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Archived questions from: November, 2005 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

My ex doesn't understand that his new girlfriend is trouble and that I'd treat him better!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6713 days ago

30 November 2005 (F) - Please help me. I just dont know what to do.Im still in love with my ex. We were only together for 5 months and we split up 6 months ago, because he suddenly decided that I wasn't his type and not the girl for him. I was very hurt but I could ne...

I want my ex back-but she's with another guy. Should I leave her alone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

28 November 2005 (M) - Any tips? My ex is with another man. I desperately want her back. I've told her this, she's listened to me. She's not told me no or yes. She keeps saying she needs time to live a little. I can't work out whether she's serious with this guy or whet...

I poured my heart out - did I blow it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6700 days ago

28 November 2005 (M) - Everywhere I read it says not to let your ex-girlfriend know how you feel and that you still care. But what do I do if already told her everything and still want her back? Is it to late? Thanks...

Does she or doesn't she?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6693 days ago

28 November 2005 (M) - My girlfriend and I broke up about 4 months ago. It happened very sudden and we lost contanct for 2 months. We saw each other and it was like old days—everything was great. We started to talk again but she keeps saying she can't go back and wants ...

My husband leaves me alone while he's off hunting... is it any wonder I think about my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6721 days ago

24 November 2005 (F) - Married, Unhappy and Wanting to be with someone else. I have been married for 2 years but we've been together for 5. My husband like to hunt (that makes me a hunter's widow to those who know my pain)and that keeps him away from home. He eats, br...

My boyfriend's ex says she's pregnant, and her family insist they get back together!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6722 days ago

23 November 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid My boyfriend has now confessed to me that his ex girlfriend may be pregnant for him. Apparently they broke up when she told him that the child she was carrying was not his. That was the story until about a month ago when the story c...

His ex-wife is going to extreme lengths to try to get my fiance back into her life!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6702 days ago

22 November 2005 (F) - I am engaged to a man who loves me dearly. We met 2 years ago and became instant best friends, it was like we had known each other our entire lives. During this time he was finalizing a divorce, his marriage had lasted less than a year. Her one ...

I still daydream about a guy I had a crush on in high school...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6721 days ago

22 November 2005 (F) - I used to know a guy from school, and used to have a huge crush on him - of course he never knew that. But when I reached high school, I wasn't able to see him for years - yet I always used to think about him. Now I'm in my 20's and there's a chance ...

My ex was my rock when I needed him, but now I'm just his bit on the side...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6724 days ago

21 November 2005 (F) - Hi, I' a 39 year old rcoverying from cervical cancer. I split with my ex a while back when he had affair and got the girl pregnant. We have children and a business together and while at beginning seeing him most days was painful, I got over it and ...

My ex hates her current relationship, but "doesn't know" about getting back with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6716 days ago

20 November 2005 (M) - Hi I have been friends with my ex-girlfriend for round about two months. Lately all the feelings I had for her back then have come back. She is in a bad relationship with this other guy, she complains about everything he does wrong to me, and...

Does my ex want me back? If she does, why doesn't she just say so?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6724 days ago

20 November 2005 (M) - Hi My problem is I went out with my ex girlfriend for 6 months, 6 of the most magical months of my life, but by the end of the sixth she dumped me saying she needs time to sort out her priorities. I was upset but I recovered. It's been aro...

I think I'd rather be with my ex... even though he's not very reliable...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6725 days ago

20 November 2005 (F) - I have a boyfriend of 3 months and I thought I was in love with him, but now my ex wants me back and I think I want him back too, because recently my feelings are changing for my current boyfriend. I feel trapped and don't know what to do. I don't ...

My ex keeps breaking my heart, but I see him every day!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6725 days ago

20 November 2005 (F) - Hello, I am in a lot of pain. My ex broke up with me 3 years ago- it was very heart breaking as he was my first everything- sex, love etc. One of the reasons we broke up was because he was moving to a different city. I have now moved to that city ...

My ex will take me back, but what if I miss a chance with a new man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6724 days ago

20 November 2005 (F) - I need help. Fisrt I'll give you the run down of the situation. I cheated on my ex-boyfriend *Colin (* = not real name) so he obviuously broke up with me. I was very regretful and begged and begged for him to take me back but he refused. So one ...

After his lies about his having kids, I can't help but wonder when he says there's nothing between him and the ex...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6726 days ago

19 November 2005 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months now. We get along great. The only problem is that he has 2 children with his ex-girlfriend. During the first 3 months that we were going out he denied the fact that he had children and told me ...

We never realised the strength of our love until 10 years on!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6724 days ago

18 November 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid I am puzzled and frustrated and I need some help. I don't know what to do about my former girlfriend. 10 years ago, she broke up with me. Before that, we lived together for a few years and we believed we had met our soulmate. We felt...

She's been in contact with her ex for the last six years! She says they're just friends...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6727 days ago

18 November 2005 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been going out for nearly 6 years. Previous to this she had been married for 16 years. Her marriage broke up because she was having an affair for about 10 years with another man. When I met her she said that she had split up ...

