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Archived questions from: June, 2008 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

I want my ex back but he won't talk to me! What do people think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 509 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - My problem is that I would like to get back with my ex but he won't even talk to me. We broke up 9 months ago-he said he wasn't ready for a relationship and broke it off suddenly after getting heavy, making long term plans for us etc. I texted him ...

Is it ever ok to make a move on a best friend's ex, let alone doing it in his own house?? What should I say/do as I am witnessing this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 510 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - I just recently moved into a house with a good friend (Steve), and his best friend (Kevin) that I don't really know too well. Before this, Steve was living with his girlfriend of several years. They had a long drawn out break up, and I don't know...

My boyfriend's ex has told him to choose between me and her and the baby. He does not know what to do, nor do I.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 509 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - my boyfriend's ex has told him to choose between me and her and the baby. when she was pregnant he asked to get back with her several tims and she said no and even that the kid wasn't his. when the baby was born she didn't put his name on the birt...

How can I get rid of my emotional attachment to my ex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 510 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - I've been dating this guy for a few months--he is WONDERFUL. I mean I don't even have to ask for anything, he just does it. He's like a prince charming. Everyone in my family loves him and so do my friends. There is only one problem....I don't think ...

I need some wisdom about why I keep making bad choices! Now a married man?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 507 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - I'am an emotional mess....I dated my first love and everything for almost 5 years...he cheated,lied....you know the deal....i forgave him the 2 times he cheated,,,i always felt resentment but i loved him and decided to continue with him...after all ...

Am I being used, stupid or plainly naive?? Our deal is unofficial and he still has feelings for an ex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 510 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - hi,im really confused and to avoid getiing hurt again i would like some advice if poss. in about feb i started to date this guy i knew from work, it lasted about two weeks if that. things then became a little akward at work but we still remained...

Does anyone think that I should remove her as a friend from the social networking website?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 510 days ago

30 June 2008 (M) - Hi, I broke up almost an year ago but I'm still having some trouble getting over it. My ex has moved on and has made it clear that she doesn't have feelings for me anymore. We're both members of a social networking website and since I have her as a ...

When I come close to her I'm reminded of my ex, and become overwhelmed with hatred and destructive thoughts.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 511 days ago

30 June 2008 (M) - hey, i got a bit of an issue. I've checked google and things but i dont think anything but human experience can help me with this. i broke up with my G/F about 2 months ago, and shes now saying shes pregnant, but the only time we had sex was abou...

Am I too nice for my own good?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 511 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - I bumped into an ex boyfriend last night. We dated for a few months in 2004, and we stayed in contact throughout 2005, and we met up a few times in 2006, and have stayed in contact sometimes since then. He is a year younger than me. All the time...

How do you tell your ex you've fallen in love with him? He has a girlfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 511 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - How do you tell your ex boyfriend you've fallen in love with him when he's just got back with his gf he's still in love with? i cant let go and just feel empty without him. Life just seems boaring and there's nothing to do. I used to see him basi...

Is it because of the hormones that she was possessive and now ignoring me? She is pregnant and I'm contemplating going back to her...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 511 days ago

29 June 2008 (M) - Right people sorry if this is long but you need to know the full story to help on what is the toughest time of my life to date!! I went out with my ex girlfriend for 4 years and two months and on the whole we were very happy together, we wer...

How do I stop feeling inferior to his ex? Am I too sensitive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 512 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year. In the beginning, he said he was friends with his ex-girlfriend. They were together for six years. I started dating him knowing this and being okay with it. I'm friends with one of my exes too. ...

My ex said I was too clingy...we messed around...and now he says he "kinda" likes me. What does this mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 512 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - Hello, Recently, my ex broke up with me in May. Yes, he dumped me because he thought I was scary (-_-), and We've been talking for awhile and became friends. Now, Its June, and I came to his house yesterday for help in math. I don't know why b...

I have to keep backing of because she suspects us! How should I handle this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 511 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - Hi, after 27yrs i have full circled and meet up with my First love, who i fell inlove with when i was 14yrs old and he 17yrs old, We will call him J. i was married for 13yrs to another man had 3 children that were not his but he brought them up. ...

Had sex with my ex! Is it FWB or more?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 509 days ago

29 June 2008 (M) - I dated my first love for almost a year. From the moment I met her we just had this instantaneous connection. Everything just fell into place. However, there were aspects of her personality that drove us apart. IE her selfishness and self centered ...

Can you forgive after cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 512 days ago

28 June 2008 (M) - Four months ago I got back together with my ex,who is a good friend that I've known all my life. We never made it official, because we knew the relationship was going to have to end soon when she left town for 6 months. Despite this we agreed to be ...

