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Archived questions from: April, 2007 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

Is his ex trying to come between us?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6191 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - I trust my boyfriend with my life. I just don't understand why when his ex that cheated on him with one of his best friends calls or texts him he answers or texts her back... should I hold this over him or be worried??? She has also been to the ...

What on earth did my dream mean???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6110 days ago

30 April 2007 (M) - HELP! I had a dream that I was in the mall with my ex, and I kissed her! I honestly have no feelings for her whatsoever, and I have been seeing my current girlfriend for almost a year! What the heck did that dream mean?...

We broke up last July, I dealt with it as he wasnt around... He's coming home and will be where I am, I cant deal with this, Im too hurt! Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6199 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - sorry long post but pls i really need some help! my fiancee and i broke up in july he said he was too young to be in a relationship. His mum and i were very close and she said it was he was in debt and couldn't cope with the pressure of being ad...

I am in a serious relationship but have a "friends with benefits" relationship with my ex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6199 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - Hi, I have been in a serious relationship with a man I am deeply in love with for eight months now. I have a gut feeling that he will be the one I marry. Before we were in a relationship, we kissed a few times within a period of a week. The ...

Do you believe it is possible to be 'just' friends with your ex without any feelings of jealousy when either of you move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6109 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - OK, here are a few questions for you all about ex's. 1. Do you believe it is possible to be 'just' friends with your ex without any feelings of jealousy when either of you move > 2. Should you both just make a complete fresh start from ea...

I cant stop prank calling my ex!! Think I've got a problem! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6195 days ago

30 April 2007 (F) - I can't stop prank calling my ex boyfriend. Seriously. I'm 24 years old and I'm acting like a 10 year old. He cheated on me and I was very angry, but instead of confronting him, I just prank call him all the time. My most recent one was calling...

He is lying about being in contact with his ex gf! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6200 days ago

29 April 2007 (F) - my boyfriend broke up with me. we have had on going arguments about he and his ex girlfriend calling each other and him hiding it from me. he claims it was not to upset me. last time we broke up over this and made up he promised to tell her to ...

My daughter's father keeps texting even after I tell him not to talk to me again! Is he trying to see what he can get out of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6199 days ago

29 April 2007 (F) - It's going on six months since I left my daughter's father. At times, I wonder what he's doing but I need to move on. My work profermance is not what it use to be (be on top of things, completing paperwork before certain deadlines, etc). My ...

Would you contact an ex boyfriend who you have not spoke to in 3 years to set the record straight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6201 days ago

29 April 2007 (F) - Would you contact an ex boyfriend who you have not spoke to in 3 years to set the record straight? The thing is that he thinks that i cheated on him when i didnt. I broke up with him because he was very controlling and abusive. Regardless of what he ...

Should I tell him how I feel now or leave him alone since he's finally moved on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6201 days ago

27 April 2007 (F) - Hi, OK so about 3 years ago I was dating this guy who I had known for years. He was amazing, treated me like a princess, was generally a perfect boyfriend. However I went to uni and so I broke up with him I'm not really sure why I just got caught u...

He told me that all he needs is one more chance to prove to me that everything will be alright because I am the most important thing to him, but I'm just so confused! What is my problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6201 days ago

27 April 2007 (F) - I have a predicament. I recently broke off a 2 year relationship with my great boyfriend. The problem was that currently he is away at school, while I am at home. Even though he is only about an hour away, it is still hard for me because I want to ...

If you're in love with someone and planning a wedding, should you even be thinking about someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6198 days ago

27 April 2007 (F) - I'm 27 and have been with this guy for almost 9 years. We broke up about 3 1/2 years ago for a whole year. Since we have been back together everything is great.We just purchased a home last year, and we have been engaged since for 6 months. I'm not ...

