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Archived questions from: July, 2019 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

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A guy keeps coming back when he doesn't want a relationship.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1726 days ago

30 July 2019 (F - My ex and met online game site 3 years and we hit it off. However, after 5 months he broke it off because he felt like we don’t live within reasonable distance to support a relationship. We live 5 hours away from each other of driving distance. We ...

He said he had been celibate but after we had sex he told me he had herpes.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1730 days ago

26 July 2019 (F - I'm so afraid right now.Here's a summary of what happened. I recently connected with my ex and we attempted to be intimate but he could not become aroused,he said it was because he was nervous and that he hadn't had sex in 4 years. I found it really ...

A girl I like has told me she might get back with her ex, should I tell her again, how I feel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1730 days ago

25 July 2019 (M - I met a girl who at that time told me that she is still not over her ex boyfriend and wanted to take it as friends for the time being if that is acceptable with me. She seemed cool and I was okay with that at that point. We started as friends and ...

The way my boyfriend acts makes me feel insecure

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1730 days ago

24 July 2019 (F - I’ve been dating a guy for a year now. He’s practically very committed - helps me out around my home, is great with my three year old (loves spending time with him), and talks openly about our future. In 30, have a great job and my own home and he ...

5 months into our relationship and partner is dragging his feet filing for divorce from wife.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1730 days ago

23 July 2019 (F - A guy I've known over the years went through a split up with his wife. He was staying at my brothers house but it was crowded there so i told him he could stay with me. I just so happened to be searching for a roommate to help out. It wasn't long ...

The first guy I loved is moving to another continent

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1461 days ago

20 July 2019 (F - Hey guys. So, something has happened that has me so sad. I met this guy back in 2016, and I haven’t seen him for over a year. The last time we saw each other we had a fight and he unfollowed me on Instagram and I deleted him from Facebook. Haven’t ...

Do I continue in my loveless marriage? I reconnected with my ex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1734 days ago

18 July 2019 (M - I have been married about 21 years. The last 7 have been really bad, it is almost just like sharing a house with a roommate. My last kid will be moving out is September. This opens a new chapter. Do I continue this loveless relationship? ...

My husband leaves our 2 children to go help his ex get their child ready for school

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1737 days ago

16 July 2019 (F - I am a bit confused as to how co-parenting works when a man has a child with his ex. My husband and I have two children together. He helps organize our daughter's uniform before he leaves on mornings. Then he would leave early to assist his ex ...

Worried that my wife may get what I am too tired to give from her ex fiance!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 1725 days ago

13 July 2019 (M - I need some advice as to what I should do, if anything, about a situation that has come up in my marriage. We have been married for 4 yrs. I am 27 and my wife is 26. Our marriage is mostly good and our sex life is good but our twice a week norm is ...

Am I in denial that we are over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1741 days ago

11 July 2019 (F - My ex of 6.5 years left 5 months ago. Well, she sort of left. She moved in with a family member saying she wasn't sure what she wanted. She comes round once or twice during the week for dinner and stays every weekend. We don't have sex or anything ...

My sister's long ago boyfriend wants to meet and talk. How do I tell my boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1741 days ago

10 July 2019 (F - in high school, my sister dated a guy who loved her very much. Basically he lost his chance forever when she found out she was gay. Over the years, he had sporadically kept in touch with me, and now he is coming to the area (for a sporting e...

My boyfriend is being really distant and cold.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1209 days ago

8 July 2019 (F - My boyfriend is being really distant and cold. We’ve been together 8 months. He is currently depressed because his ex hasn’t allowed him to see his child. This has been going on for 3 weeks. We never even spoke for the first week - he often shuts ...

Its been 2 years why can't I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1746 days ago

5 July 2019 (F - It's been two years since I cut contact with my ex. We met in high school. I didnt have friends, nor did I have a stable home, I was always abused physically and verbally by my mother, so you can say I was the broken, weird kid at school. Fast ...

I'm in a slightly wobbly relationship where I do love my partner but my best friend just professed his love for me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1750 days ago

4 July 2019 (F - Hey dearcupid Community! So, I'm in a bit of a predicament. Theres my partner. Been with him for 6 years in September. God I love him, he's not in a dark place, even his parents say how far he's come from what he once was and how certain thin...

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