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Archived questions from: May, 2014 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

How do I confront my boyfriend about pictures and files I've found?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3607 days ago

31 May 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, I having problems trusting my boyfriend who I've been dating for 6 months. He's my first boyfriend and he says he loves me deeply but I find it hard to believe him because of some of the things I have discovered on his phone ...

What do you think of my poem to my ex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3607 days ago

31 May 2014 (M) - Young lady's I sent a poem to an ex, I wrote, just like to know if you think, she would of like it, an she ever has regretted breaking up with me, its been almost two years no contact, this is the only time I did this, she left me to go back to her ...

I need to work out access arrangements.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3609 days ago

31 May 2014 (F) - Hi, I will be filing a divorce petition soon and need some guidance for child visit arrangements on what people normally do. My ex stays 4 hours train journey from me and kids (we have 2 children 10 and 5). For the moment just to get away from him I ...

I'm done with dating and want no more to do with women!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3608 days ago

31 May 2014 (M) - I don't even know when to begin...it's like every time I try I somehow get used. My troubles started four girls ago and yet somehow I haven't learned my lesson. Let me tell you about myself; I'm twenty-three, college graduate, and living at home. I ...

Broke up with my cheating boyfriend and now I am pregnant, help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3610 days ago

30 May 2014 (F) - I have just found out that i am pregnant and i am absolutely devastated. My ex put me through hell for the past 2 1/2 years with constant lies, cheating and disrespect. He has alot of issue with porn addiction gambling etc and is involved in crim...

Sexting made me feel sick, should I tell my new boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3610 days ago

30 May 2014 (F) - I feel really ashamed. I have never sex texted a guy or had phone sex. My ex of two months was more interested in that than seeing me as he worked shifts. We broke up 3 months ago because he wanted a no strings thing. I met a very sweet guy soon ...

I cheated on my long-term girlfriend after we became long-distance. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3610 days ago

30 May 2014 (M) - Dear Cupid, I'm a 24 year old male and I've dated the same girl since high school for over 7 years. Words can't describe how much I love this person and I still do. Almost 2 years ago, she moved to Europe for medical studies because she didn...

Should I go to my boyfriend's best friend's birthday party? I don't want any more drama!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3610 days ago

29 May 2014 (F) - Ive been seeing my boyfriend for about 10 months, exclusive for 6 months. Its going brilliantly! And we get a long so well. But last week hit a bit of a problem. So we have gradually been introducing each other to family and friends etc and its ...

I feel second-best to the girl he loved for 4 years, from the age of 14! Am I overreacting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3611 days ago

29 May 2014 (F) - On the 1st November 2013, I began a sexual relationship with my best friend (male). I had quite deeply loved him before that, but didn't want to sabotage our great friendship. He has always been a wonderful friend, always there for me, caring, ...

Any suggestions on how to act when I meet my ex again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3610 days ago

29 May 2014 (F) - Next month I'm going to a concert with a pair of friend of mine, but I've just found out there will be my ex too with us. I've been in a relationship with an incredible guy for the past six months, but I can't say I've completely forgotten my ex. T...

Why do I think of him every day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3597 days ago

29 May 2014 (F) - i wrote a little while back about the affair i had. im still trying to put it behind me. i see that guy frequently out and about with his new gf. it hurts soo bad. its like it didnt even happen to him. i didnt get how little i meant to him until ...

How can I say I'm sorry?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3611 days ago

28 May 2014 (F) - I had been with a guy for a few months, friends before that for a long time. When we were friends he was seeing someone else and during their break up he came to me to vent and talk over. We became close. We fell out and had not been speakin...

Has this turned into a casual sex thing?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3608 days ago

28 May 2014 (F) - so I am a little confused on my situation.. my ex and I are not together, yet we are in this cycle of not talking, then talking, hooking up, meeting up while we are out, then not talking again for a week or two. he is well aware that I love him and ...

I'm scared to be a single mum with 2 kids at 20, but I don't think I love my fiance anymore. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3612 days ago

28 May 2014 (F) - I'm in a very tricky dilemma. I don't think I love my fiance anymore. Me and my fiance have been together for over 2 years now and have a daughter together and I'm pregnant again. Although we are constantly arguing, we don't get along anymore, I ...

My ex gets bored seeing his son and lets him down

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3611 days ago

27 May 2014 (F) - I try and try to encourage a relationship with my ex-boyfriend and our son, but every time he lets us both down. If he isn't drunk or high, he would rather be with his mates or just being a total waste of space. I'm passed the point of anger, ...

Don't like being friend with my ex, but there is no way

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3603 days ago

26 May 2014 (M) - Hi everybody, Since ever the one in the group that is single and always dating new girls and all the past relations were like heaven. Everybody likes me, even my ex-girlfriends and I love everybody, I was happy. There was a girl whom I always lik...