She told me she wasnt in love me and left, denied having someone else when in truth she has a toyboy!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6202 days ago

27 April 2007 (M) - i have recently split up with my wife and was just wanting to sound off about it. been with her for 16 years and married for 11 years, we have 3 kids the oldest at 10. i have given her everything shes wanted during our relationship, then she drops ...

Together 4 yrs, I had to go away, she said she would wait, I got back and shes vanished! How do I deal with no explanation and no contact?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

27 April 2007 (M) - My girlfriend of four years planned our breakup two months before I was to take a work related trip to Italy.We spent Christmas and the night before I left together.We exchanged gifts made love, and I looked into her eyes to say to her how much I ...

He told me that it was because of his ex wife and how she treated him, that he cant trust anyone anymore.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6202 days ago

27 April 2007 (F) - i met my bf about a year ago, at first things were great, he would call me almost every hour on the hour, want to see me, be with me, take me out, he wanted to do everything together, until about 2 months ago, when he started to change towards me, ...

We were only married for 3 months before we broke up...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6200 days ago

26 April 2007 (F) - me and my ex were together on and off for three and a half years, im 26 he is 22, we have a 2 year old son we got married six months ago and three months later we broke up and i moved to another town,it was too hard there so me and my son came back, ...

I really like this guy but my best friend is his ex and she still likes him!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6202 days ago

26 April 2007 (F) - hey, i was just wondering what to do im in a bit of a pickle. Theres this guy called callum and me and him used to be really good mates but latley i haven't seen him much except from today he seemed to be happy to see me and i have recently just ...

I asked for my friend's blessings to be with his ex, the one I love. He said pick him or his ex. I picked him and now I'm heartbroken!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

26 April 2007 (M) - a little complicated... been away 11 years, finally moved back 2 years ago... back to friends i've known almost 20 years... met "M" 2 months ago who's ex to one of my friends, she was helping me look for work, she's also been back about 2 years......

My bf says his ex is the sexiest girl alive and talks about her w/ his friends! Is he trustworthy?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6167 days ago

26 April 2007 (F) - Hi, I recently discovered that my boyfriend chats with his friends about his ex girlfriend. He told me once that I turn him off in bed. And that his ex girlfriend was the prettiest and sexiest girl that he has ever met. He swears that he is not i...

My bf broke up w/ me b/c of the way I acted...but it was due to my depression! How do I get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6194 days ago

26 April 2007 (F) - I recently found out that I'm suffering from depression and anxiety and that I have for a long time now (for a few years). My boyfriend broke up with me because I got frustrated about some details of getting home, got in a mood and walked out on his ...

He used to be affectionate but not now! What is going on with this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6203 days ago

26 April 2007 (F) - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend who I love very much for 2 years. He was in an unhappy relationship for 20 years, and basically stayed until his children had grown up. When he left, although there was no love between him and his wife, it turned q...

I broke it off as the age difference was too much and we had nothing in common.. Now I'm lonely!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6204 days ago

25 April 2007 (M) - hey, i have jus been away for a few months and got back feeling a bit strange with everything and decided to split with my girl. she is devasted and i feel terrible. the reason is that i feel the age gap (7 years) is to big and we dont do anything ...

Should I stay with my present boyfriend or go back to the ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6199 days ago

25 April 2007 (F) - i split up with my boyfriend about 2 months ago however we promised to stay friends but my feelings are stronger then that. i few weeks ago he told me that he still cared about me and that he wanted to get back with him but then i didnt know what to ...

I can't figure my ex bf out! We split up and he texts me, telling me, he still cares! What up with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6203 days ago

25 April 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up 3 days ago and I wasn't expecting to hear from him at all. This morning I get an email from him saying good morning and how are you doing. I wasn't sure if I should respond back but I did anyway. I told him I was doing ...

My gf still gets upset about her baby's real father! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6203 days ago

25 April 2007 (M) - My girl frind Erica has a 2 year old daughter Ashlyn and I love them both Ashlyn calls me dady and I call her my daughter. Me and Erica are both 17 years old and we want to spend the rest of our lifes toghter. But she sometimes gets upset steal ...