I broke up with my ex to be with my current girlfriend, but it's the ex I really want!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6728 days ago

17 November 2005 (M) - I've been dating this girl for almost 5 years now and I can say that she is fun to be with. We had our share of ups and downs for the past few years. But I keep on thinking about my ex-girlfriend, whom I've been with for 2 years before my current ...

Is the grass always greener on the other side? My ex seems to want me back...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6721 days ago

17 November 2005 (F) - Should I get back with my ex? I have been in a serious relationship for 5 1/2 years. We have a 3 year old daughter together and we just now have started living together. We plan to marry, but I love him, I just don't think I'm in love with him. ...

I married someone else on the rebound, but still have feelings for my ex-husband!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6726 days ago

17 November 2005 (F) - I have been divorced from my ex-husband for 6 years. I have now know him 21 years. (Since teens) We have two sons together. The problem is that right after we got divorced I got into a rebound relationship and have now been married for 5 years. My ...

Should I be bothered by her keeping a photo of her ex-boyfriend in her wallet?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6723 days ago

17 November 2005 (M) - Hello. I am 24, as is my girlfriend. We've been dating for about 3 months now and things are going very well. The other day we were at the mall and when she pulled out her wallet to pay for something, she pulled out a photo of her ex-boyfriend...

Should I give my unforgettable ex a second chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5991 days ago

17 November 2005 (F) - Is it always best to stay with the "comfortable, nicer" boyfriend? Four years ago, I dated a guy for about a year and a half. I was crazy about him but unfortunately, he was still inexperienced with relationships and had a hard time expressi...

He can't leave his ex yet... and we've been dating for 6 months!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6729 days ago

17 November 2005 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months. When we began seeing each other, I knew that he still lived with his ex-girlfriend, and he cannot leave right now financially. Both her and I are really bothered by this. I never go to their ...

At about the time he started having feelings for me, he decided it was time to "step back"!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6727 days ago

15 November 2005 (F) - I have been seeing/hanging out with this guy since september. I'm in my late twenties and he's in his early fourties. He has been hot and cold with me all along. Until the past couple of weeks something had changed and it seemed like he was ...

Go with the current boyfriend, or reconsider my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6730 days ago

15 November 2005 (F) - I am having a rough time right now. I am divorced and currently dating a younger man. The problem is my ex still wants me back and I still care for him. I don't know what to do because I also care for the guy I am currently with. I feel like ...

Does my ex want to be back together, or is it more a friends-with-benefits sort of thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6721 days ago

15 November 2005 (F) - Dating great guy for 8 months. He broke up with me 4 weeks ago. He was very honest and open with his feelings. He said he just didn't feel like I was the one. He wasn't in love with me enough etc. etc. I agreed since I felt the same. All the ...

While I was away, her old ex seems to have moved in...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6729 days ago

15 November 2005 (M) - Hi all, I've been in a serious relationship with someone for 5 years now and we were talking about moving back to the southeast. Well I got a job back there and she couldn't move yet because of her job and we couldn't afford to move all our things. ...

Is it possible to marry someone to recapture the way we felt before?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6730 days ago

14 November 2005 (M) - First and foremost I want to say that this is a very very serious question,That has either a lot of happiness or a lot of pain and suffering. I was married 17 years. Ex cheated on me. We divorced. I starting seeing this wonderful,Truly the best wom...

Do I stay with my new girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

14 November 2005 (M) - I've been dating this girl for almost 5 years now and i can say that she is fun to be with. We had our shares of ups and downs for the past few years. But i keep on thinking about my ex-girlfriend, whom i've been with for 2 years before my current ...

She wants her ex back and the stress on our relationship is driving me crazy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6730 days ago

14 November 2005 (M) - I am with a girlfriend who says she doesn't feel the same just two weeks after moving in together and who I know is talking with her ex about getting back together but we are living together. They have a 3 year old son and throughout our o...

I was dumped by my ex, but now he lives right in my town and I see him all the time!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6727 days ago

13 November 2005 (F) - My ex dumped me several months ago for a lot of complicated reasons. It took me a very long time to get over him, but I did. Now, he moved to where I live and I see him more than I did when we were dating. It took a while, but all of the emotions ...

Is my ex just playing me, or could his advances be for real?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6731 days ago

12 November 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, My ex-boyfriend recently began making contact with me after about 18 months since we split. We work together and it had been fairly difficult at times to avoid him. I was utterly heartbroken at the split, he had cheated on me with m...

Help! I keep hurting my relationship by seesawing over going back to my ex...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5858 days ago

11 November 2005 (M) - Hi, I have a problem that I could really do with some advice on !! I am seperated from my wife and son, and struggling to move on. I have met someone else but every time I try to commit I start doubting everything I have done, so keep hurting ...

