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Archived questions from: July, 2008 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

Did I make a mistake by never making an effort with my ex girlfriend when I had the chance?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - I had a girlfriend who was really nice to me, gorgeous, independent, smart (college grad), never asked me for material things, cooked for me, took care of me when i was sick, there for me when i needed her, faithful-- and i never made time for her. ...

Is there something still between me and my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5722 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - I had a conversation with my ex boyfriends friend who i had never met before. He asked me if i still had feelings for him and i admitted that i did. A couple of other of his friends were around at the time, would i be niave to think this ...

I texted my ex happy birthday and he didn't even reply. Why would he just ignore me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - Hello, I hope someone can help me. I feel I have no-one I can talk to about this and its churning around in my head. My ex and I split up some months ago and since then we have had very little contact. today was the first birthday he has had since ...

Confused about my ex and feeling really blue, again! Please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - Hi, I have wrote on here before and got some really good advice, but im afraid i need help again over the same sort of problem. For background see http://www.dearcupid.org/question/confused-about-my-ex-and-feel-really-blue.html well its been ...

Should I give it one more shot with my ex or move on this other great guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

31 July 2008 (?) - my ex and i had been apart for 3 months and then here he comes (lets name him Will) and saying that he made a mistake and learned what he did wrong and asks me if i want to give it another go. and i still had feelings for Will. thing is our friend ...

How long should I wait before I make a move on this guy who broke up with his long term girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - How long should a girl wait before making a move on a guy who recently broke up with his girlfriend of 3 yrs because she cheated on him? He sms'd me once and seemed to show some interest in me by starting a conversation with me at a party but i kind ...

I want to re-kindle things with my ex, but she isn't interested. On top of this, another ex is wanting me back and I can't say no. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5748 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - what does this mean? ok me and my ex girlfriend (2 years ago) ended badly but we went through everything together like a misscarriage , holiday . and this year i got back in contact with her shes still fit as hell. i got with a girl wh...

I'm torn between my ex-husband and my boyfriend! What gives?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

31 July 2008 (F) - Hello everyone. My very soon to be ex husband left me and our two younger children at the time ages 2months and 2years. He left me for his ex girlfriend who was is very first. I was a stay at home mom that was a full time student. I was so hurt he ...

Have I lost her forever? She has no patience left for me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

31 July 2008 (M) - Ok so if you have read my other question you already know what has been going on somewhat, but for those who havent. My girl that i am madly in love with has decided she wants to know what its like to be single. To not have to worry about anyone but ...

My ex cheated on me and we broke up, but I still can't stop think about her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

30 July 2008 (M) - I recently finished with my girlfriend who was cheating on me with another boy. She denied it all and we are still apart because of this. I have met a couple of girls since we have finished but I feel nothing for them and all i can think about is my ...

My newly religious exhusband told our daughters that I and my new boyfriend are going to hell! How do I unring this bell?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - I was married to a man for about 6 years and we have two daughters together (one 8, one 6). We got divorced a couple of years ago (we weren't getting along, and the divorce was pretty messy). Now, I take care of the kids most of the time, but he has ...

Shall I respond to ex who doesn't want me back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

30 July 2008 (M) - My ex g\f finished relationship about 4 months ago. She doesn't want be back but still likes to contact me every few weeks to say hi and how are you. Two weeks ago she wrote but i haven't replied because being in touch hurts me. Shall I just n...

He left me to get back with his ex, he says he still loves me yet he isn't returning to me, I'm so confused!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - sorry it's so long im 16 years old an i need some advise. u see, i have just recently come out of a relationship with L, he is 20 we were datin for 3 months an i fell in love with him it all started about a month ago when he said we need a b...

My Ex wants me to call her, should I?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

30 July 2008 (M) - I stopped talking to my ex girlfriend/first love because of her drinking, drug abuse, and promiscuity was upsetting. I didn't speak to her four about a month then monday she Instant Messaged me and was all "I know we "Aren't talking, but I just ...

My girlfriend dumped my. Should I give up or try to get her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

30 July 2008 (M) - So i went out with this girl for 5 months. She was great and we thought we were in love. Then she broke up with me. I still have feelings for her and she doesnt even want to know about me anymore. I cant get her out of my mind. Shold i let her go or ...

My ex got another girl pregnant and we are still sleeping together! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend broke up on thanksgiving of last year. But we remained friends he told me he doesn't want to be in a relationship with anyone but im still in love with him and I know he loves me. But lately he's been giving me mixed signals I ...

Am I wrong for giving him an ultimatum to not be in his child's life?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

30 July 2008 (F) - Am I wrong for asking him to not be in the child's life cause honestly I dont think I can handle it if he is, because that means he will have to be in this OW's life as well for the child's sake. He has no business with them. I dont think I'm wrong ...

