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Archived questions from: November, 2015 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

I can tell he's trying to change but I don't think it's enough anymore

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3068 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - I apologise in advance for this being a long question, but as I need answers/advice from people outside of the situation, I have to fully explain everything. So, basically, I'm 19 years old, and was dating a boy, lets name him Jordan, for over...

Keeping secrets is eating me up so why do I do it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3068 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - Sorry in advance about the long post - i need an outsiders perspective. I have been in an on-off relationship with my ex boyfriend for the past two years. We were together solidly for two years and now we have been on and off for the past couple ...

We split 8 years ago. I need to find some happiness. But how? I don't know how?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3069 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - Hi, it's a long story but will try to make it brief! I was with B the father of my 2 children 10 years.He was absolutely the love of my life and I was totally in love however I am certain it wasn't the same for him. B cheated on me througho...

Why is my boyfriend suddenly indifferent about his ex who's now engaged?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3069 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - TDLR my boyfriend is suddenly completely indifferent about his ex after hearing she got engaged. What could be the reason for this sudden change of heart??? Long version: My boyfriend found it extremely hard to let go of his ex. They didn't date...

I know I need to end with my child's father first but do you think my ex is right to be holding back contact?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3070 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - I have been in what does not feel like a relationship since 1999. Looking back he was great dad to by older kids and the one we have but he did not move things on with me. We never lived together, he never bought me presents or remembered my ...

We're back together but he seems preoccupied with his daughter

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3070 days ago

28 November 2015 (F) - Is my boyfriend strange? The ex-bf and I got together during the summer then in July he wanted to get back together to which I resisted for a couple of months as I was pretty happy being alone. He didn't try to impress me by recognizing my birthday ...

It's as if I'm helpless to stop these feelings of anger and hurt, a year on!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3070 days ago

28 November 2015 (F) - A year ago I was cut off and wronged by a couple of people I thought were my friends. Two of us were both seeing the same guy - unknown to each other - but I obviously was being used by him and got in the way of the other girl and was cut off ...

I broke "no contact" after 6 months with my ex-girlfriend, and I'm very confused by her response!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3070 days ago

28 November 2015 (M) - I was with my girlfriend for almost a year, we had some really great times together and as many relationships do, some trying times as well. The last month of the relationship was really odd after she got back from out of town visiting family. We ...

I'm married to a narcissistic verbal abuser

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3070 days ago

26 November 2015 (F) - I am married to a narcissistic verbal abuser and bully. My husband ostracized me from his children and their mother from a previous relationship. It's like I'm his dirty little secret not his wife. He is always giving me the silent treatment. W...

Help me with comfort and strength! My marriage is so troubled!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3071 days ago

26 November 2015 (F) - Hello guys. I am one stressed woman . For the past year i hv been suffering from post natal depression after i gv birth last year. No i am getting back to normal but my relationship is stressful, my husband has been cheating on me go the past year ...

He speaks to his ex differently when I'm not around

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3073 days ago

25 November 2015 (F) - Ok I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we have a 5 year old son together. He was married and has 2 boys with her but was divorced about 3 years before we started dating. She calls him every sometimes about the boys and sometimes not. He ...

Trying to start over as friends with my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3070 days ago

25 November 2015 (F) - So my ex and i have dated on and off for a while now.. We decided lets try and give it one last chance but before then, we need to start completely over as friends, but lately whenever we start to talk i feel aggervated and annoyed. Its like talking ...

Am I over-reacting to his harsh and hurtful comments?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3072 days ago

25 November 2015 (F) - Hello Everyone! Boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. Last weekend, he said things to me that really broke my spirit and was very hurtful. We were getting intimate and he said that I was the only woman who's never made him come,...

Why do I delay leaving him? How do I gather the courage to leave?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3073 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid My bf of 5 years constantly belittles me, insults me, talks about how other girls look good and how I look v bad in front of them and how old I look, how I don't deserve him... But still comes to me for money, it's been months since w...

Is there a chance the second time around?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3069 days ago

23 November 2015 (F) - Can second chance relationships work? When I was 18 I met my ex boyfriend who I was instantly attracted too and within weeks we were together. It happened really fast and within 5 months we were engaged and he had moved into my parents house. People ...

If I was as happy as I thought, would I be wondering all about my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3076 days ago

22 November 2015 (F) - I really hope someone can help me to understand why im feeling like this. I had a pretty bad relationship a couple of years ago, we started off as friends and things got off to a great start and were pretty perfect for the first year but then som...

She revealed the truth and then we broke up. How can I start living again despite my trust issues?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3076 days ago

21 November 2015 (M) - Before I say anything else I must mention that I come from a part of the world where sex before marriage is considered taboo. I have had only 1 gf my entire life and I was a virgin when we met. We were together for 9 months and we had never eng...