My ex treated me better than this boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3612 days ago

26 May 2014 (F) - I was in a relationship for 9 yrs with my ex boyfriend who I dumped a year ago since the relationship was going no where and there was lot of trouble as it was a long distance relationship. After breaking up I immediately got into another ...

The ex stayed with the family for the funeral so why not me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3614 days ago

25 May 2014 (F) - Hi So I am after some opinions as to whether I am over analysing things and being silly or if I am right to feel upset. I am new to this site and so am expecting there may be some readers who will judge me pretty harshly but that's ok, maybe I dese...

She said she don't love me no more!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3615 days ago

25 May 2014 (M) - My now ex and I have been on and off for 4 years now. Last year we split because she accused me of cheating and to me it felt like she wanted to be single so she didn't have to go with me places. She got pregnant early into our relationship, which ...

My partner of 7 years left me. I am trying to give him space but I want to start again from the beginning.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3614 days ago

24 May 2014 (F) - My partner has just broke up with me 11 days ago. We where together 7 years and have lived together for most of this. in the last 3/4 months we where planning on moving abroad to work for the summer. we gave up are house and moved in with his mum ...

If he's married now why is he trying to contact me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3616 days ago

24 May 2014 (F) - *I know that what i did and how i acted was my fault so you don't need to tell me that.* I'm feeling quite low at the moment and have been trying to get my head around everything that's happened in the past couple of years. I got involved with a ...

Scared of a Relationship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3611 days ago

24 May 2014 (M) - Hi. So I'm having a little trouble. I will use fake names to distinguish the different people. There's this girl (we'll call her Angie) I dated her twice. first time she broke up with me because I was her first boyfriend. The second time I bro...

We had a great relationship, but there's his ex, the porn, the depression -- did I do something wrong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3615 days ago

23 May 2014 (F) - I have never used a site like this before but I really need clear level headed advice on this, I feel so blocked up I cannot tell what I feel anymore.. I am going to try to make this very short.. basically in 2011 I got with my boyfriend, I tho...

I broke up with my LDR b/f because I wanted to date in real life. Should I not done so?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3617 days ago

22 May 2014 (F) - I was in a long distance relationship for a little less than a year. My ex (feels weird to write that) was in a different country. I was very fond of him, I cared about him, and I know some people wouldn't call it love, but I loved him. I never met ...

My boyfriend is very upset since his ex is planning on moving farther away with his child!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3617 days ago

22 May 2014 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, and living together for almost 2 years. He has a young daughter from a previous relationship and until recently things have been great between her mum and my boyfriend. Last month, a huge fight kicke...

Is he playing games with my head and heart?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3613 days ago

22 May 2014 (F) - HI all I am sorry if this is a bit long but I need to get this off my chest and hope to understand a bit better. I first started dating my partner a year ago next week. In the begining he told me he was with someone but has not seen her for...

Insecure for over 10 years because of wife's exes, am I being a fool?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3619 days ago

21 May 2014 (M) - When my wife and I met she insisted on carrying on seeing (non sexually I've always assumed) her exes. She took me out for dinner with one guy, only to tell me a week later she'd kissed him and let him finger her, she had another guy round for the ...

Is it normal to pine for an ex when your relationship hits a low?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3621 days ago

19 May 2014 (F) - Before I begin, I must admit that I sincerely regret the pain caused by me to the persons involved in this mess,so please, refrain from abusive language or harsh approaches.THANK YOU! Currently I'm in a relationship with a guy since the last 3...

Should I cut contact altogether with him? He's an unappealing combination of arrogance and cheesiness.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3620 days ago

19 May 2014 (F) - The guy I used to date and I are talking now, just as friends. We had an abrupt break up so now we are just exchanging friendly emails to catch up, I guess. I never went beyond friendly because I thought that after almost a year of not seeing each ...

My wife gave her phone number to a former lover and says I am over reacting!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3620 days ago

19 May 2014 (M) - Through the wonders of Facebook my wife was contacted by one of her former lovers. I don't know why but she gave him her cell phone number and he started calling her. I discovered one of these voicemail messages when she asked me to check somethin...

No contact for three weeks and now we're going to meet -- is this a good idea?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3621 days ago

18 May 2014 (F) - My ex and I broke up last month and we have been in no contact for three weeks. He broke up with me saying we are not compatible. I took it pretty bad because it came out of nowhere for me. I did all the things i wasnt supposed to lol as in texting ...

How do I get over all this hurt and move on from this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3620 days ago

18 May 2014 (F) - Hi everyone I'm just looking for a bit of advice, I'm really hurting and angry infact confused and I just don't know how to get over this or move on from it. I'll tell u briefly about the history. 3 years with a guy a few years older than me (3...

Ex boyfriend has a new girlfriend but does he really want to be with her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3621 days ago

18 May 2014 (F) - myself and my ex boyfriend broke up 2 years ago when he went abroad. I was suppose to go out after him but decided I wasnt ready for the commitment. He has done alot of the chasing for the last two years and was always the one to contact me. He ...

