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writes: Ok, I have broken up with my BF over silly arguments two times this week. They have been more than breakups just stupid fights... but I'm a drama queen so I blow everything out of proportion (this is embarrasing to admit =/). So both times I broke up with him and made a huge deal.Last night was one of them. I had gone out with him and returned crying. He told me he was fed up with me being so immature so I thought this is it, it's over for good. So I was crying nonstop, and my mom was trying to console me. Of course she was on my side, and now she dislikes my BF because she thinks he's mean.However, later he called me and asked me to try and make it work. We're supposed to be meeting today, he doesn't know I made such a big deal in my house and that my parents know about our supposed break up. My mom told me to let it go and not to get back together with him, because we had broken up a few days ago.What do I do? How can I get back together with him without my parents getting mad at me?
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reader, Lucy2118  +, writes (26 February 2008):
 Your parent's are just looking out for your and your best interests. Of course they'll be on your side, your their daughter. Even if you did get back with your ex they should be happy that your happy. Parents need to learn not to get to involved with their loved one's relationships.
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (26 February 2008):
 is your mom dating him? no....so why is it up to her whether or not you get back with him? if you do get back with him though, you have got to try and be a little more mature with him, and not blow everything into a huge fight. ppl make mistakes, and if you both keep breaking up over them, then someday that will be it. you both need to start afresh and be more respectful of eachother. try to understand eachtother a little more and when you do feel an argument coming on, dont scream and cry about it, talk about it with him like adults. and dont go running to your mom every time you argue, you are only roping her into a relationship she is not part of.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2008): Dont go running home to mom! You are over 16 so try and stand on your own two feet. You do sound a bit immature if you are running off and crying all the time, i am not surprised if he has got fed up with that. I certainly would. Get to grips with the situation and think things through more rationally before you run off, try and act a bit more adult. If you continue to argue then i dont think you two are suited, so finish and move on. As for your mom, wait a while and tell her that you are giving it another go, if another arguement comes along and it is a big one then you will finish. But stop running home to mom.
take care
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