My ex: ''if only he had not signed up'' Why have his words hurt me so much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3077 days ago

21 November 2015 (F) - Ikay so my ex and i dated when we were 15 up until the day before i turned 18. We broke up because he wanted to have his freedoms, live his life, yada yada. Well its been over a year since he and i broke up. And lately hes on my mind all the time. I ...

Now that I've been intimate with my ex I'm worried he'll lose interest

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3077 days ago

21 November 2015 (F) - I rekindled with my ex boyfriend and we have since become intimate. He was beautiful and very passionate. I was really surprised as I did not think he felt like that about me after all this time. Its been nearly three weeks since we last me...

Could the dream I had about my boyfriend and Christmas be pointing to our future?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3077 days ago

21 November 2015 (F) - I don 't dream much and I do believe I'm a little psychic. My ex boyfriend came to me in my dream after over 20 years. A few weeks later we have had some great meetings. Not long ago I dreamt that we spent Christmas together. I hate Christmas m...

Why did my ex's confession of love hurt so much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3075 days ago

20 November 2015 (F) - Okay so my ex and i dated when we were 15 up until the day before i turned 18. We broke up because he wanted to have his freedoms, live his life, yada yada. Well its been over a year since he and i broke up. And lately hes on my mind all the time. I ...

Do I marry my ex, when I hardly know him? What are my options in this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3072 days ago

20 November 2015 (F) - Hi everyone I need your advice, I was dating T from Italy while I am staying in South Africa for 4 years, in that 4 years we saw eachother a couple of times when he came to see me in SA, like not more than 5 times in that 4 years, so we hardly spent ...

Will I ever be able to trust again? His cheating has so affected me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3079 days ago

19 November 2015 (F) - I was in a relationship one and a half year ago. The reason for the break up was the guy was cheating on me with another girl. I was devastated because I really loved him. Now I have moved on completely. I dont care if he exists or whatever...

My girlfriend wants a tattoo of her dead ex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3079 days ago

18 November 2015 (M) - How should I feel and/or respond to my girlfriend asking about her wanting a tattoo to remember her dead ex? We have been dating for almost 2 years. I do love her. She had known this ex for a long time before me and describes him as a dear friend. ...

Is ogling a sign of disrespect or am I really overreacting?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3076 days ago

18 November 2015 (F) - A wee bit of background. I am 46 and self-employed and get to travel the world quite often because of my job. Several years ago on a business trip, I met a great guy a couple of years older than me out in Belgium, divorced and we hit it off big ...

I'd be willing to start a real relationship with him, not a FWB, however he says he won't ever get married because it will affect his sex life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3080 days ago

18 November 2015 (F) - I had a relationship with a guy over 25 years ago. He was very special to me and my first love. We split up and bearly saw each other until a couple of months ago. We went out for dinner and the chemistry between us was very intense. We tal...

What can I do? I'm feeling trapped in my own relationship. His depression is wearing me out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3080 days ago

18 November 2015 (F) - I decided to pour my heart out and tell my partner exactly how I feel. His depression and his secrecy of our relationship from his ex is getting too much for me and I had a moment of weakness and my emotions just outpoured. He promised how he ...

My boyfriend lives with his child's mother!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1942 days ago

17 November 2015 (F) - To begin, my boyfriend and I have not been together long. I really care about him! I have two children and at first I thought he only had one. When we are together it's great and when we are not together things are also great. He will spend 95% of ...

Feeling shattered that my Bf has been talking to his ex for 4 weeks. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3058 days ago

17 November 2015 (F) - I am really disappointed with what I found out yesterday im not really the jealous type but this lie has me broken!i Found out that my boyfriend has been talking to his ex for about 4 weeks now and no I did not snoop into his phone to find that out...

My ex is behaving weird and watching me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3080 days ago

17 November 2015 (F) - We broke up april. I havent spoken to him since because he strung me along during exam season and asked for a break, when it seems he just wanted me to do the dirty work. I eventually dumped him after waiting for him and he accepted without fuss ...

She wants him back and he still visits his ex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3075 days ago

16 November 2015 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 years is still friends with his ex which he periodically goes and sees. I have never had a problem with this... until he asked her if he could bring me over with him. She said no and that HE was always welcome but not me. Ive do...

Why does my ex want to be friends with me and still want me in his life? He treated me very badly.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3081 days ago

15 November 2015 (F) - My ex use to manipulate me a lot! I felt used, was treated badly and finally walked away after a terrible breakdown from the relationship. My ex tried to reach out to me many times and I ignored him. we didn't talk for 3 years. But we made up t...

I fell in love after moving on then he moves back. HELP ME!!!??? PLEASE??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3083 days ago

15 November 2015 (F) - I need help. I fell in love with this guy then he asks me out his name is i am going to say John(actually 21 years old) and at the same time the guy i was once with named Tom(now 18/19years old) . Well tom is an ex of mine from sophomore year of ...

His new girlfriend is making trouble for me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3084 days ago

14 November 2015 (F) - When I broke up with my ex boyfriend in the summer, totally unintentionally I ended up having a short of fling with a guy who I had known for a while. I hadn't wanted a relationship but we went out with a group of friends and it went from there. We ...