Even though we've broken up he still tries to control me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3621 days ago

18 May 2014 (F) - Hi and thanks My ex boyfriend and I had a roller coaster relationship. Our first time around he was on a dating site our whole 8 month relationship plus admitted to having feelings for his ex plus cheated so many times I can't count that high....

How come my ex never feels sorry?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3621 days ago

18 May 2014 (F) - My ex and I were long distance. He's a social butterfly and he's loud and I know how he acts around people. I know he couldn't put up with the loneliness if I wasn't there with him, so I used to ask him to let me know if he had feelings for someone ...

What should I make of his regretting breaking up with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3627 days ago

13 May 2014 (F) - My ex broke up with me 2 days. He's been under a lot of stress with everything from work to friends to our relationship. The last thing he wants to do is to think. So he indulges in computer games and neglecting me. This is not the first time that ...

Boyfriend won't fully commit and now ex is around. Should I be worried?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3627 days ago

13 May 2014 (F) - I am very torn right now as to whether to break up with my boyfriend of a year and a half. Almost all of my friends now are very vocal that I should. He is selfish at times, has drank too much and most recently said he can see a future with me ...

I need help in moving on from a nasty breakup.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3628 days ago

12 May 2014 (F) - Hi. I really really need help. I was in a relationship with this guy for 5 years. I loved him way too much and endured a lot for him. I forgave all his blunders but when I made a mistake of fighting, he dumped me. I made so many efforts to ...

Post Break-Up Blues....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3627 days ago

12 May 2014 (F) - Hi all So I met this guy through my friend and we started hanging out a lot. Anyway, so I really liked him as a friend and I had just come out of a painful breakup so I was strictly not looking for anything. He started liking me and started to...

After all this time I'm suddenly thinking about my ex again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3628 days ago

12 May 2014 (?) - i keep thinking about my ex and feel awful as i have a boyfriend that i am head over heals in love with. i have been with him for two years now and literally never even looked back, until recently when an up coming event will meen that we will meet ...

My boyfriend is an amazing dad to three kids!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3629 days ago

11 May 2014 (?) - Hi everyone, I need some help. I'm a 26 year old woman who has recently just become serious with my boyfriend of 6 months. He's 35 and has 3 children from a previous relationship (aged 9, 5 and 3) although he hasn't been with their Mum since hi...

Am I breaking the "girl code" ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3606 days ago

11 May 2014 (F) - Okay let me start from the beggining. When I was in year 8 I became friends with this boy and we talked but it's wasn't on a best friend level. In year 9 we started getting closer and I introduced one of my close friends to him, and like 5 months ...

I need to gain some clarity about what this relationship would mean!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3628 days ago

11 May 2014 (F) - I met a man online several years ago. He and I got along until he told me that a woman from his past wanted to come back in his life. At the time I had just stopped dating someone else and was trying to see what was going on with us. So he end up ...

Why would a girl date me when she isnt over her ex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3629 days ago

10 May 2014 (M) - I have met a girl online and we are going on a date tomorrow i know I shouldn't but I have been looking at her online activity and I saw her boyfriend had broken up with her 1 month ago. I was looking more into it and she put online just hours ago ...

She broke up with me because of anxiety, but doesn't want to give me details

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3631 days ago

9 May 2014 (M) - Hi, I am was dating a girl who I got on really well. One day she called it off. Not in the usual way, it sounded quite strange. Anyway, she has kept in touch with me for quite a while now. She sounds like she wants to date again. When I asked ...

Are there any decent guys out there still? Will I ever find somebody normal?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3630 days ago

9 May 2014 (F) - I'm a depressed, 32 year old female and I'm starting to wonder whether I will ever find a normal guy....I'm loyal, attractive, caring, trustworthy and I seem to end up with all of these guys that have 1 or more major issues. I know nobody is ...

I'm not sure how to handle this family situation!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3632 days ago

8 May 2014 (F) - My husband's daughter from his first marriage is having a baptism for their baby. The relationship between the daughter and my husband is limited in that she never remembers his birthday, father's day or Christmas. She does not return phone calls ...

His ex is still in the way!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3631 days ago

8 May 2014 (F) - Hello, i´ve been dating my BF for almost three years. And his ex is still in the way. I mean, they stayed friends after the break up, but my bf lives in another city than her, so they chat on fb from time to time..I don´t live with my bf yet, he ...

Is he serious this time.. or trying to get back at me for screwing him over?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3632 days ago

8 May 2014 (F) - There is this guy named (Sean) we will call him that. About a year ago Sean and I were seeing each other until i decided to get back with my ex. Sean and I would talk every now and then still. We didn't talk for a month after i told him being f...

Should I go for it, the fourth time around?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3632 days ago

8 May 2014 (F) - Should I go for it, the 4th time around? I went yesterday for girls night out and met someone I dated and we broke it off 3 times already. I didn't see him for about a year. It started with one night stand, and then we continued going out and ...