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Archived questions from: December, 2016 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

Am I over-reacting to the news that my Gf of 8 months failed to tell me (until very recently) that her friend was also her ex ?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2648 days ago

31 December 2016 (M) - My gf of 8 months and i have been hitting it off great, discussing issues that come up. She recently informed me that she had dated one of her friends-- who we've both hung out with at parties on a lot of special events, ie birthdays etc. I was ...

Does he possibly still like me? Is it normal behaviour to spend Xmas with your ex and not with a child he fathered?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2669 days ago

30 December 2016 (F) - Me and my ex split in November 2013 due to him leaving for a new job then couple months later me finding out he met someone he knew and having a kid with her. Which I've asked many times but he will always denie anything. Anyway Feb this yr he r...

Do you think my ex is deliberately calling me on purpose? Is he seeking my attention? Or is it likely that the calls were an accident?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2669 days ago

30 December 2016 (F) - We were together for 7 years, and broke off 4 months ago. He missed call me today (on social media) at 8am. And I texted "u called?" He said it was accidental. So I didn't reply. Then he missed call again at 130pm. I texted this ":/" Then h...

Did he ever love me at all? Is he a narcissist?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2677 days ago

27 December 2016 (F) - I am here to vent/advice/ any input at all.. I am starting to think and believe my ex boyfriend was a narcissist. and wondering if he ever loved me at all. he and I were together for a couple years "in love" and would introduce me to friends and f...

Should I just move on? I don't want to be in the way of them remaking a family.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2680 days ago

23 December 2016 (F) - I'm wondering if I'm being over sensitive to my boyfriend's need to "play family" with his ex and his children. Every week it seems, on his week's with the kids, she's over for some reason or another. He kept the house, she cheated on him a...

Is my fiance's contact with his ex's normal? He has been married 3 times.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2680 days ago

23 December 2016 (F) - I'm a divorced woman who was married for 27 years. I got married at 17, so I've had little relationship experience. I've been divorced for just under 2 years now. I have a boyfriend who I just said yes to marrying. What bothers me about my fian...

Why would my guy friend think I should continue to listen to him talking about his past relationships with other women? What should I say to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2683 days ago

21 December 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid,my guy friend and I have been friends for a while and we wanted to take it to a next level but today we had a little spat it's crazy to me but it's whatever. Long story short he has a thing for high yellow complexed women and that's f...

Do I make contact with his other child's mother?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2683 days ago

18 December 2016 (F) - Hi there I getting in contact because I don't knowwho else to ask.I am with a guy for less then a year we have a child a little boy whose a month old well anyway he got a daughter who is 5 yes old who he doesn't see because he said the mother Wouldn...

I'm comparing myself to his beautiful ex and feel like I don't measure up!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2687 days ago

16 December 2016 (F) - I have been married to a wonderful man for the last 4 years and I have yet to find any flaws in his looks or personality. In being up front, this is a question based out of my own insecurities and not from something he has done or said. He w...

I need help with my retroactive jealousy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2690 days ago

13 December 2016 (M) - Hi, sorry for my bad english in advance. I’m with my girlfriend since 6 month, we know each other since we are in middle school. After that she go in another school and in an other high school in the same town. We are now both 20 years old, ...

The guy I like seems to be a really horrible person, what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2688 days ago

13 December 2016 (F) - My friends are really close to this one guy. It has been over a few months since he started hanging around with us and he's been just fine with me. At first I started liking him and finding him attractive, so I confessed and heard no reply from him ...

I found out he's communicating with his ex. What now?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2690 days ago

13 December 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 months and I couldn't be happier. We are so compatible and i feel like i've known him for years. He treats me very well and is the gentleman of my dreams. However, i would like opinion on a dilemma i have...

What should I say? How can I find out where I stand, without sounding annoying to him ??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2692 days ago

12 December 2016 (F) - Hi!! Back in October a 5 month relationship ended because we decided to give each other a little space. On one weekend I went to an ex's house because he was having a get together with a few friends. Sketchy as it sounds nothing at all happened...

My ex is trying to date my friend and I don't know how I feel about it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2689 days ago

10 December 2016 (F) - Very long story... This guy and I were together for a year and a half and had been friends before that. We ended things last April but are still in the same friendship group so we see eachother most weekends. Since last April we've been up an...

Is he a once in a lifetime find??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2690 days ago

9 December 2016 (F) - Okay so I need some opinions. I was in an extremely verbally and emotionally abusive relationship ( he was the abuser) with my ex husband of almost 7 years. I finally realized what was happening and that he could not change so in July we made the...

How can I stop being addicted to love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2697 days ago

6 December 2016 (F) - How can one make love not so important? It seems that I'm always thinking about love (I'm single) and thirty 32 but ever since I can remember it's always been 90 percent of my life- I've lost jobs for men - I've gotten into arguments with my family ...

I'm looking for red flags where there are none!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2695 days ago

4 December 2016 (F) - Please bear with me- I know I sound quite petulant in some of my actions, but I'm trying to own up to it and fix what I've been doing. I've never really had a successful relationship. I end up dating a guy and by 3 months it's always over. The...