What's the best way to tell my ex that the boys and I are moving in with someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6730 days ago

11 November 2005 (F) - Hi, I am a recently divorced mom of 2 small boys. My ex husband is still trying to get me back, but he has been harassing me, and has somewhat of a pyschotic problem. He has accepted that we are divorced finally, and we have come to an agreement on ...

My old ex-boyfriend is back and I'd rather be with him than with my husband...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6734 days ago

11 November 2005 (F) - Hi I need some advice. I have been married for 3 years, and an ex-boyfriend came into the picture that I still care about. I want to be with him but I can't get a divorce for that. What do I do?...

First he broke up with me, then he was friendly. I don't know what to do anymore...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6734 days ago

10 November 2005 (F) - I met this guy when I was in my first year of university (I was 18 and he was 20). We hit it off right away and spent the entire year madly falling in love with each other. That summer I broke with him b/c I was having personal problems even though ...

What's the best way to treat a former-romance, former-coworker?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6734 days ago

10 November 2005 (M) - A few months back I was seeing a girl who I worked with. We had only known each other for about a month before we started dating. My opinion of her had changed completely over that month, from not really caring to speak to her, to finding I really ...

Don't want to tell him how strongly I feel about him, because I might lose our friendship entirely...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6735 days ago

10 November 2005 (F) - I still have feelings for an ex-boyfriend I was with 5 years ago. After the breakup, we have kept in contact and became closer than we were when together. He is now my best friend who knows everything. He has a girlfriend, in which he says very ...

Why do I still feel so strongly about my ex, even more than a year after we make a break of it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6735 days ago

10 November 2005 (F) - I'm going to try make this as short as possible.. but it's a really long story, hah. Me and my best friend, who was a guy, decided that we liked each other more than just friends and got together. We got on really well, and things went great fo...

Was having a good-bye drink with my ex-husband after the divorce an insult to my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6734 days ago

9 November 2005 (?) - Was I wrong by going to the bar with my ex after leaving the courthouse to finalize our divorce when I was in a relationship with another man? He got very angry when I got home and called him and told him why it took so long just to sign some ...

Why is my girlfriend so close to her ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6736 days ago

8 November 2005 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been together for 7 months, and ever since the start her ex boyfriend has been constantly trying to get her back, which is very damaging to our relationship. I've put up with it for 7 months but I'm at breaking point as he ...

I have a connection with my ex that transcends his marriage and our distance!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6736 days ago

8 November 2005 (F) - I am entangled and sad. I'm still deeply in love with my former boyfriend and I don't know what to do. We have been separated for some years and we have both moved on with our lives. Although I was never able to forget about him, I got a new lover ...

His emails say he wanted to be back with his ex. Do I tell him what I found?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6737 days ago

8 November 2005 (F) - I recently found out that my boyfriend of 1 year wanted to get back with his ex four months of our relationship. I know this because I found out from one of his emails. We are planing to get married next year and I'm really confused and don't kn...

I thought we hit it off, but he backed away and told me he's not over his ex yet...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6737 days ago

7 November 2005 (F) - Met this lovely guy at uni called Simon, after getting to know him via text and just chatting after class i developed a crush. I dont find it easy to fall for a guy but he seemed to be everything i was looking for. Last week we went to a concer...

I keep going back to my ex and sleeping with him!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5977 days ago

7 November 2005 (F) - Help! I have been seeing my current boyfriend for 5 months now and he is almost everything anyone could want. Kind, clever, handsome etc. I enjoy spending time with him and we get on really well. He is very caring and i can see us having a long and ...

My ex wanted my permission to date another guy. I said it was fine, but I lied!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6740 days ago

5 November 2005 (F) - Well, my ex dumped me for my best friend and she wanted my "approval" before they could go out. Being the nice person that I am, I said it was fine and that I didn't mind but, boy did I lie. Every time I see them together it hurts more and more and ...

I was looking forward to seeing an old flame... until he sent me a weird and raunchy sex questionnaire!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6741 days ago

4 November 2005 (F) - I have been in contact with a very special old boyfriend who is overseas and wants to come back and see me in January. We have been flirty and I sent him a picture of me in frilly pants to keep him going until then! I would have said he is a ...

I'm not over my ex and I want her back in my life. Am I just torturing myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6742 days ago

3 November 2005 (M) - My girlfriend split up with me about 7 months ago, after an intense relationship that lasted for 5 and a half years in which we lived together for all of that time. She also happens to be my best friend (soulmate) and has been for the last 12 years ...

Don't love the father of my daughter. Do love my ex. What do I choose?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6721 days ago

2 November 2005 (F) - Hi, I've been in a relationship with a guy for almost 18 months now and we have a 4 month old baby daughter, the problem is I am still in love with my ex. We were together for about 16 months and I loved every minute of it, he was funny, kind, ...

Why is my girlfriend still friends with her exes?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3658 days ago

1 November 2005 (M) - I'm going with my girlfriend now for 4 months. She has broken up with all her ex's but has remained friends with them. I don't understand why....