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Archived questions from: November, 2007 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

Slept with the ex and now I don't know what to do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5925 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - So I slept with my ex last night. We dated for a year and had a horrible breakup, and wound up not talking for a whole year up until last night really. We ran into each other at a local pizza pub and then decided to meet up later at a bar. ...

Is he showing that we could still be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5983 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - I split wiv my ex 2 months ago, we recently made friends and I still really like him. The thing is, he seems to be sending me mixed signals and its really getting me down. Every time I see him we stop and talk and he asks me what Im doing at the ...

Do I have reasonable grounds to be feeling insecure and jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5979 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for a little over a year we live together. I just don't trust him and just feel that he's not in love with me anymore. The lack of trust started when we first started dating. I saw on his myspace he was messaging back and ...

I think my ex-girlfriend has something called "Hypomania". Is there anyway I can address this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - I just recently broke up with my girlfriend who I love a whole bunch because she didn't call me for a week and didn't come to see me on thanksgiving. However, as I'm sitting here I'm thinking back over the course of our relationship and I'm ...

So much advice from sites like this is confusing me. What is the alternative?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - In the past 3 or 4 weeks since my ex and I broke up, I have become addicted to sites like this offering me advice as to what I need to do to get back with my girlfriend. The advice I have read has been very useful but I also know that my particular ...

I really feel his ex is trying to come between us, with actions she has undertaken, manipulation, gossip. Do you think I am overreacting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5979 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - I just wanted people's views on the suituation I am in. I have been with my boyfriend 9 months. He was with a girl for 4 years before me, they had been split up for about 5 months prior to us getting together. In that time, my boyfriend said...

Facing Christmas with a broken heart. How can I stop the depression?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - Hi everyone Thanks for helping me, I'm now doing my best to try to get over the heartbreak of the last couple of weeks. The only thing I'm worried about is the festive season coming up. I get a fortnights break during Christmas and am worried a...

Together 12 years, 5 kids, and split up in October. I want him back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5983 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - Hello I was with my man for about 12 years we have five children which we recently had twin daughters about 5 months ago, we broke up last October, and he just recently got in another relationship. But he still calls me, we still sleep together, and ...

We broke up, now he's dissing me, but I still love him, should I just give up or can we be friends?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - My ex boyfriend and I broke up about a month ago. There was no betrayal involved and it was mutual, but he has been nothing but rude to me ever since. He says he wants me to be happy, but he makes fun of me with his friends and gives me mean and ...

What do you think of wishing my ex a happy birthday by text?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

29 November 2007 (M) - hey, It is my ex-girlfriend's birthday next week, and was just wondering if it would be a good idea to send a text wishing her well. We're not talking, we didn't really fall out as such but then we didn't really end on good terms, so not sure i...

Is it ok to date an ex's best friend??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5984 days ago

28 November 2007 (M) - Well i am going to ask this girl out soon and we flirt alot and it just so happens that her best friend is my ex. I was wondering if it was looked down upon. Me and my ex are still really good friends. Any help would be great... ...

I thought this guy was different...but the ex txts and he goes running and he lives with another ex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5985 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - So i have been dating this guy for one month but problem one: he has his ex girlfriend still living with him. problem two: he used to date a lass thats still after him and keeps texting him and wont leave him alone the other day he was with me ...

His ex is pregant with his child, he says he just wants to be in the babies life but what if he feels different when its born??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5985 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - I fancied this lad from work for eight months but was too scared to ask him out but recently we have been texting and arranged to meet up and he told me he really liked me and has done for ages but was too scared to ask me out. Anyway we had sex ...

Two guys want me and I can't choose, help me!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5985 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - I was goin out with my boyfriend for 5 years, I broke up wih him about 2months ago to go out with a guy who I have known for a gud few years who i have always been very good friends with and dated for a few months in school. my ex keeps ringing and ...

The last thing I want to do is leave her but I'm tierd of this drama.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5984 days ago

28 November 2007 (M) - Hey, I'm 22 and i really like this girl. We have been seeing each other for about a month and half. I made the mistake of asking her to be my girlfriend after only 3 weeks when her heart is still broke over a lad. She's so the person i been lo...

I'm not a material girl but this older guys meaness with money bores me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5985 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - I am 40 and in the middle of settleing my divorce. We've been married for 20 years. I met this man 16 years older than me. I love the affection he gives to me. He's loaded but very mean with money. He wont go out for a meal or spend a bit more...

I feel totally betrayed by her moving on so quickly.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5985 days ago

28 November 2007 (M) - Hi everyone, I know I've been droning on about this, but I'm trying to make sense of it in my head and up until now I'm totally unsuccessful. My ex told me she loved me, but due to a bit of stupid drunken self pity, text her 2 days later asking h...

