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Archived questions from: August, 2007 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

What should I do? How do I think, she won't even talk to me, I know that she needs space but I'm getting killed here...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

31 August 2007 (M) - My name is Greg and I'm 21 next month, Well a little over a year ago I broke up with my first serious relationship, she totally smashed me in every way but I played the good guy card and ended up hurting myself in the end and I broke it off. A...

We split 10 weeks ago now and we managed to stay friends but suddenly she has backed off. Why would she be avoiding me now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

31 August 2007 (M) - My ex broke up with me about 10.5 weeks ago now. I've been going out on dates, getting attention from other chicks, and feeling better as of late. It's been 3 weeks since I last talked to her, which is the longest stretch since we've met. I dec...

He left me and our 3 children twice, for someone else, but now says he wants us back. AGAIN. What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 108 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - Hi I had three children with my partner of 9 years. He left me during my second pregnancy but I gave him a second chance and we got back together. He then left me when I was 7 months pregnant with our 3rd child after having an affair with a (r...

We had a baby and I suffered from post natal depression. We split. He straight away got with someone new and now he keeps rubbing my nose it. Why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 329 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - I was in a relationship just over a year, we got on really well, it was a shock when we split, even though i had postnatel depression, we did argue alot, but that was after the baby came. Anyway I fell pregneat within 2-3months off meeting him, we ...

Im still not getting over her. This has been the worst summer ever. She hasn't even said thank you for the birthday card I sent her!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 316 days ago

31 August 2007 (M) - Hi everyone. It's got to the point where I feel stupid to keep troubling you with my problems, whenever they are so small. Nevertheless, they continue to trouble me. I don't know if it's all part of being dumped by your first love or whatever, ...

He left me for his ex, but now he's back. I'm afraid of getting hurt again, so what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - hello. please i need help. i dated this guy 4 about 6 months when he disided to go back to his x girl friend. well its was very painfull 4 me but i could understand him as i know how it is when u r in love. but the thing is that i m not yet over him ...

How do I handle my relationship with my ex? We're both happily married.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - Hi Am a married woman of eight years,a mother of to 2 kids. Two weeks ago, i met my ex -boyfriend for the first after departing for studies in australia, we gave each other our contacts. A week ago, he invited me for lunch of which i didn't t...

Was getting back with my ex, Now I'm panicking cuz he's not txt and his phone's off???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - was going out with my bf for a year. we broke up and i never made a secret of how i wanted to get back together. last weekend he said he felt the same and would like to get together soon, my prob is im a worrier really badly and haven't heard from...

Does anyone know what's her problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 328 days ago

31 August 2007 (M) - I am friends with my ex. Now this is the important ex. We have been just friends for a long time now. But I've been told by people in the past to just leave her and not see her again. The thing is I am in a way the best friend she has, she has a ...

If he loves me how do I get him back, since he's too stubborn to take me back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 330 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - Okay If he loves me then how do I get him back since he's too stubborn to take me back...?...

If an ex said he is moving on and doesn't want to go back should you just take it as that or go by your instincts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - Ladies, if an ex said he is moving on and doesn't want to go back should you just take it as that or go by your instincts? My ex and I are still friends, we have a love hate relationship, even though he said this to me, my 6th sense tells me ...

We got on great, then she went back to her ex. Would our age difference of been a problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 319 days ago

30 August 2007 (M) - I'm 34, single male, no kids. Through my workplace, I met a wonderful, caring, attractive, 21 year old woman. She'd been dating her boyfriend for two years, but recently stopped their relationship after she discovered he had cheated on her. Her ...

My ex is getting married next week and I'm still in love with him.....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 322 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - I'm still in love with my ex and he is getting married next week.. it still hurts inside.. what should I do? I really need advice asap!!pls.....

My boyfriend is breaking up with me cause he says I dont trust him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 330 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - hi,my partner said he is leaving me!!!!!!! he recently found out that he has an 18 year old daughter from a woman he went out with at school, then had a 1 night stand with her a few years later, i accepted he had a daughter, we havent got kids ...

I have to look stunning the next time i see my ex. Any tips?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 330 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - I have to look absolutly amazing the next time i see my ex. so does any one have any tips how to look absolutly flauless. much appreciation, Xxx ...

He got back with his ex but he calls and texts me every day. What is he playing at?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 330 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - I had been seeing this lad for 2 months in which time he admitted he had strong feelings for me and phoned and texted me everyday. A month ago he told me that his ex had been back in touch and that she wanted to give their relationship another go, ...

Just because it wasn't physical, doesn't mean it wasn't bad! Now he acts Mr Nice, how to deal with the feelings of wanting to get back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 331 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - I broke up with my bf 3 weeks ago. My reasons for breaking up with him was because he was emotionaly abusive and seemed to have a narcissistic personality. At first I didnt want to break up with him because despite how badly he treated me, he could ...