Is it normal to still have feelings for your ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6203 days ago

25 April 2007 (F) - i have recently got with a boy and i dont know if i'm over my ex.. i scared i'm on the rebound and will just hurt my boyfriend if i stay with him is it normal to still have feelings for your ex? ...

How do I get her back and can she trust me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

25 April 2007 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for 7 years with a one year break up. We were getting ready to be engaged, and an ex called and says she comes over to our place when my girlfriend is not there. She broke up with me and says its over. I ...

Am I being immature to be upset that my new bf gets flirty e-mails from his gf?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

24 April 2007 (F) - I am dating a guy I work with, we aren't really too serious yet, just in the "new stages". He's great and our relationship has real potential. Because we work together I get to know and see a little bit more of his personal life. When I started ...

Thouight the new guy would help me get over the ex..but it's not working! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6205 days ago

24 April 2007 (F) - My ex and I broke up in October, but we're still really good friends and there's a lot of sexual tension. He's made it pretty clear he doesn't want to be in a relationship with me again, and after being sex buddies for a long time I finally decided ...

In a relationship with a child but why do I keep visiting my ex's MySpace profile?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6203 days ago

24 April 2007 (F) - hi all, this is going to seem stupid it does to me but i suppose i just need to get it off my chest. a bit of background info on me;i have been with my boyf for over 3 years w have been living together for 2 ad we have an 18 month old daughter...

She still seems really into her ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6205 days ago

24 April 2007 (M) - My girlfriend of 8 months and i have grown very close. However, she still has a admittedly "deep" tie with her first "true love". She still talks to him on the phone about twice a week (probably more if she didn't know i thought it was a little ...

We've got back together again after 6 years but I still find it hard to trust him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6206 days ago

23 April 2007 (F) - My partner of 7 years left me when our youngest child was 6 weeks old. He left me for someone else although he swears he never cheated before he left. They broke up 3 months later and I had met someone else and fell pregnant but lost the baby. He ...

I appreciate that all guys look at other women, but what if it is ALL the time and I never get any compliments!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6207 days ago

22 April 2007 (F) - I appreciate that all guys look at other women and I don't have a problem with that, but every guy I have known has constantly mentioned how hot other women are so much that I end up feeling really inadequate and invisible. My ex (who really really ...

Can't get over my feelings for my ex! Is this a sign we were meant to be together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

22 April 2007 (F) - ok..i went to movies with my ex....i realised i think i still have feelings for him even though i like someone else i always dream of him and think of him its like he is taking over i dont know what to do ...how do i get over him or is it a sign we ...

My ex bf turned really nasty with me when I told him I wanted him back! How do I fix this..I miss him so much!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6208 days ago

21 April 2007 (F) - I have been broken up with my ex for almost 6 months now and we havent been in much contact - it was quite a bad break up. We had been together for almost 2 years and it was very on and off - he is 29 and I am 26. I have made an effort to move on ...

She still sees her ex out of pity even though she knows I'm not happy about it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6199 days ago

19 April 2007 (M) - How would you go about dealing with a partner who still sees their ex out of pity? This is basically the reason my girl still has contact with her ex, even though i can't stand it and she knows that. She won't even tell him that she's moved on a...

He has been with someone else for 5 years but said his feelings for me won't ever go away - how do I get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6209 days ago

19 April 2007 (M) - Help! I want to be back with the love of my life, He's in a relationship but told me his feelings for me will never go away. Well I'm not the nicest of people and a few years back i got into some serious trouble. A friend, i'll call him 'IK', n...

We decided to meet to consider being friends but it did not go well. How do exes become freinds? Any suggestions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6210 days ago

18 April 2007 (F) - Thanks to all who take the time to respond to this. My ex and I agreed that we would try to meet for a friendly drink and be friends. I met with him and it did not go well. We made some small talk...he brought up things that I had said in the past ...

