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Archived questions from: December, 2007 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

His ex gf is making me feel uneasy! Am I just jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - Been with 'my boyf 3 months. We're very happy. However, his ex he split up with him '2 yrs ago is makin me feel uneasy They have a dog 2geva who she see's regularly. So they call and txt regarding that. She vivited im xmas mornin. She sent him ...

Problems with her ex bf--he keeps contacting her and I don't like it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 191 days ago

30 December 2007 (M) - I have been in my present relationship for a period of about 2 and half years. All is fine, we live together and in nearly all areas of our relationship we get on well, except one! Before we meet she had split with a guy 3 months previously who, she ...

Should I tell her to leave me alone??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 177 days ago

30 December 2007 (M) - hi, I'm 22 and broke-up from my longterm gf a few weeks ago as she was cheating on me and i found out she started going out with the lad she had cheated on me with. 2 weeks ago it ended between them and shes textin me wanting to be my friend but...

Does avoiding my ex make me a coward??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

29 December 2007 (M) - Am I a coward? I'm avoiding contact with my ex-girlfriend, and so I'm avoiding MSN messenger all together. I've tried to be her friend after the break up, but I get too upset to keep doing it. It's been months since she broke up with me, and I just ...

My friends keep telling me to get over him but I just can't.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - I had fancied this guy for about a year before he asked me out. We live a long way apart and met on two other previous holidays. We had talked by text and msn. And we met the weekend before he asked me out. When he asked me out i was so happy. I...

Should I smile because we are friends or cry because that's all we are??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 191 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - Well, Me and this guy have been through so much together. We've been out twice and even when we wern't going out we were still close friends. The first time we went out he dumped me but the second time i ended it. And yeah i regret it. I still lov...

He moved away and has a new girlfriend - will he really dump her for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - I used to date this guy before he moved away. I see him when he comes to visit and i really like him. The problem is he has a girlfriend where he lives now but he says he loves me and will dump her for me. I'm not sure whether to trust him or not as ...

I know I should move on from my long-distance ex but just feel I can't.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 191 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - How to i get over my ex? We split a month ago after going out for 4 months, it was long distance but we fell in love but he broke it off as the distance was gettin to much and he couldnt keep affording to come up as i'm only 16 and not allowed ...

What shall I do about my ex who says he loves me but dumps me for girls he doesn't want.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 191 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - hi, i'm in a difficult situation again; My ex bf said he was going to dump his current gf , because he has no feeling for her and he loves me loads and all of that stuff, and i love him so much, but i don't know what'll happen, cus if he dumps me...

Am I justified to feel this angry with my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 192 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - I dated my best friend for a few months at the begining of the year, we had been friends for 3 years prior, and yes I already know it was probably a bad idea, he lied to me and I left him, giving him some space for a few months then we started being ...

He broke up with me and I was devastated. I started dating another guy and now my ex tells me I threw him away when seeing this other guy and now I feel all confused and messed up, what shall I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 187 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - my boyfriend broke up with me and told me that he wants us to remain to be just friends. he broke up with me about 3 weeks ago. we dated for about 4 weeks. throughtout the time we dated he told me that he likes me alot. we were friends for a ...

She left me after 3 years and I don't understand what happened, what is she trying to do to me? Is it too late for us to fix things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 192 days ago

29 December 2007 (M) - my xgirlfriend left me after 3 years.we never fight, we always got alone.well she left me befor hollween this year.I was going to ask her lets go out to eat and she said no and i was shocked i was going to be nice.well she said we got to talk well ...

He told me he will have lunch with his ex and mentioned some bad things about her, why would he talk negatively about her to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

28 December 2007 (?) - I've been dating this guy for about a month. I know a month is not long at all, but we see each other pretty often, talk every day and he seems to be really into me. We are both 25. He went to visit his family in his hometown for the holidays and ...

How do I get over my ex so it won't bother my new relation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 193 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - me and my ex (warren) have benn broke up for about 2 monthes and im back with my boyfriend (cody) me and cody have been goin out off and on for 4 1/2 yrs. but i cant get over my ex and it really bothers me and cody. warren (my ex) just told me a few ...

One minute he didn't want me anymore, the next he's acting like we are a full on couple. I don't understand.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - My boyfriend recently split up with me mid-december, claiming that he could not handle our relationship and was jealous of my friendships with other men. He stayed in touch with me over the course of the last few weeks and only a week after ...

I did all the embarrassing/annoying ex things and now I'm a mess. How do you move on from someone that doesn't love you anymore?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 187 days ago

28 December 2007 (M) - The first person that I've ever had real feelings for finished with me just over a month ago and I'm still having a hard time trying to stop thinking about him. We were only together for 5 months and I can understand why it didn't work out. We hit a ...

Do I end it... even although we're good together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

28 December 2007 (M) - Well, my problem is that I'm with this girl who I reckon I've been seeing for about 4 weeks maybe more, and I feel we both feel really good together and have been enjoying being with each other but a day ago she told me that she got drunk at the ...