All my Bf's past relationship history bothers me. Am I over-thinking all this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3084 days ago

14 November 2015 (F) - I have been bothered by my boyfriend's past relationships recently, because he kept bringing them up over the course of our relationship. I have been with my boyfriend for four years and he occasionally brings up his exes. We met when I was a sop...

My ex boyfriend has changed his number

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3085 days ago

13 November 2015 (M) - My Boyfriend of 5 years just up and decided he wanted to be with someone else and live with them without telling me until months into him cheating on me. The other day i tried to call him just to get some closure and he had changed his number.. I ...

Can't get over the one who got away

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3086 days ago

12 November 2015 (F) - I was in love with a boyfriend of two years. After a while jealousy came up and ruined us. I saw that he went to prom with a girl i was hurt. Little did i know she was actually just a family friend nothing more. At the moment i did what i regret the ...

His ex is driving me crazy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3085 days ago

12 November 2015 (F) - My boyfriend lives with me, and I am completely in love with him. I am looking forward to our future and possibly a marriage (They were separated when our relationship begun).But his ex wife is crazy! She makes up lies about me and tells their 4 ...

Can I retrain my brain to stop obsessing about his past?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3086 days ago

11 November 2015 (F) - Hi everyone. I am engaged to be married next year and I love my husband to be dearly and I am pregnant with his child. When we were together about three years I got really obsessed about his past, quizzing him on his past affairs and generall...

Does my wife really not remember what she did with past Boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3087 days ago

10 November 2015 (M) - Hello All, I have been with with my wife for 15 years together for 20. A couple of years into our marriage, we got on the topic of past lovers. My wife had 1 boyfriend who she never had sex with, but they did fool around with oral and touching. Th...

Do I stay with a depressed man who hides our relationship from his ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3087 days ago

9 November 2015 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 18 months and I honestly thought he was the love of my life up until he started treating me differently. He was the kindest, gentlest man who would love me dearly every day. Around 6 months ago he started acting s...

My ex want to get back with me but the new guy is so nice and I'm torn between 2 worlds!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3089 days ago

8 November 2015 (F) - My Husband and i split 6months ago. (I left him) We have a beautiful 1year old. Ive recently started seeing someone new and he is everything I wanted my ex husband to be. But now my ex wants to talk about gettinf back together. I feel so conflict...

My daughter's mother needs a place to stay but g/f won't like it. Should I just sneak her in and out?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3090 days ago

8 November 2015 (M) - My daughter's mother just got out of jail/rehab, very suddenly and unexpectedly. Apparently she has no place to go, and misses her daughter so she asked to move in with me and my gf, temporarily (a few months) to get back on her feet. We do have ...

Boyfriend is on messenger in the middle of the night! Is he on with his ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3090 days ago

8 November 2015 (F) - Hello. I would really appreciate advice please. In a long distance of a year. We see each other every other weekend, although this has reduced recently due to difficulties we have had. At times his texts are lovely and others a bit business...

I asked my wife about the size of her ex's dick and now I am unhappy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3035 days ago

8 November 2015 (M) - I made asked my new wife about the size of her husband's dick. She happily discribed it and how she enjoyed it. Mine is shorter. We live togather now and I envy her ex. Her children are with us and since then I have not open up to her kids. I feel ...

I need my ex off the cell phone bill. How do I get them to accept this transfer? My ex will not speak to me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3090 days ago

7 November 2015 (F) - Ok, so my ex and I were together for almost three years. We combined our cellphone bill a year into the relationship, but we broke up 4 months ago. I've been paying it since he's been out of a job but we're not together anymore. He recently took up...

My ex kissed me, I want to confess to my husband, but how?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3084 days ago

7 November 2015 (F) - I have been happily married for seven years, and I love my husband dearly and we have two great kids together. Anyway, I went to my brothers house for drinks one saturday night last month, and he has recently become friends with a guy I briefly ...

What changes can I make to improve this relationship? How can I become more relaxed and take it slow?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3091 days ago

7 November 2015 (M) - Hi there, smart people. I'm looking for some help with a few questions that are bothering me to the point of giving me physical symptoms. I've had a very unhealthy relationship roughly 4 years ago that I have spent a long time recovering fro...

Is it OK to get back in contact with my ex - and offer to just be friends?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3088 days ago

7 November 2015 (F) - I'm happy in my relationship now but miss my ex, as a person, not who I want to get back with. Is it OK to get back in contact to be friends or not? He's the only other person I've been in love with and after 3 years I still can't get him out of m...

I'm comparing myself to husband's ex and have feelings of falling short!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3090 days ago

6 November 2015 (F) - I'm new and have one main issue that's been going pretty much since I started dating my hubby a few years ago. He is sweet, smart, hard working, adores me and has never done anything to make me feel insecure. In full disclosure this is strictly an ...