her that I missed her and writing her poems etc. We haven't ...

My ex has a new girlfriend and lives in another country. So why does he still text me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6663 days ago

26 January 2006 (F) - Dear cupid Last year I dated a guy for a few months and I didn't really take it that seriously. He went away to work for a few months and he planned to come back to where I was living. Anyway while he was away, I broke it off. We still kept in...

Out of my old relationship, I want to try to see an earlier ex-GF. Do I have a chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6664 days ago

26 January 2006 (M) - I just got out of a relationship and really want to contact a girl I dated before I got together with my ex gf. I think I made the wrong choices by not seeing her anymore and getting into a relationship with my ex. I really clicked with this girl, ...

How do I deal with my boyfriend's ex wife at the party?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6664 days ago

25 January 2006 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for about 8 months, and he is in the process of getting divorced, and up to now I have successfully avoided any contact with his ex-wife. This Friday I am attending a birthday where she will be there as well, and I ...

How do I handle my anxieties about his ex? She annoys me and how do I cope with my feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6665 days ago

25 January 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years and we now live together in his home town, 200 miles from my home town.He has a 4 year old daughter with his ex who lives round the corner from us. In the first couple of years she stirred trouble ...

He's into me! But he won't go out with me because he's mates with my ex...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6666 days ago

24 January 2006 (F) - I'm 16 and recently found out the guy I like is into me. Thanks to you on here who offered me advice I couldn't have done it without you. =) My problem is my ex boyfriend still has feelings for me, and my new crush is really good friends with him...

I am so jealous that he has a child with his ex...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6666 days ago

24 January 2006 (F) - I have an boyfriend of 1 yr who has a 2 yr old child with his ex-girlfriend who lives 3000 miles away - he visits twice a year and i get insanely jealous - i don't hate the kid but i am just so jealous that he had a child with an ex that he wasn't ...

Should I confront him about his unfaithfulness now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6667 days ago

23 January 2006 (F) - Dear Agony aunt, I'm 22 and I have just broken up with my boyfriend about 3 weeks ago. We were together a year and a half and also lived together. he still contacts me but says he can't be with me. I have just found out he has been sleeping wi...

Hate the idea that my old ex has got a new boyfriend! I can't say that, though, so what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6668 days ago

22 January 2006 (M) - I'm 16 and I know it's jeaolusy, but my ex-girlfriend just got a new boyfriend. I still like her I can't stand seeing them together. I want to tell her the truth but I can't. What do I do?...

My current guy is stable and caring, but I have a history with my ex. How do I choose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6668 days ago

22 January 2006 (F) - I was with a man for almost two years. He was the love of my life but he was also an alcoholic. His friends hated me and most of all his mother hated me. He is also very very close with his mom. Well, we were engaged and though we had our probl...

My boyfriend talks to girls from his past online. Now he says it's "his way or the highway"... !

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6668 days ago

20 January 2006 (F) - I`m in an relationship with my boyfriend. Who goes online and wants to talk to women from his past. I`m really bothered by this, But he thinks there is nothing wrong with it. He says it`s all about trust. I`m not allowed to show him affection around ...

He's still sleeping with me *and* the girl he left me for. He says he's just confused...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6668 days ago

20 January 2006 (F) - I am 25 and my ex, who just recently broke up with me, is 20. We were together for 2 years and we have a 16 month old baby together. He is now living with the other girl him and I have never stopped sleeping together and till this day still are he ...

Can I trust my partner with his ex wife??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6670 days ago

20 January 2006 (F) - My partner of 4.5 years is still in contact with his ex-wife. He has 3 children over 25 non of them are married. They all speak and go out regularly. His ex-wife does everything she can to interfer in our relationship? Can I trust him? I know ...

How do I deal with the jealousy of the girl I love and her ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6668 days ago

20 January 2006 (M) - im a student and i live with a group of students including and the girl im in love with and her ex. the girl knows how i feel about her, and she has told me that she also has feelings for me- we are very very close. at the moment im doing ex...

