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*otmama04
writes:I have a 3mth old baby with my ex-boyfriend. He left me when I was 7 mths pregnant. He just came back into our lives after his baby was born. perhaps out of guilt or something? We have had to go to court and the judge ruled he needs to have supervised visits because of his raging behaviour towards me. However, my question is: why do I now feel attracted to him again? We did have an amazing sexual relationship, hence why we made a baby (surprise). I am 41 yrs old and my libido is back after having baby. Could this be why? Or am I fantasizing unhealthily?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2008): Could you be missing just the sex with him? I would recommend looking elsewhere for that - Sounds like he is a very risky person to get further involved with...sounds like he could become violent?
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reader, duskyrowe  +, writes (24 February 2008):
 Tread carefully. Sorry about that lol.
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (24 February 2008):
Please put your baby first, having this guy around you without supervision because of his raging behaviour is dangerous. Do you really want your child to be in that environment? He sounds very unreliable and not very good father material, as he has already left you when you were 7 months pregnant.
Unless he can get help with his raging behaviour, I suggest you trewad carefully and do what is right for the baby. Dusky xxx.
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