Am I being silly or do I have a reason to be irritated?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5940 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - Given all the questions about photos of ex's on this site I thought I would throw my own worry into the mix. My boyfriend has pictures on his computer of his ex posing very provocatively in her underwear, touching herself, naked, bent over,etc...

Dazed and Confused... wrapped in a web

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5984 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - I have a boyfriend who I have been with for the past four years. We have a daughter who's two. We were having problems and I drew close to my ex boyfriend who has been my ex for the past seven years. He has a girlfriend but we both drew away from ...

I was too clingy for my ex, and now HE keeps trying to talk to me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5986 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - I broke up with my long-term boyfriend recently due to his starting at university; neither of us wanted to split, and he said (although it's unlikely) that once everything's out of the way, he might like to try a relationship again in the future. We ...

I found photos of her naked ex in our room!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5979 days ago

27 November 2007 (M) - I (we've) got a little problem (or not). My wife is always very honest with me. She has never slept with anyone but me, but I know the first names of a few guys she dated and fooled around with some prior to me. Anyway, we bought our house a little ...

Thought we were saving our marriage (after his having had an affair), until he became depressed and I found out he bought her a present. Uninterestedly? How can I believe he still loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5986 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - a few months ago my husband came home devastated because an affair that started late last year was ended in the spring of this year by the other women. he said that he was still in love with me, but had fallen in love with her, i admit our ...

I know he has moved on, so why can't I?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5986 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - Well all these feelings started last night when I went to a concert, and saw at least 20 people who resembled my ex boyfriend, once of which, my friend was getting close with. It sort of hit home that I'm not over him yet, and I really miss how it w...

Do I need therapy to get over my second love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5982 days ago

27 November 2007 (M) - Well what can I say? I've been frequenting this site every day since I discovered it after I split up with my ex. We split up 3 weeks ago but have only had no contact for a week. I'm quite chuffed I've managed to stop myself from getting in touch...

Confused and need help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5987 days ago

26 November 2007 (F) - I'm confused and don't know what to do, my ex and I have a little boy together, when he was born we got on well but as the year has passed we have got worse and been arguing a lot, we end up saying horrible things to each other and I feel he does ...

Should a newlywed man still keep pictures of his ex's on his computer?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5920 days ago

26 November 2007 (F) - I am newly married and my husband keeps pictures of him with previous girlfriends on his computer. Do you think he should get rid of them? We are married now so I don't see why he needs them anymore....

She's dating other guys a week after telling me she loved me! Advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5987 days ago

26 November 2007 (M) - Hi Wonder if you can help My ex fiance asked me to get back with her on a date to date basis at the beginning of November. We met up and ended up spending the night together. We agreed to meet each other the folowing week. However, I was d...

She dumped me last week but she keeps flirting with me! I'm being torn apart!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5987 days ago

26 November 2007 (M) - i dont understand why a girl i know is flirting with me, i thought she didnt like me. she dumped me last week!... please help me im being torn apart...

Me and my ex are still in love, but she has a boyfriend and "doesn't know" about getting back with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

26 November 2007 (M) - Hey, I've split up with my gf after being with her for 3 months...I felt the relationship was not going anywhere and we now remain friends, my ex I was with nearly 2 years, me and her have been chatting and ive been going round there and talk...

Torn between my ex and a new guy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

26 November 2007 (F) - I have recently split with my partner and there is this other guy i like i have been seeing him for about a month now but i still have strong feelings for my ex and i dont know what to do? My ex wants to give it another go and i dont want to hurt ...

I realise I was wrong and I just want her back...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

26 November 2007 (M) - It's been three weeks since my ex and I broke up. In the time apart, I've learnt to appreciate my freedom and I've realised how wrong I was to put so much pressure on her. I should've understood her wanting to settle into uni. I made things work for ...

He's split with his wife, but still talks to her everyday because of he kids, how can I tell if he is ready to move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

26 November 2007 (F) - I have been with a fella for 3 months. His wife of 17 years left saying she was unhappy. He is in contact with her every day because their children are teenagers who they share. He talks to her like they are very good friends yet he has only been ...

I want my ex back. Do I show her I want her, or play hard to get?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5985 days ago

26 November 2007 (M) - Last weekend I split up with my girlfriend of 15 months; she said that although I am "perfect in every way", there is simply "something missing" and that as long as she feels that way she will not be entirely happy in the relationship. This came as ...

We got back together, but now he's very edgy. What's wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5985 days ago

26 November 2007 (F) - Ok heres the thing me and my ex just got back together and when i called him he was edgy on the phone and then he had some of his freinds prank call me and he keeps hanging up the phone on me it is geting anoying and we go to diffrent schools but we ...