I've had enough! My 2 children are confused, our bank is drained, and my brain is strained...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 330 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - My husband and I have been married for 6 years. We have 2 young children together, and he has a 12 year old from a previous relationship. The "Baby's Momma Drama" is an ongoing thing, IN and OUT of court for numerous FALSE allegations, a SEVERE ...

His family say i look like his ex wife from 13 yrs ago, he says he took 5 years to get over her and I dont want to be someone elses shadow!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 331 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - Well I had a bf (he's 35, I'm 26) that I had been dating for about five months. We got along great and were very much inlove. When we were getting to know each other we had talked a little about our exes. He had told me that he had been married and ...

We had sex. I'm his agony aunt when he has problems with his girl. But i have feelings for him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 331 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - I'll try to keep this short, a few yrs ago, i became friends with this guy when he was going though relationship problem (his gf messed around with his brother) we became very close, and we had sex a few times,, Then he softly let me down by letting ...

Is my ex trying to make me jealous by calling my mate????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 330 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - Well...most of you know my story from past posts...the guy i love and i go to different colleges and after a great summer where we saw each other almost every day we are now both back at school and not seeing each other exclusively. Everyone on ...

I fancy my mates guy. She doesn't want him anymore so should i go there?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 331 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - Theres this boy I fancy.But hes going out with my mate. Though she recently told me, she wants to dump him.If she dumps him should I make a move? HHEELLPP!!...

I want to be casual with my ex but she's made it clear that would hurt her. How can I deal with this???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

29 August 2007 (M) - hey, ive recently become mates which my ex girlfriend, after a year and half relationship there were plenty of arguments after, but it is all good now. The problem i'm having is I feel like I'm having sexual attractions over her which in one half I ...

Every time I see something that reminds me of my ex girlfriend I break down into tears. Please help...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 329 days ago

29 August 2007 (M) - My gf has just broken up with me and i'm not handling it very well. I feel as if i'm slipping into depression and nothing seems worth doing. I truly loved this girl and was convinced that i wanted to be with her for life. When I used to tell her ...

My ex says he wants to move on. We have a child, but it seems he cant move on from me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 332 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - My ex said his moving on and going forward, so why does he want to contact me all the time? We do have a baby he does call to ask how she is, but when i finish telling him, he still wants to stay on the phone and have just genral chit chat....

Is it worth continuing to talk to her or should I just give up and move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 331 days ago

29 August 2007 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost 3 years and she never introduce me to her parents. I kept asking her when and she keeps saying not now and making excuses and such. Early this year we broke up for no apparent reason. She was ...

What should I do if I have come to a stage were we dont talk, hold hands or anything besides trying my best to clean the house etc and none of it gets appreciated?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 331 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - I have never had a child before, my partner has a son 3years whom we care for everyday, we all live together and the ex only wants my partner. She doesn't want to see her son. It was okay I guess at first only because I love the kid... but now my ...

When he jokes with me he he really wanting me to to do stuff, but afraid to come right out and ask?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 332 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - my question is kind of embarrassing but here goes i was dating a man last year and during that time we would engage in oral sex we have since then broke up but remain friends im still very attracted to him and think about him all the time but he is ...

Me and my bloke split 2 months ago, he's already met someone new and now i've gone and annoyed his mate. I've got to work with them both! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 332 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - I hope someone can help me out here as I am in such a mess. I know I will get through this but it is hard all the same. My boyfriend and I split two months ago and there has been no contact. I called him a couple of days ago to ask if we could meet...

Is she dating someone else or is it just hormones?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 319 days ago

28 August 2007 (M) - I have a pregnant ex girlfriend who may be seeing someone else. She won't even discuss us or getting back together. She just says it's over and I need to get used to the fact. Is it just hormones? Most of my guy friends think she has someone else ...

Is she using me to get over her ex????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

28 August 2007 (M) - I have been going out with my girlfriend for a couple of months now but have known her for years. The problem is one of her ex's. I was friends with her when they first broke up (5 years ago) and she was absolutley devestated, since then she's had a ...

I'm a teen and rumours keep splitting me and my boyfriend up...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 332 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - well.... i was with my boyfrind for a year!! and loved him and trusted him enuff to loose my virginity to him. i later on hered rumers goin around about him having sex with this older girl, i knw this girl very well she is very tom boy . not pr...

I want my ex back and she said she still loves me but I haven't heard from her for nine days. Why????

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 332 days ago

28 August 2007 (M) - okay so me an my ex broke up back in march '07 we were together for 2.5 years, why we broke up is not important, just that I want her back. We went out on date last Sunday, the date went really well, but at the end of the night when we went back...

