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Archived questions from: January, 2015 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

Will I get hurt? He has troubles with his ex and he gets angry sometimes.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3070 days ago

30 January 2015 (F) - I met this guy a year ago and we have been dating since. We get on so well, and have become best friends. When we met he had just had a major surgery and was recently divorced. Since getting to know him he has had such a hard two years. He h...

My ex managed to hurt me twice and I'm really having a hard time understanding why

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3366 days ago

29 January 2015 (F) - Last year me and my ex broke up, I had put undue stress on the relationship which was completely ruined and looking back, it was the right thing for it to be over. However, he just blocked me out of his life, one day he said he'd speak but then he ...

How can I stop making my current boyfriend pay for the sins of my ex-boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3367 days ago

28 January 2015 (F) - [MOD NOTE - OP's title] My last boyfriend cheated on me and broke my heart. I never want to go through that kind of pain ever again. Because of this, I am having a very hard time trusting my current boyfriend. My boyfriend has done nothi...

Blowjobs, snapchats, and exes! All are causing me to unhappy in our 6 month relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3369 days ago

27 January 2015 (M) - Girlfriend and I have been dating for 6 months. When we first started dating she spilled her sexual past with me despite my reservations. Initially I hated hearing it because it was much more than my own but I grew to love her and respect her past. ...

He just doesn't get it so I ended it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3369 days ago

27 January 2015 (F) - I just broke up with my boyfriend over an argument that started 2 weeks ago. We were in a restaurant having a conversation and we started disagreeing on something. He started "calling bullshit" on what I was saying and when I tried to explain what I ...

My gf is a liar

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3368 days ago

26 January 2015 (M) - My gf lied about talking to her ex. I'm going to try to be as factual and unbiased as possible about this, and not include any of our history. For ease of explanation let's just pretend I'm psychic. Last night (Sunday), we're laying in bed an...

Should I be worried? He brought up an ex of his and mentioned that she's a porn star now.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3370 days ago

26 January 2015 (F) - Me and my boyfriend were talking last night and he brings up a friend of his that is female (and also his ex)that she said that she is a porn star now (which I think might be a fib I don't know and I don't plan on finding out). He tells me that she ...

Will my boyfriend cheat on me if we don't commit and have sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3370 days ago

25 January 2015 (F) - Hi there, I've been thinking all this while about my current boyfriend, who is 31years old. I am 23. Let me brief you all before i ask for help here. So, my current bf used to be my ex-boss in my previous company where I worked. He casually asked me...

Should I stop hanging with my friend, his sister broke my heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3371 days ago

25 January 2015 (M) - So I committed the sin of dating my best friend's sister. He was surprisingly very okay with it but I digress. The sister and I were really good friends before and she was in a shitty relationship and ended up leaving that guy and one thing led to ...

My best friend is dating someone horrible from my past! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3372 days ago

24 January 2015 (F) - Hey your answers in the past have helped me a lot so I'm here again with something new that I'd love your feedback on. When I was 15 I started dating a guy and he treated me badly over the 4 years we were seeing each other. He cheated on me wi...

Am I overthinking this or does he still have feelings for his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3372 days ago

24 January 2015 (M) - Hello to everyone reading this, I would like some advice please, I am not sure if I am just over thinking this situation or if there really is a situation here that needs dealin with. My partner and I have been together for four years and we hav...

I'm pregnant and the father wants a termination.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3371 days ago

24 January 2015 (F) - Im pregnant. When I found out my instinct was to become a mother not to have an abortion. The father wants nothing to do with a baby right now because he wants to move and continue to find himself as he will be 25 in May. He’s called me selfish, ...

Should I tell my family what my fiance's ex is like?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3372 days ago

23 January 2015 (F) - Hello.. Just need opinions on a predicament I have. I am getting married to a wonderful man this year, he has 2 kids from a previous relationship who I love to bits. The problem is his ex, she is a nasty piece of work, my fiancé had to go to ...

My girlfriend won't let go of her old FWBs and it's very hurtful. Do I need to let her go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3372 days ago

23 January 2015 (F) - I'm in a relationship with this girl, its been almost 6 years together, she's lied to me about serious stuff like old " f and @k buddies" she so claims them to be.. Which are dudes.. Our relationship there's no sex I'm lucky if I get any twice a ...

I want him to realize what he lost and change for me

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3368 days ago

23 January 2015 (F) - [OP's original title] I and my ex were together 5.5 years. We had some problems in december cause he get a new job so he wanted to hang out more with his coworkers including admins(girls).last saturday, first time after a month saw each other an...

I told him no contact and I blocked him, but he got mad. Should I unblock him to send him one last message?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 3372 days ago

23 January 2015 (F) - I started No Contact on Sunday so that I could start healing from my ex (of 10 months). Before cutting him off, I sent a one liner email saying "I wish you the best." Then blocked him on Facebook and erased him from my messenger contact list. ...