In a relationship, but not over my ex. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

29 July 2008 (M) - I apologize if this is too long... I dated a girl, we'll call her Jane, in high school. She was the sweetest person and it was a pretty great relationship. However, due to her dad's work, she had to move away my sophomore year. We kept in touc...

She reacted so adversely when I asked for more intimacy that I felt like a pervert! Help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

29 July 2008 (M) - hi everyone, ive posted a few things on here and you all be very helpfull... me and my girlfriend are very intimate at the moment and i came out with totaly the wrong thing the other day when i was intimate with her i asked her if she wanted t...

My ex had the opportunity to break up from his GF as promised, but he did not do so! Can I trust that he will?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - hiya well i told my ex i still loved him and he told me he did too. but he hasn't dumped his gf yet. but he says he will.then his mate told his gf that she was dumped she asked him and said that it wasn't true. that was his perfect oppurtun...

My heart is saying take him back, my head is saying I am a loser for thinking of it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5749 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - myself and both this guy i like both broke up with out partners for each other our 6 month relationship was one struggle after the next. I gave him 3 chances in that 6 months we broke up about 3 weeks ago and now he wants me back. while we were ...

How does she keep getting more support?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5749 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - Does anyone know the child support laws in TX. I have been with my BF for four years and his ex (baby mama) is trying to get back at him for being with me, so she keeps trying to up his child support payments. He already pays for two children and ...

I have trust issues. I've fallen for a friend, he's bi. I don't want to ruin everything.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5749 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - How do you know if you are completely over your ex boyfriend? My ex boyfriend dumped me, then a day later him and my best friend (of 19 years) were going out together. It broke my heart as I lost two people at once :( It was an awful time for ...

I fought with his ex. Will I ever hear from him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - This is a guy who chased me for a year only for me to find out he was still sleeping with someone who was suppose to be his ex. then he supposedly told her it was over but would still stay down her house on the weekend end it drove me crazy. so i ...

My wife is talking to an old lover, should I feel jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5750 days ago

29 July 2008 (M) - My wife said she loves me but is not IN love with me. She said I didn't pay attention to her just after I found out I have MS. Now shes talking to an old lover, but said they are "Just Friends". how should I feel? I had a bad time for about a year ...

He was VERY experimental with his last girlfriend... what can I do to really wow him in bed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5750 days ago

29 July 2008 (F) - I'd really appreciate some sex tips from anyone that can give them. I've recently started dating a guy who I like A LOT. He's attractive, really sweet, and treats me great. I'd really like to see this relationship last a long time. But I'm a...

Will I always think about me ex, even though we've broken up and she's moved on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5750 days ago

28 July 2008 (M) - Just stopped talking to my first love about a month ago. Her drug abuse among other problems made it difficult for me to speak to her at all. Today I just found out that she's dating this dude who does cocaine...in my humble opinion that's not ...

His ex contacted him and now he's confused about us. Is he stringing me along?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5750 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - ok, me and my guy have been seeing eachother for 5 weeks, on the second date he asked me to be official with him but I told him we needed to get to know eachother better because it was so soon now last week I asked where this him and me thing was ...

I love him so much, but it makes me scared, I don't want to get hurt.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - hi just wanted to ask a question mostly to females. how do you cope with a relationship thats long distance and you have fallen head over heels and the first thing you think of is i dont want to get hurt because it seems so wonderful and i ...

I want to leave my husband in order to be with an ex of 28 years ago - how do I rid of my hubby gently?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - I have been talking to my ex-boyfriend of 28 years ago. Out of the blue he called me when he wsa in the Bay Area and we found out that we both still have feelings for each other but I am married and want to leave my husband. I have from time to ...

Still in love with my ex, how should I be interpreting these signs from him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - I have written on here previously titled:- My ex boyfriend says he has another women, but it sounds like a fantasy. I don't know what to believe. I dont know what to do anymore with my situation. I am still in love with my ex sooo much that ...

He compares me to his long-term ex. Why has he acted this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - I met my boyfriend in the aim chatrooms May'07.He stays in Northern Cali and I stay in Southern Cali.We flirted but never intended or thought it would be more.Then it became more than ims but phone calls and then we decided to be more.When we ...

Guys-Would you be texting your ex if you didnt still care about them??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - Please help, Im still ridiculously in love with my ex bf even though we broke up a year ago. I feel like im wasting my life hoping we'll get back together but then again we are still in constant contact and he is always asking me to meet up? Do y...

Should I risk being seen as the "Bitch of an Ex" and just tell him no, It's over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5750 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together just over a year now but I feel the relationship just isn't working for me anymore; we seem to interact less like a couple and more like friends now, which I'll admit is my doing. I find it difficult to kis...