How can I explain to my ex that I cared for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 194 days ago

27 December 2007 (M) - I need your help guys. I saw this girl last yr very briefly but quickly bailed out b4 it got serious (just wasnt ready for a serious rship). In Jan i started thinking abt her again thinking i didnt give her a chance and decided to go back and not be ...

Is it possible to get into a relationship while hung up over someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - Theres a guy iv liked for a while but clearly isnt interested thus a waste of time being hung up over... however I go cold when ever another guy gets close to me and then i dont even want to see them! for example a really nice decent guy asked...

I was alone this Christmas... She wasn't, and it's hard for me to accept. How can I ease the pain?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

27 December 2007 (M) - I've just spent my first christmas alone in 3 years. Worse yet, my ex has gone into a relationship in the past couple of months. I'm lonely, and now she has somebody. I tried not to let it ruin the holiday for me, but knowing that she has somebody ...

Things are so complicated. Somebody help me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 194 days ago

27 December 2007 (?) - right you wont belive the mess im in, bassically im 19 years old, jus come out of a pretty destructive relationship, ive known this girl for 4 years, we dated when we were younger although it wasnt very serious, she was besotted with me, but being a ...

I've broken up with my girlfriend of 3 years. When is it ok to start dating again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

27 December 2007 (M) - I broke up with my girlfriend of 3yrs about 3 weeks ago, and i was wondering when is it a good time to start dating other people? Ive started to like a girl that i work with and shes made it pretty clear that she likes me also, but im not sure ...

She wants sex with me, and her friend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

27 December 2007 (M) - hey ppl! i need some help here!! okay so i just broke up with my ex gf that i have dated for 3 years, we remain good friends and we have a mutual agreement that we can still have sex with each other even if we are seeing someone else..but since we ...

I think she's ruined my life. What am I going to do now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 109 days ago

27 December 2007 (?) - this girls screwed my life. i dated this girl 4 years ago,nothing serious we were kids,i was shy didnt let on i liked her,didnt know how to deal with it lol, at the time another girl was txt messaging me,i never even met up with this other ...

I refuse to be a friend with benefits. I want a proper relationship. How do I tell him I'm still in love with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - Me and my ex broke up the beginning of November. We was together close to 7 months. We stopped talking and I truly thought it was over. I was working on moving on. Been a long hard road tho cuz I can honestly say with him it was true love. Im 25 ...

He still cares about his ex, but why can't he be bothered with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - I have been married for 5 months, been together 2.5 yrs and have a 14 month old child. Prior to that, my husband was with a woman for 10 years, they had a kind of friends relationship with on/off sex but he clearly doted on her, she can do no wrong ...

My ex sended me a text saying he loves me but when asking him about it he told me to forget it, what is going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 195 days ago

26 December 2007 (F) - my ex boyfriend sent me a message tellin me he loves me with all his heart and i love him so so much too its just when i asked him about it he told me to forget it. is it because he is afraid i will say no or just because he thought it was a mistake ...

I'm so messed up over this guy screwing with my head! I don't know how to handle this pain, how do I move on from him and start controlling my emotions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

26 December 2007 (F) - I'm 18, in love, and f***ed up to be honest. I'm not very good at controlling my emotions or sorting out my life and I really need to. I like this guy but we're not even going to go there anymore because he's screwing with my head but i thin...

His ex came back on scene and he dumped me and now I feel dirty for having given him a blowjob, what shall I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

26 December 2007 (F) - Hi im 14 years old and have been going out with a guy for about 4 months. He used to really like me and i didnt like him that much but grew to love him. we had been going out secretly at school so no one knew about it because of his race. i know it ...

I dumped my new boyfriend when my ex who I still loved told me he wanted to be with me again. He then immediately dumped me again and now I'm all alone and miserable and can't get him out of my head! Please help, what do I do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 86 days ago

26 December 2007 (F) - well i know people say that i'm to young to be thinking about love but i don't think age matters cause you cant help loving some-one can you ? ok so i was going out with a boy since october 22nd , and then he dumped me for another girl a lil while ...

I love him but he loves his ex, do I wait for him to get over her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 156 days ago

26 December 2007 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 8 months now. Having been out of the dating scene for 9 years and being a mother this time around, seems to complicate things a bit. My real question at this time hinges on the fact that he ...

My friends chose my ex over me to spend Christmas with

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 194 days ago

25 December 2007 (M) - my best friend's have left me and went over my ex's on christmas day!!!! they havent asked me what i was doing all day they dont care anymore... what can i do apart from sit here crying!!!...

I feel confused because my ex is acting all nice towards me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 41 days ago

25 December 2007 (F) - Before i went out with my now ex boyfriend we had a very good friendship for about a year. We started dating but it didnt work out. So after a very nasty break up he has chosen to ignore me. Only recently has he started talking to me but flirts ...

Why is he telling me about her and is she real??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 196 days ago

25 December 2007 (F) - My ex fiance called me and left me a nasty message saying how his family and friends think I am so heartless for not returning his calls. I broke up with him because he was emotionally abusive and manipulative and told him never to contact me repea...