I can't get over the feeling I am second choice simply because the other woman went back to Poland

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3374 days ago

22 January 2015 (F) - How can I stop feeling second best? I met my boyfriend through online dating. I was on the rebound and he seemed ideal in many ways but mainly because he had no kids (former relationships had Young kids and the restrictions that brings) Very qui...

How should I tell my ex about my new girl friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3374 days ago

22 January 2015 (M) - My relationship is great with my current girlfriend but my ex girlfriend is still in love with me and we are best friends but how do I tell that I'm with someone else without hurting her because I still wish to be friends with her still but he...

After all this experience I should know whether there's a future here, right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

22 January 2015 (F) - I kind of already know what I should do, but I think I need people to actually tell me before I will accept that my arrangement/relationship with my ex just isn't working. So....When I was at school I met my now ex, we got together and wer...

He was in a FWB a few years ago with an older woman. How can I get over my disgust at what he did in the past?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3349 days ago

21 January 2015 (F) - My 27-year-old boyfriend went through a really rough time in his life a few years ago, which led him to make a huge mistake. He let this woman (10-15 years older than him) to throw herself at him and spend money on him just so that she could have ...

He has 4 kids by different women! How do I ask him about this? How to continue to love someone with so many children?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

19 January 2015 (F) - Dear cupid. Im 35 years old with no kids and never been married. Just met a guy i love so much, i went into his facebook account just to find out about before i can be serious about our relationship. To my suprise he has 4 kids with different woman ...

Will someone please help me? I feel the worst I've ever felt

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3377 days ago

19 January 2015 (F) - I became good friends with a boy a year ago and then we started behaving as a couple, we held hands kissed and cuddled we talked all the time. I really really loved him. A lot . New years day he slept with another girl. I found out from our mutual ...

Do I deserve his crazy behavior towards me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3377 days ago

19 January 2015 (F) - I've just broken up with my boyfriend, again! I desperately want to know if my behaviour is the problem because everything always seems to end up being my fault and I have to apologise. I was seeing him for just over two years and it's been very ...

My ex of 3 years has replaced me within 6 weeks

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3377 days ago

19 January 2015 (F) - After 3 years of being with my boyfriend from age 16-19 he told me suddenly that he doesn't love me as much as he used to and ended the relationship, he said he wanted to stay friends but I said I would rather not as it would play with my emotions ...

Are we obliged to inform friends when our plans change?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

19 January 2015 (F) - My boyfriend told me that he just wants to be friends, and I agreed. Last week, I told him that I would stop by after my weekly club meeting. He said great, see ya soon. The meeting was longer than I thought, but once it was over I offered to still...

He seems iffy about us and I suspect he has a crush on an ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3377 days ago

19 January 2015 (F) - Dear Doctor Cupid, So me and my boyfriend aren't majorly serious yet but he never compliments me unless i hint at it. I really like him but he seems to be iffy on us. I said i love you to him once and he never responded. I said something to him...

I'd like to stay friends but I know that'd be unwise currently.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3377 days ago

18 January 2015 (F) - Should you tell your ex you're going no contact, or should you just disappear? My ex and I broke up after almost 1 yr. We talked daily for about a month afterwards. Then he invited me to see him for some talk and possibly sex. I turned him down....

Is it worth trying again or should I just let my head rule my heart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3378 days ago

18 January 2015 (F) - I'm really confused right and now and need some advice please! So background : I was with my ex for 5 months when he asked me to move in with him. I know it was too soon but I was stupid and said yes. We lived together happily for over a year...

Is there a way for the kids to be in our lives despite his ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3379 days ago

17 January 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together almost 2 years and for the past year and a half his ex has been a complete nightmare. He has 2 children with her 7 and 3. The 7 year old has Autism. The first incident was when we met. She insisted on meeting me ...

Is it possible to desire somebody sexually this much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3380 days ago

16 January 2015 (F) - Is it possible to desire someone sexually so much that your body seems to lay almost restless cause of it? I dated this man, 10years older than me. Im 21, soon to be 22. I enjoyed the time we shared, to the point I liked seeing him almost every...

I broke up with her then find out she's pregnant

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3381 days ago

14 January 2015 (M) - Hi iv got myself into a situation.. iv been dating my girlfriend for near 7 years now and I felt our time was up.. I then had another girl flirting with me constant at work and over Christmas I let sometin happen with her.. I felt so bad that it had ...

I cannot compromise my morals for this man but we have about 90% of things in common. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3380 days ago

14 January 2015 (F) - I met a guy 5yrs ago and we became almost best friends for about 6mths. We went out one night with mutual friends, got very drunk after everyone else left and kissed. This happened one or two more times. Shortly after this I went abroad for a couple ...

Do I give it, and him, another chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3377 days ago

13 January 2015 (F) - Hi everyone! ... I've found myself to be in a bit of a predicament and I'm hoping someone can help me out. This is going to be a long one but I'll try and shorten it as much as I'm able .... Okay, I'm a 27 year old woman. I was with my ex part...

When is it OK to have sex with your ex?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3383 days ago

13 January 2015 (F) - When is it ok to have sex with your ex? I (25/f) dumped my ex (30/m) 6 weeks ago. He' s recently offered me a plane ticket to see him to catch up, check in on each other, and have a last time go in bed. Initially we were both excited, as I'd already ...