I believe my husband is afraid to stand up to his ex and concentrate more on our family.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 421 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - I have three children, and two step children. MY ex is out of the picture and we have zero contact with him. I moved in with my now husband three years ago, and since his two daughters and ex-wife make my life hell. I moved in to the house that he s...

Short of hiring a lawyer and pursuing legal action, how can we stop his ex....?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 512 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - How do you get someone to stop using your mailing address without your permission, short of hiring a lawyer and pursuing legal action, which we cannot afford? My b/f's ex g/f who now lives 1000 miles away and has been gone for over 5 years, stil...

I miss my ex girlfriend, I miss my kids' mom and feel terrible. My boys have never seen me cry and I fear they might hear me at night...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 501 days ago

28 June 2008 (M) - Hello. This is somewhat difficult for me to talk about but here it goes. I am a 36yr old single father of twins. I have raised them since they were born. Their mother is in prison and is out of the picture. I have no regrets about raising my ...

My relationship ended because of jealousy, arguments and mistrust. Am I crazy to not let this go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 512 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - My ex and I were in a relationship for 3 years, ended b/c of jealousy, arguments and mistrust. we reconnected after 7 months of not communicating and it seemed as though everything was going well(even though he would constantly bring up the nega...

Does my ex really have a new girlfriend...? What do you think??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 510 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - Me and my bf broke up a couple of months ago. We have not spoken since. However, his best mate has told me that he has a new gf apparantly. But I dont know whether or not I should believe his friend because his friend lied to me so many times during ...

Do you think the fact that this guy knew all this means my ex still has feelings for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 512 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - Ok this has been playing on my mind and I could do with a bit of insight. Last weekend I went out in group which included my ex (we split up year and half but stayed friends) Some of the people we went out with were my ex's workmates that I had not ...

Why did my ex contact me for no reason? Was she thinking of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 512 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - so i live in the states for univeristy, and on the last day of exams my ex decided to text me for no reason other than to ask me how i was, and how the semester ended. i replied with a cold good and im getting ready to go back home, and then she ...

What can I do about my suicidal ex boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 513 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - What can I do about my suicidal ex boyfriend? We broke up on Wednesday after a year and as a result he took an overdose and has been in hospital since. I've visited him every day because I feel responsible, he says he's going to change for me so ...

She was my rock, she meant everything to me, but I cheated. What now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 513 days ago

27 June 2008 (M) - I used to go out with this girl who was my rock. She meant everything to me and still does to this day. The problem was, i cheated on her with this other girl that we will cal sophie for arguements sake. I cheated at the beginning of the relations...

My ex is now dating my friend! I'm angry that he used me as a friend after. Can we not trust anyone???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 513 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - Hey...im sooooooo stressed. I spilt up with my boyfriend of three years at the end of last year. We decided to be friends, in fact i did near enough everything for him. I kind of hoped we wud get back together. I found out last week he has slept ...

My fiance of 9 yrs has split with me and I don't really know why! He has cut all contact with me. Whats going on???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 513 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - Hi i need some advice, i was with my ex partner nearly 9 years, and we got engaged at xmas (he did this, it was not planned)... i was so happy and wanted to arrange a marriage, this is when things turned horrible - he said he didnt consider getting ...

My ex's new girlfriend is giving me grief, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 514 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - OK I wan to know how to deal with my ex and his new evil jealous girfriend. This girl have been writing blogs and say real rude thing to me.I at frist like ok i dont care i aint go say noting, but (this is was on myspace) i did put up on my hea...

Why do I suddenly miss this abusive ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 514 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - I left my ex fiance 8 months ago, and found a new love 3 months ago. I have been ok and over my ex for awhile, but yesterday i had a urge to look at his myspace. sure enough there is a new girl as his number 2 friend and she left pre-made comm...

He dumped me via email! How can I move on and regain trust in men?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 514 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - I just got dumped today by my boyfriend (now ex, I suppose) of 4 months by email today. He sent it to me in response to my calls yesterday when I had a horrible feeling that he was avoiding my calls. In the email he said that he will still st...

Since I've started seeing this other guy, my ex has been back, asking me out again....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 514 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - im hoping some people can offer some advice. my ex broke up with me 5months ago after 6years, he met someone new a few wks later. i was devastated but he didnt want to know. i then met a guy for drinks, he heard and since then has been back ...

He is tearing my heart in half......

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 514 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - My ex calls me every night before he goes to bed. He talks to me like nothing has changed and it hurts me because I know he is talking to someone else. I'm going out to see him and want to tell him that we should work it out and get back together. ...

My ex's friend that I never met before seems to know all about me, could this mean he still has feelings for me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 353 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - Ok this has been playing on my mind and I could do with a bit of insight. Last weekend I went out in group which included my ex (we split up year and half but stayed friends) Some of the people we went out with were my ex's workmates that I had not ...