How can I show my confusing ex that we should still be friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6664 days ago

20 January 2006 (F) - My ex boyfriend called me a week ago asking if he could come out and see me to tslk to me. I wondered why he wanted to do this as he had already made it clear he didn't want to be with me. I didn't get my hopes up that he was going to try to get ...

How do I react when my co-workers find out I was seeing him while he had a girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6652 days ago

19 January 2006 (F) - hi, ive been seeing this guy from work who has a g/friend. its over between us but i think he might have hinted to people what we got up too! his g/friend also works with us...how do i react when it comes out?? ...

We broke up 7 months ago and I'm currently seeing someone else, but I still can't get him out of my head!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6671 days ago

19 January 2006 (F) - Help!! i broke up with my ex 7 months ago coz he wasnt treating me with enough respect and it was all take take on his part. This wasnt the first time id been out with him so i should of expected it but i cant get him out of my head even though im ...

Since living with his new girlfriend, my ex doesn't want to talk to me, even though we used to be friends!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6140 days ago

19 January 2006 (?) - I can't seem to get over my ex...I met him in 2004 when 15 and we fell in love with each other. It was a really good relationship. After we broke up, we stayed friends and often went out together to gigs, parties and I spent time at his and him at ...

We got close when she broke up with her boyfriend, but slept with him for "closure". Do I have a chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6672 days ago

18 January 2006 (M) - I have very strong feelings for one of my friends and we have recently got very close, and she told me that she had feelings for me. The only problem is that she recently split up with her boyfriend because it wasn't working, although she sai...

I feel jealousy while my man is spending time with his wife (who he's divorcing). Any coping strategies?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6671 days ago

18 January 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I are very much in love with each other. It's one of those things when you know you know, but nobody else knows or understands. I've been told nasty things, like he will end up breaking my heart. But I've chosen not to listen. Even ...

Since he cheated and lied to me, I question my relationship with my boyfriend. Should I go back to my ex instead?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6672 days ago

18 January 2006 (F) - I've been in a long distance relationship with a guy for the last 9 months and we got engaged a few months ago. A few weeks after that he wanted to hang out with some friends and a girl who I knew was trouble. When I asked him not to go he got mad ...

My ex and I have a good thing going. We just keep it a secret behind her boyfriend's back...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6671 days ago

18 January 2006 (M) - I met up with my ex-girlfriend last August through a business colleague. She was a friend of my business colleague and I fell in love with her once I set my eyes on her. I found out that my business colleague also had feelings for me and felt a bit ...

My ex's new boyfriend is violent and abusive. She got beaten up just because he saw me driving from her place!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6672 days ago

18 January 2006 (M) - My ex-girlfriend is having problems with her current boyfriend. At the moment she is still having post coming to my house which I am relaying to her by meeting up with her. I have moved on since we split up and got a new girlfriend but her boyfrien...

Never realised what I had until it was gone! Now I can't get used to being with any other girl. Do I try to get back with my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6672 days ago

18 January 2006 (M) - Hello there, I was hoping somebody out there could give me some advice. I finished my ex girlfriend of 3 years about 8 months ago due to a few problems we were having. Basicaly it got a bit tiring doing the same thing over and over every nigh...

Is my wife seeing someone else, and just using me as a "fix it man" when she needs something done?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6672 days ago

18 January 2006 (M) - My wife and I separated 3 months ago and I think she is seeing someone else but am not sure. When I asked her about it she said they were mostly friends. I know she has known him for a long time because they work together. I still love her and ...

My husband still calls the mother of his adult children (I'm not talking about myself!), and they exchange "I love you's." Is this appropriate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6672 days ago

18 January 2006 (F) - Hello! I've been married just three years (2nd marriage), his first marriage. However, he has had numerous lovers before me. Those affairs produce 2 children by 1 woman. They are adult children. Every time he calls each one of them, they alw...