He blames me for everything! What is he hiding?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5980 days ago

26 November 2007 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend of one year in May. He says we broke up because it was my fault, I was being unfaithful, and I had let him down so many times. He keeps saying that he just wants to be friends but each time we talk, all we do is we start ...

I dumped my girlfriend and feel really guilty. Why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5749 days ago

25 November 2007 (M) - i left my g/f of 3 yrs because she would not give more in the relationship, she said just having her was enough. the more i gave the less she gave. she had the addatude that guys do and will do what she says. she was rude, controlling, abuvise,a ...

Did my ex fiancee propose, just so I would feel better about having sex before marriage? What do you think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

25 November 2007 (F) - I know I kind of asked this question a little while ago. But, it keeps resurfacing in my mind. I broke up with my fiance a month or so ago, but I want to know if he proposed just so I would feel better about having sex before marriage? We had sex ...

The ex is pursuing me but claims he doesn't want us to get back together. However, he still wants to have sex with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

25 November 2007 (F) - I just need a bit of advice about my ex boyfriend. My ex boyfriend and i have been broken up since june 07 after 6 years together and a 3 yr old child together . since then we both have had relationships with other people, and my feelings have cha...

I want to mess with both of these players...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

25 November 2007 (F) - Ok so things are really messed up right now and these two guys(ones an ex and the other is kind of a friends with benefits but not exactly) are trying to see which one i will fall for..the sad thing is my ex has a gf and the other guy is such a ...

How can I tell him I am pleased for him without him thinking I am jealous and that I want him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

25 November 2007 (F) - Me and a boyfriend split up a year ago. I ended it because he was a bit possessive and he wanted me to quit my job. Anyway we tried to remain friends but that didn't work out. He went on a few dates and kept telling me about them. I didn't mind be...

The connection isn't there the way it was with my ex. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

25 November 2007 (F) - I have been with a guy for 2 years and a lot of the time he can treat me quite badly and can be very selfish but the connection we have is unbeleivable. We click and understand each other so well but after the two years together the way he would ...

What can I do, I really want her back...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

25 November 2007 (M) - Hello, I dated a girl for a year and eight months, I really loved her, though we are in the same university. She complains that I don't want her to meet my family and that I regard her as a school girlfriend. We broke up this year (Febuary) and I ...

How did she get over me so quickly??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

25 November 2007 (M) - My ex and I broke up three weeks ago. She started university in Sept and became more and more distant. I got insecure which pushed her away. She said when we split that she didn't want to lose me completely and that she still loved me. We still ...

We have been intimate but he claims that we are still just friends as he enjoys hanging out but does not want to commit - which may change. Maybe his ex wife caused him to put up this great wall?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

25 November 2007 (F) - I am really confused and not sure what to do. I have been seeing this guy for a little over a month. When we first met, he said to take it slow, that he did not want to jump into anything. However, the first 2 weeks or so, we saw each other every ...

Should I just leave her be??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5988 days ago

24 November 2007 (M) - Hi, I was currently going out with this girl who i met on holiday. This was about 4 month ago, we got on like two peas in a pod from day one. After the holiday was over we met up and soon after started going out with each other. After a few months o...

Is she trying to get back at me or her ex??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

24 November 2007 (M) - What is the deal with this chick? Alright so back in August I had a thing with a girl, then she suddenly stopped talking to me, wouldn't answer if I called or msg'd her, so I gave up. She had a boyfriend for a couple months, well today he dumped ...

My ex has just died and I don't know if I should go to the funeral, as it might upset his family

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

24 November 2007 (M) - My Ex boyfriend has died, I loved him very much but he never gave anything back. should I go to the funeral? his parents have only just found out he was gay, his did not take it very well. do you thunk me going to his funeral will cause more upset....

What is the general opinion on restarting things with an ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5987 days ago

24 November 2007 (?) - okay so me and my ex have just started talking again after three months. and we hung out the other night and we held hands and kissed and stuff...but i'm begining to wonder if going back out with an ex would be a bad thing. so if any of you have any ...

My boyfriend hardly shows me any affection or romantic gestures but he's sentimental about his exes

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5989 days ago

24 November 2007 (F) - Hi..I've been with my boyfriend now for about 5 months. We met at uni a few years ago and have been friends and lived together, so we knew each other well before we got together. This also means I've met his exes and he's met mine. However, at the m...

Is my ex putting me off to be kind, or is he keeping me on the back burner?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5989 days ago

24 November 2007 (F) - Thank you to everybody who helps. I am trying to stay on good terms with my ex. When I asked him for coffee he says it is not a good idea as he is afraid we will go back to where we were before but ever since we broke up he has always said we will ...