Should I talk to my ex about getting back together, or just move on and go for my guy friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6207 days ago

18 April 2007 (F) - ok. i am very confused. i like two guys, one is my best guy friend and the other is my ex-bf. all of my friends hate my ex and say i should move on to my guy friend, but i don't really want to. one of my friends think i make a really good couple ...

My ex bf wants to be friends but it hurts me to see him with other women! Should I or shouldn't I?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6205 days ago

18 April 2007 (F) - I split up with my ex 3 and half years ago after a terrible time and I ended up taking anti-depressants and feeling dreadful. He has had other relationships and I have been with someone for 3 years. We work together and he has recently wanted to be ...

What can I do about this girl I really like, who's ex bf is still hovering around in her life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6211 days ago

18 April 2007 (M) - I've had feelings for a girl for a while now and she just broke up with her boyfriend (who is also a friend of mine) last week. I told her how I feel and she says she feels the same way but wants a little space first, which I'm willing to give, but ...

Still in love and doing stuff with my ex of 5 years... but he doesn't seem to feel the same

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6211 days ago

18 April 2007 (M) - I was dating this guy five years ago. We both told each other that we loved one another, but then he ended it because he told me he didn't love me anymore. We decided to stay friends and everything was great. A year later we moved in to an apt. ...

My boyfriend still talks to his ex-girlfriend almost every day online. I don't like it..what should I say to him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4943 days ago

18 April 2007 (F) - My boyfriend still talks to his ex-girlfriend almost every day online, and while I know he doesn't have feelings for her anymore, it makes me uncomfortable. Should I say something to him about it?...

My ex bf is displaying a lot of signs of a sociopath/serial bully, Does he need help or is this just his personality?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4832 days ago

17 April 2007 (F) - I have known my ex off and on since childhood and I am becoming increasingly worried about him. He is displaying alot of the hallmarks of a sociopath/serial bully, and I wonder if he get help for this or if this is his personality. I really don't...

My ex bf is making trouble for me with this new guy! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6212 days ago

17 April 2007 (F) - I've struggled to get over my on/off bf for 6 months or so because we never really ended it, we get on so well we end up just hanging out and occasionally having sex. I find I somehow sabbatage his relationships because if we ever bump into ...

We broke up... She wants me as a friend, I want her as a lover. Should I just keep clear?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6212 days ago

17 April 2007 (M) - My gf of 6 years and I recently split up. We have 3 young kids together. I moved out around 6 weeks ago and we were meant to be on a trial "break" for 2 months. I dont want us to split up and basically chased her for a month telling her I loved ...

We broke up in Dec 05, we are in mediation, hes in another relationship but its dead, but he hasnt told her to move out, how can I get him to tell her its over ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6212 days ago

17 April 2007 (F) - This is difficult and knowing where to start even more so. Basically my ex and I split up December 2005 after 7 years together, we didn't split because we didn't love each other, it was because of a huge fight. We have a little boy and the last...

Not sure if Im love with him or just infatuated ? Either way I want to forget him, but how!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6203 days ago

17 April 2007 (F) - Dear sir, i have been dating a man and later on i find out that he is married and have one kid also.after that i didnt go to met him and didnt call him also, i thought i dont love him much and i can let him go easily but i found myself in love w...

Was walking away from this cheating, lying, disrespectful man the right thing to do!?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6176 days ago

17 April 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid, I've been dating this guy for about two years and I just broke up with him and I'm feeling a little depressed. In the begining of course, everything was good then he started becoming verbally abusive. He would call me out my name, and...

I am so confused! Do I love my boyfriend or do I still love my ex??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

16 April 2007 (F) - i was with my ex boyfriend for 10 months on and off. however at the end off last year we split for good and a few months later i got with someone else and i have recently been told that my ex has now got a new girlfriend i was pleased for him ...