Was he still in love with his ex while he was dating me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5751 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - Dear Agony Aunts, I dated a boy for about six months, but I decided to end things shortly after he graduated college. He was focusing on his career, working seven days a week and I would get to see him only about once a month. We ended things ami...

My ex and I still like one another, but there are other people in the picture now.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5750 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - me and my ex fella have being good mates since we broke up ! we still love eachother and its so har seeing eachother with different people .. he wants to get back with me and i want to get back with him but him an a girl i no have being getting very ...

Are these signs my ex wants to get back together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5708 days ago

28 July 2008 (F) - Hello everyone. Its me again. Ok, here is a question that probably many girls ask....are these signs my ex could still possibly want me back?. Well me and my bf broke up about 5 months ago. We were together for almost 2 years. We loved each oth...

We broke up but are still keeping in touch. What do you think we're feeling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5750 days ago

27 July 2008 (F) - Help seriously me and my ex broke up 8months ago and he still calls me about every 3weeks then after 2 weeks he stops, then starts again after -4weeks this started straight away. i cudn't take it at first i was so cofused but now i jus kind of fe...

We've been having a lot of issues so I broke up due to her strangeness; now I want her back and to show that I love her...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5750 days ago

27 July 2008 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend for almost 3 years now and recently we've been having a lot of issues. She says the root of the problem is that I don't treat her as an equal in the relationship. She has a lot of trouble communicating wi...

Can I win him in this seemingly impossible situation - or should I cut loose before I get really hurt??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5751 days ago

27 July 2008 (F) - This is nothing new, and I've been over it a million times in my mind, but wouldso great to hear others opinions. I met a wonderful man a few months ago.....who is single.....tho still has issues with a lady who will not, or cannot be with h...

Get ex back? Or let him have my other ex's girlfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5751 days ago

27 July 2008 (F) - Me and my ex had a great relationship for over three months! We broke up because he said he needed a break... I was heartbroken! I talked him into getting back together the next day! A few days later he still wasnt happy with me and broke up with me ...

On again off again relationship, any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5752 days ago

27 July 2008 (F) - i was with someone for over 3 years and he was my first serious boyfriend, the first guy i loved, first guy i was with. And he was about 10 years older too. I know he loved me. But i think i was young with some things didn't know how to be in a r...

My husband left me over two months ago. I want him back.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

26 July 2008 (F) - Ok, my husband of 12 years left me over two months ago. Eventhough, he had a very good reason for leaving I was am still in complete shock. When he left we were growing apart more and more everyday, I had been sleeping on the couch for a couple ...

Disappointed in myself because it took me months to get over it and then when I've finally gotten over it I go back to him!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

26 July 2008 (F) - ive recently started to date my ex again. i first went out with him 4 years ago for 6 months. i fell in love with him but he hurt me bad by finishing wiv me for someone else. He started going out with this girl and they moved in together. It took me ...

Is he lying when he tells me I'm the one for him but wants to go on break?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

26 July 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend finally broke up. We bin together for 2 years. And we bin on a brake for 6 months. It did hurt me and I cried about it wen he broke up with me but now im ok with it. I feel a relief. He put me in soo much. I gave it my all in ...

I had an abortion and I still think about the guy who got me pregnant. Will I ever stop wondering?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5753 days ago

25 July 2008 (F) - I had an abortion almost a year and a half ago. Other then a few text messages I havnt spoken with the 'father' since. We never realy knew each other very well and although he promised he'd always be there whatever my decision - obviously he hasnt ...

My family is worried about me seeing my ex, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5753 days ago

25 July 2008 (F) - My ex-boyfriend and I have been talking to one another for the last 6 months and we were planning this week to see each other but I had to lie to my parents about where I was going. They found out and my mom says that I am 21 to make my on decision ...

She loves another guy now, but she keeps complimenting me. I don't understand her behaviour.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5753 days ago

25 July 2008 (M) - This is the second time I turn to this website for advice. The short story is that I had a girlfriend for 10 years. She cheated on me, I forgave her but she dumped me. The long story is detailed here: http://www.dearc...

I cyber-stalk my boyfriend's ex to make sure they aren't talking to each other. How can I not worry so much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

25 July 2008 (F) - Alright, I tend to get a bit obsessive when it comes to my boyfriends Ex-girlfriend. We have been together for almost 2 years and I know I shouldnt worry. But I get so paranoid when it comes to her and ONLY her. Like I have to go to her profile and ...

The girl I like was forced to perform oral sex with a guy... Should I risk trying to date her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

24 July 2008 (M) - Guys suppose you see this nice college girl you liked, but you heard she was force by a guy she was dating to performed oral sex once,but she ended the dating after that with him. Would you still try to date her or You may fear that the same guy...