When should I tell my ex that I'm seeing someone new?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 506 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - I left my boyfriend of 3 years for another guy, who I am now extremely happy with, but I never told my ex about the other guy (from the advice of others telling me it was more than he needed to know)... Thing is, its been 2 weeks and I know he isn't ...

Do I tell him to stick it or should I text him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 514 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - I haven't seen my ex for 7 years. He got into contact last year. He wanted to meet etc but I am with someone and he is NOW with someone. We arranged to meet last year and I called him to say where I was and he said he was going to get out of bed and ...

My ex broke up with me, but now I hear he still has feelings for me - How do I approach this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 514 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - Ok this has been playing on my mind and could do with a bit of insight. Last weekend I went out in group which included my ex(we split up year and half but stayed friends) Some of the people we went out with were my ex's workmates that I had not ...

How do I make sure I'm not sending mixed messages?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 514 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - What can I do to ease the transition from lover to friend? I finally broke up with my boyfriend after a year because his mental health was ruining our relationship. As a result he took an overdose of 64 paracetemol and is now in hospital. I've ...

Can I get back with my ex by just being friends at the moment?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 515 days ago

26 June 2008 (M) - Is it possible for be to get back with my ex? We didnt leave it on bad terms and i have seen her a few times since we split up. But i know she wasnt happy the way the relationship was and she said she just wasnt been herself and felt so sad. We ...

He won't remove his ex from his friends list!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 508 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - my boyfriend have a second myspace account and he refuses to remove his ex from his friends list,he removed her from his top friends list but he wont remove her from the friends list ...

He's been flirting with his ex via e-mail, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 492 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - i dont know what to say to my boyfriend.he is flirting with his ex-gilfriend.this what he said to her over an email. "Y is it always so hard 4 u to believe me, am i dat a lie?? Anyways, am feeling bad 4 ya hornyness, where is ur man, if u aint get...

Questions about getting back with the ex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 515 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - I was wondering if anyone here has gotten back together with their ex boyfriend who broke up with her. I wanted to know if i should keep contacting my ex boyfriend that i love and dont want to lose. Is there hope? Also, A MORE IMPORTANT ...

I want what's best for my son. Is he too young to choose who he wants to live with?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 514 days ago

25 June 2008 (F) - Hey family! My issue is concerning my son and his father (who I am no longer with because of abusive behavior). For the first 4 years of my son's life, I raised him by myself, emotionally and financially. His father did nothing to show effort in ...

Is he just freaking out or will he eventually commit?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 515 days ago

25 June 2008 (F) - Is he just freaking out or will he eventually commit. I have met this man of 36 one year and 3 months ago, we started dating after 2 months of knowing each other first as friends and he pursued me constantly until we really just fell for each other ...

I know I hurt him, I know I lied over and over, but now I want him back!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 266 days ago

25 June 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for nine years. We have lived togehter for eight of those years. I love him. The beginning of our relationship was great we had so much fun together got along great. He was my best friend. At my job about three ye...

How do I get my ex to see the light again? He's being so foolish!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 515 days ago

25 June 2008 (F) - I am having major anxiety---I love my ex so, so, so much and I think I made a mistake in giving him too much space. I knew we were close to getting married and wanted some time to myself to think about my career, next steps, etc. During this time, ...

She couldn't carry on the way things were...but how do I get her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 515 days ago

25 June 2008 (M) - I feel as though i really want to be back with my ex girlfriend, we have been split up for about a month and a half now. I feel that she is going through a busy time in her life with uni etc but she told me that she couldnt carry on like we were ( ...

Could she love me like I love her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 511 days ago

25 June 2008 (M) - **please excuse my lack of the use of punctuation** i have a problem. My name's not important and i'm 17. I started working at this ice cream shop the summer before my senior year of highschool. i liked it a lot and met this girl named somethin...

What do you do when your girlfriend still has strong feelings for her ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 515 days ago

25 June 2008 (M) - what do u do when ur girlfriend still has strong feelings 4 her ex?...

Am I just being used?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 514 days ago

25 June 2008 (F) - MY ex is giving me mixed messages. He tells me he just wants to be friends but then he calls me at night to talk about everything going on in his life, invites me out to see him (he moved to another state), and still wants to sleep together. Shou...

I'm stuck between two lads - What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 515 days ago

25 June 2008 (F) - hey i just wanted to see if any 1 cud help me? well the thing is there is these 2 lads i av likd 1 for 17 months and the other for bout 10 months. well i went out with the 1 i have 4 17 months for about 5 weeks then i finished with him and now i am...