My ex just split from his girlfriend after she cheated on him, he wants me back. What should i do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 332 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - Right my Ex boyfriend is in the army and he had a habbit of picking me up and putting me down when he felt like it. We split in December last year (just gone) and he was going to propose to me on new years. We dated for 3 and a half years. However ...

I feel so bad for ending it with my ex - he is completely devastated!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 332 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - I've just come through what has to be the worst few days of my life. i broke up with my boyfriend of 4 months knowing that the spark or excitement had never really existed between us. i know i will miss him but i can see that there's someone better ...

Every now and then I feel like I still love my jerky ex boyfriend! Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 332 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - i went out with this guy for 2 years and i truely thought it was love. anyways he constantly would lie and hurt me, one night it got too much and about 2 months later i started going out with a guy ive known my whole life and we have always had a th...

Me and my ex were going on holiday as mates, Now he's cancelled, I am so annoyed!! Should i be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 332 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - I have recently split up from my bf and we were due to still go on a pre booked holiday next week. We had recently become long distance and he wasn't prepared to make any commitments over the next yr so it was supposed to be an amicable split, ...

Why can't I get over my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 332 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - So I broke up with my boyfriend back in Febuary and we didn't talk again until this summer. Things started going really well and we started thinking about dating again. Or at least I did but he was acting like he wanted to date me again. So a few ...

The love of my life is married.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 333 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - Please a man's point of view I have a situation that is forever nagging at me. The man i love is married. We were friends and dated before he got married. It did not work out because we were neither emotionally ready for a relationship. Wh...

Me and my ex have an on/off relationship. I like another guy but i had a girlfriend. Shall i find out if he's still with her???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 333 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - Hi, i really need your help. I am a teenage girl and i have a problem i need help with. You see, my ex-boyfriend and i have this make-up, break-up relationship and i have no idea if i like him anymore. But you see, trouble is he still wants me b...

In a casual relation with my ex; does he think I didn't trust him, am I wasting time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 333 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - I have been having a casual relationship with my ex (from three years ago) for just over a month. He is 25 and I am 24. He wants to keep it quiet and have some fun as fuck buddies (knowing that I love him and want more eventually) and see how thin...

I can't tell if guys are flirting with me, plus ex problems!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 333 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - I have a few questions here. After being newly single after many years I am confused if a guy likes me or is just being "friendly". I have been in a few situations where I thought we were just "friendly" and then BAM! he thinks I like him or he ...

I dont know which guy to choose! If any!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 333 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - I wrote you because i was having trouble letting go of the man who dumped me for his baby momma. I had just gotten out of a bad relationship before the baby momma thing. Now the ex before the baby momma has asked me to maybe try again. I am really n...

Since i've seen him all my feelings have come flooding back!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 333 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - Me and my ex boyfriend have known each other since we were about 9 or 10 yrs old, we went out with each other when we were 17 years old for about a year and he was the first person I slept with until I met someone else a few yrs ago we met back up ...

He split with her then wanted to start seeing me but she is spreading rumours about me. Should i get with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 325 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - I started a new job working night shift about 9 months ago. I was trained by a guy (well call him Nathan) and we had so much free time we got to know each other very well. I am not in any type of relationship but he had told me he was. Nathan never ...

We split a month ago and I've tried dating someone else but cant get my ex out mr head!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 333 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - So me and my boyfriend broke up like a month and a half ago. we dated for a little over 6 months. I just cant seem to get him out of my mind. i started talking to one guy and he was really nice but everytime we were together i just couldnt get ...

She was blowing hot and cold so I ended it. How do you move on from someone you still love?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 330 days ago

27 August 2007 (M) - I just recently ended a relationship with a girl that almost lasted nine months. this is by far my longest relationship and i just need some help on how to cope with it. i did not want to leave her, but she was not sure if she wanted to be with me ...

We broke up a week ago and he's now ignoring me. I'm hurting. How should i respond?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 333 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up about a week ago and he said we would maintain a friendship. I have sent him a couple of emails about routine things and he is not responding. I do not know if I am more hurt by the breakup or by the way he has cut me ...

I'm tired of my brother being friends with my ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 333 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - Hi Ok, i saw a question on here earlier that drew my attention to my current situation and wouldn't mind a bit of feedback on it. My ex and i split 3 months ago now. I have no feelings for him apart from dislike and he is aware of this (i wont go ...

I meesed up with my guy, now he wont talk to me! Whats the best thing to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 334 days ago

26 August 2007 (F) - Is the saying 'If you love someone set them free - if it's meant to be - they will come back' - true ? I broke up with my bf for the wrong reasons and have hurt him, i miss him greatly and love him sincerly, when we were seeing each other he told me ...