Torn between my two ex's.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 196 days ago

25 December 2007 (F) - I recently got back in touch with my ex fiance after 2 years who i think i still love but he has a girl friend and a very interfering family. He says he still loves me an wants me back and he is going to finish his girlfriend. but his family c...

Is it ok to restart things with my ex??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 196 days ago

24 December 2007 (F) - Ok so i was dating my boyfriend for a short while, yet i was very attached to him. Then i found him with another girl in his bed. 3 months has past and i still have tons of feelings for him. He says he does to and he regrets it so much and hes feel...

Do you think my ex is still trying to avoid me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 196 days ago

24 December 2007 (F) - Yesterday i went to the pub i go to and where i meet by ex bf. I really wanted him to notice me so i dressed smart and casual to impress him, when i got there only his mate was, next thing i know was his mate on the phone and no sign of him like his ...

My ex took my virginity and would like to have sex again but now he has a gf.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 197 days ago

24 December 2007 (F) - When me and my ex were together 6 months ago we had sex for the first time. Since then we hardly talk execpt on the phone. He says he loves me and wants to have sex again. I don't whether to or not? I don't want him to think i'm a whore and i no...

I thought he was with his brother at football but he was really with his ex and I am in a world of hurt.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

24 December 2007 (F) - Please help! Im in a world of hurt. I was with my boyfriend for 6years,i broke up with him because he treated me bad.We split for a year and he dated someone else,but it didnt work. In the last 2 months we have got back together and things have ...

How can he be serious about another relationship if he is dancing and flirting with different girls at parties??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 196 days ago

24 December 2007 (F) - A guy with whom I had a realtionship before, dances and flirts with different girls in front of me at a party. But he said hes got into another relationship now. How can if he's doing so in the public? Is he not serious?...

I just want to be reassured the night I picked him up at the airport I wasn't an uncaring person as he made me believe. He was generally emotionally abusive.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 196 days ago

23 December 2007 (F) - I was just remembering how once I picked my ex fiance up at the airport (because he went on a 2 month vacation without me, but I saw him 3 times during it) and how I waited at a parking place so when he arrived he could just call me and I could ...

I love him to bits but just as a mate..how do I tell him without breaking his heart??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 193 days ago

23 December 2007 (F) - So, i met this guy on the internet we hit it off great, but when we met up, i really liked him but he didnt like me. We had been dating for a month online and when i finally met him, he broke up with me telling me im not his type, but i really d...

My gf will travel with a group of friends, including her ex who is a womaniser. This situation pushes me to the brink of sanity. Do I ask her not to go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 196 days ago

23 December 2007 (M) - Okay, heres my predicament and I just want some feed back from people to see if i'm being out of line. My girlfriend of a couple years has always maintained a friendship with her ex. Him and their group of friends have always been close for years. ...

Me and the ex are still having sex but I cant tell if he still loves me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

23 December 2007 (F) - I split up with my boyfirend four months ago. We still have sex with each other even though he has a new girlfriend. I still love him and want him back. How can i tell if he still have feelings for me? what should i do?...

Am I right to question his integrity??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 197 days ago

23 December 2007 (F) - I am seeing a guy who I go to university with. He is home for the holidays (Diff. Province entirely). We have been using web cam to stay in touch. I was taken by surprise when I saw that he was 'shaven'. My question pertains to why might he shave ...

Why did he hurt me like that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

23 December 2007 (F) - Why did he hurt me like that? I was in a relationship for 1.5 years with a man who i thought was the love of my life. We met at work, and tried to keep the relationship secret, it didnt last very long. There was a girl at work that i didnt get...

My ex's new girlfriend is all over my new boyfriend, she flirts with him in front of my ex, and I'm starting to have feelings back for him, anything I can do without ruining our friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 197 days ago

23 December 2007 (F) - Me and my ex boyfriend were going on 2 years, he broke up with me, and got back together with his ex. I got together with his close friend...for a very short while. I started falling for his friend, but now my ex's new girlfriend is all over my new ...

How do I make my ex stop harrassing me? I answered one of his text messages, can I still file for a restraining order?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 197 days ago

23 December 2007 (F) - My ex sent me a Christmas gift after I told him not to contact me. He has called about twenty times asking if I've gotten it and then texted me saying how he wants me to go see him on Christmas and try to make our relationship work. I hadn't ...

He broke up with me because I did not sleep with him. Then he met another girl who got pregnant and married her. Now, 7 months later he called me to say he misses me, what is going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

22 December 2007 (F) - Hiya, i am 21 and have a problem . I met a guy when i was 15 and was seeing him since for the last 4 years. He left me when i was 19 because i did notr sleep with him due to religious reasons. He then slept with someone else...realised that he is ...

Me and my ex are best friends but he gets mad every time I hook up with anybody else and I feel jealous too.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

22 December 2007 (F) - I ended a year long relationship last Valentines Day. After the initial break up we were able to maintain friendship, and presently are best friends who date a little. The catch is, we both hook up with other people now, and as much as he says hes...