I unfriended his new Gf. Should I call him and question why my ex suddenly blocked me? We were on speaking terms.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3383 days ago

12 January 2015 (F) - Dear Cupids, I was coping ok after finishing with a guy I had a quick fling with and we remained friends on Facebook for a bit. However, I unfriended his current partner for obvious reasons and now he has blocked ME!! - and I can't cope!! I was ...

Ex boyfriend wants to take me out

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3385 days ago

11 January 2015 (F) - Hi, My ex boyfriend and I dated for one year, we never had any fights and truly loved each other. Before we started dating I told him that for our relationship to work, he ll need to convert to my religion. He promised he d try to learn more and...

My ex vs. my LDR -- can you love two people at once?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3385 days ago

11 January 2015 (F) - I've been in a relationship with my LDR for eight months. I love him and our sex life is amazing. We have lots in common and always have fun together. Sometimes though, I feel like he hasn't got much time for me. We don't get to see each other t...

The paternity test has confirmed that she is 100% his daughter. But he's been avoiding me. What is my next step?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3384 days ago

11 January 2015 (F) - I was in a relationship with someone then we broke up so I started seeing a new guy. The relationship really didn't turn into anything longer or what I wanted and so the first guy and I got back together. The first guy pursued more than the se...

Who do I choose: new boyfriend, or the ex who wants me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3378 days ago

10 January 2015 (F) - I was with my boyfriend for 3 years...we had the perfect life together, same interests, travelling the world together, he spent all his time with me and I thought he was the one, He proposed to me last year but had zero interest in the wedding, I ...

My fiance ended our engagement!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3386 days ago

10 January 2015 (F) - I don't know how to deal with this. I'm still dumbfounded. How could just a small fight resulting to my fiance and me ending our engagement. We are only 8 months away. I love him so much. I hate my mouth. I said things out of angry which I don't ...

Why would a man be so stingy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3384 days ago

10 January 2015 (F) - I (25/F) and Art (30/M)recently broke up from a 1 year relationship. The problem: he barely paid for our dates, even after I told him it bothered me. He wants to get back together, but I'm unsure. Art is a smart, sensual, and charismatic man....

Split with nasty ex and met great new guy, but feel sorry and sad about the loss of my ex and can't move on totally.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3386 days ago

9 January 2015 (F) - Dear all. I am on my way out of a horrible turbulent relatiinship and the last time I had sex with him I felt dirty and yucky. He knows it is over, and most of me is relieved. It lasted four long years. He is really sorry now, and bought me gifts ...

What can I do to make up for 13 years of not having sex with my ex how spicy can it get?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3386 days ago

9 January 2015 (F) - Dear cupid ,I think I am going to get my wish seeing my ex/daughter's father I am so happy yet really nerves I haven't saw him in 13 years I haven't had sex either within these years I have been celibate.What can I do to make this a hot month for ...

I'm so jealous of my boyfriend's ex that I don't enjoy sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3388 days ago

8 January 2015 (F) - I am so jealous about his ex. He was in a long distance relationship with her when we first met. Then he met me and we just clicked. He decided that we are a better match and finally he broke up with her. Before we started dating before he broke up ...

What steps can I take to help me move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3389 days ago

6 January 2015 (F) - Hi everyone thanks for reading or even just glancing at this . I am hurting so much at minute I have just found out that my ex bf who I still have feeling for is having a baby with his new gf. Is there any steps that will help me forget and move...

My husband is deleting texts from his ex-wife. How can I handle this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3389 days ago

6 January 2015 (F) - My husband deletes texts and calls from his ex wife, even after we've had discussions about doing this, and he said he wouldn't do it anymore. Also, I've seen texts where she sends him x's and o's. At one point I even texted her myself to ask her ...

My married boyfriend of two years is torn. He cannot give me up but he cannot leave his marriage. How do I handle this?

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 3389 days ago

6 January 2015 (F) - I have deep feelings for a man who has been married for 20 years. I have been with him for almost 2 years. It happened because I suppose we met at the right place and the right time and we had this undeniable connection... right from the very st...

Wouldn't he at least text me to see if I was home safely?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3390 days ago

5 January 2015 (F) - My ex and I ran into each other at a friend's house after not seeing each other for a year and 3 months. It was not planned at all, it just happened. We reconnected immediately and now we are talking again. We spent almost every night together ...

Confused about an ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3391 days ago

5 January 2015 (M) - Hey guys first time I ever used this site and I guess there is a lot to my question so I'll get down to it. So me and my ex girlfriend were together for 5 years and some change. We recently broke up a few months ago because of family issues ma...

She wants more than friendship, was I right to ask him to remove her from facebook?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3391 days ago

4 January 2015 (F) - My boyfriend dated this woman before me, they ended things about a year ago (he says they just dated, and were not in a relationship). In summer, when he first got to know me, she came around asking him to try things again with her, and he told her ...