My ex can't decide what he wants. I'm afraid to date another bloke that I care for, in the event that my ex does decide he wants to be with me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6672 days ago

18 January 2006 (F) - I'm a 24 year old and very confused girl. going back 7 years ago i was courting this bloke that i still love very much, we lost contact due to us splitting up and going our own ways, recently we have got back in touch and are supposed to be just fri...

My friend wants to make her ex jealous by going out with another guy. I don't think that this is the best strategy. How can I get them back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6673 days ago

18 January 2006 (F) - My friend was in a relashonship with this boy for about a year when one of her friends tells him she wants to break up{even though she really didn't}. Its been a few weeks since this happened and my friend still doe...

Why would my ex-wife lie about seeing another guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6673 days ago

17 January 2006 (M) - My wife and I got legally seperated almost three months ago she has a daughter that I have known since she was 10 months old and is now 5 yrs old. I found out the other day from her daughter that my ex-wife is hanging out with another guy. when I ...

When we were together, we chose to abort our baby, but now his one-night stand is pregnant, and they're keeping the baby! I feel so hurt and alone...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6673 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - I am 27 years old and newly single. A week ago I found out my ex is having a baby with a supposed 'one night stand'. She is keeping the baby, with no respect to him. A year ago I was pregnant with his baby and aborted cause neither of us were ready. ...

I told my old flame that I am still interested in him, and he responded with a metaphor! What does it mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6673 days ago

16 January 2006 (?) - i wrote a while back and this is an update, but with a further question. i have been back in touch with an old flame for 10 months. he has another girlfrind of one year but is not in love with her and sees no fruture with her. i still like hi...

He was in a serious relationship while he was "hooking up" with me for casual sex. I feel like he has no respect for me... How should I react?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6674 days ago

16 January 2006 (F) - I had dated my ex-boyfriend for about a year and a half. The last four months of our relationship we were both miserable and decided we needed to take a break. We broke off the relationship but still were "hooking up" once a week or so. He ...

Even when I work to support her, my girlfriend seems to put her relationship with her ex before hers with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6666 days ago

16 January 2006 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for nearly a year now and I love her more then anything. She is amazing and she loves me so much. The problem is I can't get over her past. I know this is standard. A lot of guys have this problem. She has been with 5 ...

My ex-fiance is with someone else now, but I would like to rekindle our relationship. How do I get her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6675 days ago

15 January 2006 (M) - I am seeking advice on how to get my exfiance back. We dated back in high school and parted ways after graduation. 13 years later she called me up and we got back together. For 4 years we dated regularly and eventually got engaged and built a new ...

I have a crush on my ex-boyfriend's best mate, who isn't my usual type...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6674 days ago

15 January 2006 (F) - I like my ex boyfriends best mate! what do i do? my previous boyfriend and i were together for a while and i really did love him but when we were together i met one of his friends and i liked him straight away, we bonded really well. all through my ...

He wants us to get back together but is still seeing his other woman! Am I right not to trust him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6675 days ago

15 January 2006 (F) - My partner of six years split up with me after sleeping with another woman. Soon after, he decided he wants us to get back together. However, I am not convinced of his sincerity. He has not finished with the woman he was seeing. He says he is scared ...

My husband and I are separated. I'm seeing my ex-boyfriend, who is engaged. I love my ex...what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6644 days ago

14 January 2006 (F) - hello. i need help. my husband and i separated in march (10 months ago), because he was talking to other females and lying to me about it. we argued all the time, finally i left. in april i started seeing an ex boyfriend, but the problem is he is ...

Does this mean there is a chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6677 days ago

14 January 2006 (M) - i have posted a couple of questions on here with some great advice coming back. so thanks to everyone who has helped. just wanted to ask the females really(but the males are quite welcome) that if you say to your ex that you still love them alot and ...